I'm a christian with a huge sexual problem

All the stuff going on in the world I think god has bigger things to worry about then what you stick up your butt

if youre gay marrying a woman you arent really attracted to isnt going to solve anything. you will still have homosexual urges. the more you deny them the more they will persist.

I’m sorry you are having these difficulties. Unfortunately this is not a Christian website and you will probably not find very many in the comments. I’m female and don’t have the answer for you, but I do know that other Christian men struggle with sexual sins of all kinds, so you are not alone with yours.

Regarding the homosexuality thing, It’s my understanding that men who marry a woman to try to fix that in themselves don’t succeed, so I wouldn’t advise that route unless you are truly attracted to women sexually.

As you know, Christian denominations differ from each other at times in their views regarding homosexuality and sexual behavior outside of marriage. If there is no one you feel comfortable talking to within your denomination, maybe you could find a Christian counselor or pastor online to communicate with. Some of them are better prepared to deal with these issues than others. Or maybe better yet an online support group where you can discuss with other Christian men.

I sympathize with your struggles. As Christians we are taught that Christ and all that He provides is enough. In the struggles of our lives, that can feel untrue at times. Hoping you find peace and victory.

If you marry a woman and don’t tell her about how you masturbate, she’s going to Be a very unhappy person. You need to find out how to make yourself happy before trying to include someone else.

You’re not a “dying breed”. Being gay doesn’t make you any less devoted to your beliefs than a straight person.

Getting married to a woman is not going to solve you're problems . Matter of fact you're just going to add more problems in the mix .

You want to change you're ways then stop doing what you're doing .
Its that simple .
You don't want to have sexual thoughts then change you're thinking . When you have that desire then think about something else . Start up a hobby like golf or swimming , or woodwork .

If you think about sex then that's what you're going to want to do .
Think about something else . Help out in the church . Keep you're mind busy .

Dude. You're on the wrong side of 40
Just make yourself happy and your life will change dramatically. You deserve to be happy.

Well at least you're owning it...and not blamming satan or his brew of demons over the behavior.

Would you stick things up your butt if Jesus was standing in front of you? There's your answer. He's always watching.

If you're for real, talk to someone in your church whom you trust.

Also, try a Christian counsellor.

I have same-sex desires as a Christian and real-life contact with people in a non-sexual context really helps, whether they understand my condition or not. At the heart of everything is a desire to be known and loved, and to know and to love.

Also - cliché as it is - prayer and Bible reading really are effective ways to commune with God. The touch of God is the most healing thing I know.

The Scriptures have been badly translated for some time.
Don't believe me?.. They even covered up the Most High's name - Yahuah & changed it to 'The LORD' some 7000x.
The word 'Homosexual'diddn't exist in scriptural time.
The Apostle Paul (Paulos) uses the Greek word meaning "Male-bed" which may actually mean rape/molestation & not "homosexual".
Leveticus with " a man shall not lie with a man as with a woman" is an instance of a bad grammar rendering of ancient Hebrew.
It should read- "A man and a man shall not sleep with a woman together"... Thats an orgy M/M/F.
Two men with one woman in a threesome.
Most of the passages saying homosexuality is a sin are completely either taken out of its original meaning, or are mistranslated.
I personally don't think you are a sinner.
Remember we are Yahusha the Anointeds bride.. He is our husband.
Alot of straight men have sexual fantasies about him, but no other guy ever.
It's normal.
It's the world's best kept secret.
But-plugs are not going (In my opinion) to get you into trouble.
DO NOT MARRY A WOMAN UNLESS YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THEM ROMANTICALLY & SEXUALLY!
Because you & they themselves deserve better than to live a lie.
It never ends well.
Satan is the one who will try to get you to feel guilty & damned for being gay, or masturbating, not the Most High Yahuah our father!
The enemy has messed with scripture and changed it to cause hate and confusion.
You are loved by Yahuah & you are not wrong or unclean! He accepts you!
Pray, and let our father guide you.
Stay Strong
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I'm no Christian, but honestly if you like cock you like cock and you'll be happier for allowing your sexual urges to thrive. Suppressing those urges and trying to fake your love for a woman who you don't love will make both of you feel even worse.

Get a new church if you must, but stop believing everything you hear your pastor say. There is no such thing as "gay conversion therapy".

I think people just shouldn't feel as bad about being gay (or masturbating for that sake) and you certainly cant truly change it. If you could change it, that would have happened long ago and you need to realise that. It harms nobody so logically there should be nothing wrong with it. But I know christianity is against it. Im not personally christian myself

You're not saved until your works catch up with your faith. Your constant fornication must be stopped and, until then, your confessions mean very little, especially if they aren't directed toward a priest.

Probably a troll, but that'd be kinda hot if you're a devout Mormon or some weird shit like that. Hopefully your Christian wife is into taking that 'straight and narrow path' with you.