I'm a woman, and i enjoy anal sex.

For years, when I masturbated, I would fantasize about anal sex, it got me so hot. Well, once I got in a long-term relationship (we've been together 7 years now), I decided that it was time to test it out.

Turns out I love it ! I mean it will never replace "regular sex," but I enjoy it. And not just anal sex, anal play as well. If we go at it doggy style, I am begging him to use a finger in my ass at the same time. In fact, when I am home alone, and horny, 9 times out of time that I masturbate, I will use a vibrator anally while I do it - takes me about 10 seconds to orgasm (literally - no joke).

A caveat, though - I have to be turned on to really get into it. We tried it once just straight anal (no vaginal sex first), and it was kind of unenjoyable (and a little painful, LOL).

Obviously, this isn't a subject I'm comfortable discussing with my girlfriends. So I just want to know how common this is ? I guess I just assume that anal sex is something men fantasize about, not really women.

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  • gordana

    I'm 24yrs old and till lately I was afraid to try anal sex, I didn't even thought that I'll do it ever... But recently I had a chance to try it once, it just happened... And it was amazing! I had so powerful orgasms, soooo many orgasms in one night! I couldn't believe it was so good! Since than I'm practising it more often.

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    • Iloveanal

      Wanna practice with me? If so text me at541-2181954

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      • deaderthendead1

        are you a boy or girl

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        • Janet1957

          Woman

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    • Beginner

      I`m 25 yrs .. I like licking assholes ,, and spanking big ass till it becomes RED and then fuck a big ass anal hardly and roughly .. but i have no girlfreind .. so , what should i do !!?

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    • adeeee

      is n't it painful..

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  • JazzyJim

    Most of the women I've been with have loved anal, and latest sex surveys show that most women in general do too.

    If you like anal you'll love a dp. Really a natural next step. My wife loves them because they absolutely cause her to lose control. She becomes an absolute whore.

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  • Janet1957

    I love anal sex also. I am a heterosexual woman and I crave it. I will beg to be ads fucked. It is the best most intense orgasm I have had. I want your cock in my ass, dildos, fists and what ever . If you both agree and enjoy it and your adults. Then go for it. I never imagined I would become an anal slut.

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    • thehalfgoodgirl

      I’m an anal slut also

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    • sinsinha

      agree with you. .. enjoy

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    • ews

      How old were you when you first had anal sex?

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    • Beginner

      I`m 25 yrs .. I like licking assholes ,, and spanking big ass till it becomes RED and then fuck a big ass anal hardly and roughly .. but i have no girlfreind .. so , what should i do !!?

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    • loveanal

      I want to have sex with you so bad. I love it myself. Orgasms are mind blowing. Totally addicted to it.

      If you want to talk anal call 413505-4903. ;)

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    • deaderthendead1

      can you msg me i really need advice

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      • Janet1957

        What type of advice do you need? Sorry I am just answering.

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    • Iloveanal

      If you wanna do anal with me text me5412181954

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    • sweetie69

      you are normal. You are not an anal slut. You woman finding your sexuality more.........

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      • Beginner

        I`m 25 yrs .. I like licking assholes ,, and spanking big ass till it becomes RED and then fuck a big ass anal hardly and roughly .. but i have no girlfreind .. so , what should i do !!?

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  • Ursometal

    I used to just love the fingers and tongue in my ass, but now if he licks it first...I love a good ass fuck.

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    • Beginner

      I`m 25 yrs .. I like licking assholes ,, and spanking big ass till it becomes RED and then fuck a big ass anal hardly and roughly .. but i have no girlfreind .. so , what should i do !!?

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    • Iloveanal

      Wanna have anal with me? If so text me at 541-218-1954

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    • sweetie69

      I love Dick fingers in my ass more than anything else.

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      • Beginner

        I`m 25 yrs .. I like licking assholes ,, and spanking big ass till it becomes RED and then fuck a big ass anal hardly and roughly .. but i have no girlfreind .. so , what should i do !!?

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      • deaderthendead1

        i need advice please help me

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      • Iloveanal

        Wanna do anal together text me 541-218-1954

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  • debbieryan

    i also love anal masterbation and sex more,i started at a very early age exploring my hole and fingering myself at first i was abit scared but that has disappered over time, i found a man on the way to the public toilets oneday and he started talking and i walked into the disabled toilets and pulled him in by his hand, i kissed him and quickly pulled his pants down and put my hand on his cock so he would get a hard on, after his cock was hrd i bent over the toielt and put my arse up in the air and spread my hole and made it gape, we ended up fucking for about 2 and a half hours bareback and at the end he fingered me, 3 fingers and i pushed all the cum out onto his hand after he stuck his first finger up

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    • Beginner

      I`m 25 yrs .. I like licking assholes ,, and spanking big ass till it becomes RED and then fuck a big ass anal hardly and roughly .. but i have no girlfreind .. so , what should i do !!?

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    • Iloveanal

      Wanna have anal text me 541-218-1954

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    • buzigi

      Hi debbieryan
      I like that, that guy must have enjoyed u. I wish I was the one. I have never tried anal but I need 2 try it. I am supposed to use any lubricant?.

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  • xxMiss-Curiousxx

    Im 19 and with my first long term boy friend. I always fanticised about anal sex also. We tried anal once found it painful den again n i loved it. I think its pretty normal to like it, I think your lucky if you like it coz fellas seem 2 like it and iv heard other female friends say its 2 painful dont do it. I find vaginal sex 2 painful right now as im a virgin and i dont get anything from it when we try doing it so anal is a great alternative for now lol

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    • Beginner

      I`m 25 yrs .. I like licking assholes ,, and spanking big ass till it becomes RED and then fuck a big ass anal hardly and roughly .. but i have no girlfreind .. so , what should i do !!?

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  • Judgeofbros

    Totally normal.

    People enjoy various things when it comes to sex and anal is a pretty common act.

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    • sweetie69

      i agree

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  • duckfart77

    Yes, it is normal. My wife and I both enjoy anal play. Almost always my wife wants at least a finger in there while in doggy-style. We've also tried DP (double penetration) with another guy for her and she LOVED it. We also have a cyber-skin dildo that she uses for DP and she gets off hard core.

    It really helps her anyway using Anal Eaze (a product sold in sex shops that numbs the area enough not to feel too much pain). She really doesn't enjoy it for too long without the anal eaze and she DEFINITELY doesn't enjoy it unless she's really turned on otherwise she is in pain like you. She also uses her dildo on me and it's awesome and she loves doing it and wants to use a strap-on with me which I'm apprehensive about but I am willing to give it a go. If you have any questions e-mail me at dmitch77 on yahoo.

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  • naughtygirl19932017

    I love it it feels so good for someone to give it to me in my butt it just feels good and it makes me horny to know its in my butthole

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  • kesdog

    well i enjoy anal sex with my wifes friend who 22yo guy who is gay we started talking about it whats it like having anal sex to him and one day my wifes at work he said lets have anal sex i am no poofer but i alway wanted have anal sex so we did it and i enjoy it lots so i convince my wife to have anal sex but she had its only fair she wares a stapon to fuck my ass if you have lube and condoms and take it slowy do will enjoy yourself but if it hurts stop or you hear the word no stop

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  • aafan

    i have the opposite problem,I am a guy that loves anal sex,and my wife doesnt.In 20 years maybe 3 times she gave me anal

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    • ews3

      3 times more than me.

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  • pay2play

    My wife don't even want to be touched anally never mine touch me anally. She was more adventures before we got married s if I want some fantasy sex I pay for it,

    I'm sick of worrying that she may think I'm a perv I not but lifes to short not to never know or tried them out.

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    • sweetie69

      You not its normal. Introduce her sad you have to pay for anal sex when do many of us girls die for it.

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    • Noclone

      So, you cheat on your wife with a hooker? How does your wife feel about that?

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  • thehalfgoodgirl

    I love anal sex I like it very much in my butt, the first time I had it was when I was 12 ever since I was a little girl I always have put my finger up my butt and but when a boy stayed at my house we snuck in the same room and I told him all about it he was 11 he was a year younger than me but he said he loved girls butts and I pulled my pajamas and panties down and he was my butt and I spread it open and I let him see my butthole and he loved it then he put his dick on my butthole pushed it in and went slow it felt good and he fucked my ass more and more I reached back to spread my butt open so his dick would go more and more in my butthole I was just there bending over spreading my butt while he pounded my bootyhole it felt so great I loved it so much he gave me and orgasm I squirted and he cummed. I’m surprised he has sex with me in my butt because back in those days my butt would stink it still does but not like that I’m talking about poop I’m talking about stinky butt smell. After that his dick smelled like ass but he did not care we were nasty kids but he always asked to let him have sex with me me in butt after that time I let him he loved to see my butt and my butthole. Now I’m 24 and I still like it up my ass

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  • jaya003

    I'm Indian girl. I had anal sex with my boyfriend that was my 1st time and I cried a lot but now I'm enjoying it

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  • loveanal

    Anal sex is so addictive I think there should be a Rehab. Place so you can be weaned off of the ass. I have many dildo's and Vibrators and fucking love the feeling so much. My orgasms are mind blowing. There is a medicine I take called Mirapex and it makes my Ass literally tingle. I am so fucking horny for a dildo in my ass I am climbing the walls. I can't get enough of a nice shaved pussy with her cum all over my face. I like licking and fucking My GF's ass. Anything to do with ass I am for it. I am heterosexual if there ever was one. Ask your Dr. for Mirapex...RLS. Restless leg syndrome. You will be so fucking horny you will have to leave where you are and go get fucked, masturbate what ever. I used to like sex about 3 times a week now I need it 4 or 5 times a day. Masturbating too. If I'm watching TV, movie by myself I have to play with my ass. I need my ass real clean though. I'm not into having shit on my fingers. Enemas work great for that and really scrubbing your ass in the shower. My ass is shaved every shower. Hairy ass sucks. Anal is so fucking mind blowing. Anal sex with a woman feels better then vaginal sex in my opinion. My GF's ass is so fucking yummy.

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  • Natalie94

    I like anal sex. Although I prefer regular sex and giving a man a blowjob. Apart from my current boyfriend I've had anal sex with 2 other men. One guy I dated for about 2 months wanted anal all the time. He seened to prefer it.

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  • wifesass1

    why does my wife love it doggy style please tell me

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  • CrazyHorse6ty9r

    Janet1957 , I'm a teacher of , what you like , if serious , cause I take pride in what can still bring a smile to your face and get ya wanting a year later in reminiscing about the past. Let me know , and we can exchange #'s or email

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  • Crush_05

    Hi girls I'm a guy I only try anal once with a girlfriend I had. It was amazing.. I think anal is normal if the girl likes it... if any girl want to chat with me kik me Crush007

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  • q8xxxx

    my new girl take it all the way in her asshole !!!

    dost mean that she had been fucked in her asshole before ??

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  • hammer3333

    My ex girl friend liked me to fuck her ass. I enjoyed
    sliding every inch of my hard swollen cock in her ass, and
    shooting a nice big load of cum deep inside her.

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  • magic7

    My first girlfriend when she was 18 enjoyed anal sex especially when she was relaxed with a few drinks. I found that most women in the hippie generation disliked anal penetration. I think women's liberation had a lot to do with it. Yet on the other hand I never had a woman refuse getting her ass licked especially after I gave her pussy an orgasm. Several women were open to treat me to and ass licking proving to me that men can also enjoy it. One woman actually 69ed with me with her on top seducing me to do mutual ass licking until we both orgasmed. In the 1980s woman became even more liberated demanding their man to try anal penetration themselves with the strap on. I found that women would rather bend me over than receive anal sex themselves. Several women actually screwed me refusing to allow me to screw them. I found that women enjoy having their asses licked rather than screwed because they lack a prostate. I learned to enjoy a good strap on screwing our and was able to have a prostate orgasm. If a woman actually enjoys anal penetration she should demand respect making her man worship her ass with his tongue before he penetrates her. I also feel that if he is not willing to take the dildo himself the woman should refuse him entrance.

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    • naughtygirl19932017

      IT still feels good I love it in my butthole

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      • Mrseenitallb4

        I wanna fuck your wet cinnamon smelling butthole baby

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        • Bilover91

          I'm male and love my ass fucked strap on or real cock just fuck my ass good

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  • girlsassman

    anal is blissful

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  • outlaw3365

    excellent..good for u

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Who told you this was abnormal?

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  • mrcocklongstrong

    I lick asshole women of course. I lick from the front to the back like how y'all girls be wiping, I guess you can call it a type of wet warm tongue wipe. I lick right above the clit for a lil while too. Fellas, that's the spot right there, not too much but just a little here & there. But anal. I like it too. I can't stand to hear chics like "ohhh! I hate anal, that shit hurts I will never do that shit!". I'm gone as soon as they say this. I luv pussy more but that ass is a privaledge for us. All the holes. Sex is sex. Baby believe me I can take it there!

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  • normalo

    I am male and have not had the chance to indulge in anal penetration yet, but I really enjoy licking my girlfriend's asshole and fingering it. I really love the smell of her asshole and the taste it has. I feel like since this is such an intimate part of her it sums up all of her essence. It's something only I get to enjoy about her. I like to ilk her asshole without any preparation or cleansing because that way it still has its intrinsic taste, licking her asshole after a shower is still pleasurable but doesn't taste as good anymore. I also really enjoy fingering her anus, the filthier, the better - a few times I have been able to reach so deep that I came into contact with her fecal matter and it really turned me on. I like regularly licking off my finger or having her lick it off while fingering her, this way we can share the heavenly taste of her ass. I really hope that someday soon i will be able to fuck her tight little asshole as well, as I imagine the fact that it is so tight will feel very good, but I must say I can't imagine it being better than licking her ass, because for me in sex it is all about taste and smell and I love that about her ass.

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    • ews

      Have you had anal sex yet?

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  • Noclone

    Plenty of lube! Once you get the mushroom head inside your balloon knot, your ass will be so eager and suck the rest of the shaft in. Most asses can take it balls deep...

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  • Avant-Garde

    Wow. I read the title so wrong...

    Back to your question: It's normal.

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  • falconchick9

    .when i first tried it i was maybe 18 and hated it.i was pressured into it it with a ex. then me and my husband started dating and after a year we started talking about trying it and now we love it

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  • Jfurbee

    Im no Casanova but I've been with a few woman and not a single one has been into anal. Im into anal play anal sex and if its nice enough lick. Please tell me how to find someone into anal.

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  • Austalien

    Why is it hard for me to find a gals that enjoy it where do you hang out.

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    • sweetie69

      Nyc persuade your girl I love anal sex.

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  • magic7

    The first time I screwed a gf in the ass was 1970. It was quite taboo then but she liked it. Women my age are not open to anal sex except for being orally pleased during analictus! Several woman my age preferred doing me in the ass instead with a strapon!

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  • LF4sDLX

    Anal is the best & OP I loved your story! My fiance isn't addicted yet only can loosen up real good in the shower or when she's on top & I'm blindfolded. I wish shed let me tear it up in doggy style. I also love receiving anal myself from her strapon that i bought her or a close male buddy

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  • kwhatever

    I LOVE the thought of anal. I fantasize about being fucked in the ass a lot when i'm masturbating. But I don't think I would actually enjoy it. I don't even like the feeling of just a finger in there..

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  • Xanadu

    I've noticed that a few women I've been with over the years who claim to be 100%% against any anal activity at all will practically beg for it when they have had multiple orgasms and are really aroused. ...Especially if I was able to insert my tongue or a part of a finger into their ass while giving them oral. Once juices are flowing and that perimeter has been breached, they find out how much pleasure they can get from it and actually request it.

    However, I've only had anal sex - fully inserted and with me reaching orgasm - once and that was with one of my sister's friends, (we were both in our mid-twenties) and that whole day is a topic for another post!

    Anyohow, every other time one of my girlfriends (and one ex-wife) over the years has told me in the heat of passion to fuck them in the ass, I have lubed up, gotten less than an inch in them and they have all said that it hurt too much and to take it out. So every once in a while, I get begged/told to fuck them in the ass, only to not be allowed to actually do so. THAT sucks.

    My current wife likes me to stick my tongue in her ass or up to half of any one of my fingers; but actually having anal sex is completely out of the question for her. So...the years roll by and I just keep tongue-fucking and finger-fucking her in the ass until she doesn't ask for just tongue penetration, but (hopefully) asks me to slide my cock in her ass. I think she'd enjoy it.
    It's nice to hear from women who do enjoy it. I think it's normal. I also think that it's normal to enjoy it in the heat of passion and not enjoy it - even dislike the thought of it - when you're not all "worked up."

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  • dodongos

    I have no idea why the fuck I clicked on this story, but I just died a little inside.

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