I'm an atheist turkish guy forced to be a christian by his girlfriend.

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I pretend that I'm converted into Christianity but I actually act!

I love my American girlfriend however she is a little obsessed about religion and church. I think she might be a good witch hunter or pilgrim if she had born on medieval ages.

Anyway we are planning our future and our families even met. However one thing is the religion!

I act like a christian, go to church on every sunday and attend those rituals though never went into any mosque in my whole life.

I mean the idea of believing angels or a creator and afterlife is too comformist for human being. I mean I don't want to take it any more!

I know I'm not normal so click the button no!

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Any relationship where you have to pretend to be something you're not just to gain the approval of someone else, is not a relationship that is worth it. Having to lie about your true beliefs is a horrible way to live. Either tell her the truth or end the relationship.

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  • Dot123
    11 years ago

    I believe in the ancient alien theory.

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    • suckonthis9
      11 years ago

      Very close to the truth, but please do not call them "alien".

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      • Dot123
        11 years ago

        Space brothers.

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        • suckonthis9
          11 years ago

          No, not technically correct. At this point in time, they prefer, Very Highly Advanced Technological Civilisation in the galaxy L2 in our local cluster (VHATC-L2).
          Also, please do not consider them as 'Ancient', as although they are very ancient (but so are we), they are very much current.

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          • Dot123
            11 years ago

            Alright.

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          • Avant-Garde
            11 years ago

            How do they feel about the term "Extraterrestrials"?

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            • suckonthis9
              11 years ago

              Please do not use that term in reference to them, as that can mean any extraterrestrial life form in the Universe (of which there are many).

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    I don't understand why you are pretending to be Christian. Did you lie to her to get into her pants and now you have to live the lie?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Are you silly? I' love her, and we are not living lie. I thought I could change her fundamentalist opinions, however I see now prints of christianity is so dominant in her brain.

      I can't believe they believe there is a creature as Jesus or God, and she believes in angels.

      I tried to convince her by scientific explorer about human DNA and so on. I even have her watch Richard Dawkins's videos but no result.

      I think you had never involved love before, then you would understand you can't leave the person you love cause she or he has only a bad side or two.

      In the beginning it was enjoying going to church, however now it's booring deadly boring.

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      • Justsomejerk
        11 years ago

        But now you ARE living a lie. I see no reason to leave her, love should stand in spite of different beliefs.

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      • 1000yrVampireKing
        11 years ago

        You say you do not want her pushing Christianity on you yet you would just as soon push her to stop believing. That seems a bit hypocritical. You miss the point of church. It is to learn about god and worship. It is not a club to hook up and have drinks. It is not a playground. Church is Sunday school. Some people do not like school either but the point is to learn. That is the point of any church.

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      • 1000yrVampireKing
        11 years ago

        So she does not want to date a Muslim? Is that what you are explaining?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Are you retard? I'm an atheist. Which part of you don't understand you dumb!

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          • jim8255
            11 years ago

            sir, watch out ur language.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              11 years ago

              And who tf are you?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    why not find someone who likes you for who you are instead of someone who likes you for who you pretend to be.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Forced by his girlfriend.

    Grow some balls.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    You either need to come clean and be honest with her about your true beliefs or break up with her. There's no middle ground, only deceit, which will come back to haunt you someday. If you lie to her about this,what else will you lie about? How will you feel when you discover she's lied to you?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Ehh, yeah. I have known people to "convert" simply for the sake of a loved one.

    However, I must caution you about this. It will only get difficult from here on out unless you're fine with going to church and her religious expressions. If you ever get married and have kids with her, she will want to raise her children Christian and you may not be able to deal with that. If she thinks you're converted, it will be unfair to her because she had no knowledge that you would want it any other way.

    You really need to think carefully about the future here. Is the relationship worth playing along? Do you think you'd be able to raise kids in a Christian household and would it be fair to her to deprive her of that right?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      She is not unfair to her. I told her I'm an atheist an she insisted me, forced me go into christianity. Reconsider..

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        11 years ago

        Unless she threatened you with your life (in which case, you will want to contact the police in your area and get a restraining order), there isn't much of a way to force someone into Christianity.

        If you mean force as in she said "Convert or I will leave you" then she gave you an option. If you don't like being a Christian then leave her. I know you love her and all, but if you really don't like being a Christian then leaving her is all you can do.

        Otherwise, there really is no solution to the problem other than accepting that you had an option and you chose to convert to stay with her and just playing along with it. I'll warn you, though it will only get worse from here, especially if she is so intent on getting her way that she is willing to try to change you for that purpose.

        I'd be wary of someone that wants to date a Christian so bad yet isn't actually willing to go find a Christian.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Force doesn't mean only threatening life. We have 5 years old son and she tell me she leaves me and I can't see him if I'm not christian.

          This is total FORCE!

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          • NeuroNeptunian
            11 years ago

            No, that's her being a controlling bitch. She has no legal grounds to keep your kid and you need to take her ass to court or quit complaining and play the part of the good little Christian boy. Because those are your only options.

            There is really nothing else I can tell you. Be more careful with who you impregnate.

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  • suckonthis9
    11 years ago

    It is possible to love a brainwashed idiot!!!
    There actually was a person called Jesus of Nazareth who lived about 2,000 years ago, but most of what they say about him is twisted, distorted and corrupted from who he actually was.
    There actually was a creature known in various languages as Jehovah / Yahweh / Allah that persons in the Abrahamic religions (falsely) perceive as a deity.
    I would stay with her, as long as you continue to love her because you can help to keep her out of trouble.

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  • RogerBodger
    5 years ago

    You should spend a few months in the UK. If conformity worries you then you should meet people country in which Richard Dawkins is revered as a deity and which everyone is a Kafir and an ultra politically correct comformist, A few months of us will have you longing to hear your girlfriend's ruminations on Angels and Heaven. I'm a British Christian and I will tell you that when it comes to conformity your girlfriend and her family are non starters.

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  • iheartu2013
    11 years ago

    She should not force you to change, and you should not force her to change. She wants you to believe because she wants you to be saved and go to heaven, not he'll. She cares about you.

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  • ZitsOnMyButt
    11 years ago

    What tommythecat said. Grow some balls and dump her, or else your life will suck.

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