I'm attracted to my teacher?

I'm a sophomore girl in high school, and I'm strongly attracted to my teacher. I mean- physically- he's exactly my type, with short brown hair and brown eyes. But then his personality- he's so sweet, and kind, and he knows when to joke and when to be real. He'll tease us and laugh with us and he's just so easy going. With my tendency to blush when I talk to him, I think that he knows that I've got feelings for him, and when I pass him in the hallways after school, even with all the other students around us, he'll see me and just say hi to me. It's getting to the point where I dream about him at night? Is this normal?

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Based on 222 votes (197 yes)
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  • chewy

    sleep with him fuck the law

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    It's normal to have a crush. You're in 10th grade so you're somewhere around 16 and full of hormones. And he's what, 25? Older? It's fun to have a fantasy, especially when attention from a man gets your motor running.

    The problem is - then reality sets in.

    1) He teases & laughs with the studentS - yes the S is capital on purpose. He's like that with everyone, not just one girl. Sounds like that's his way of teaching.

    2) He says "hi" to you in front of everyone.
    IS is just you? Isn't he kind to other students too?

    Also, don't forget, you're in crush with him.... you're looking at him when he walks by. You're meeting his eyes. THAT may be why he's "singling you out" to say hi... because you're singling him out.

    3) He may not even know you have a crush. Just because you think it's obvious doesn't mean men will. Believe me you'll learn that one as you get older. By the time a man reads you and figures out what you feel for him... you've probably already told him bluntly and kissed him on the mouth.

    Do not equate age with a magical ability to read a girl's "tells".

    4) Even if everything else was wrong and he did know your feelings and liked you the same way back... where do you think it would go? Picking you up from your parent's for a date out and then grading your test the next day?

    Is that worth him going to jail for? Or getting fired over? Cos even if you were 18, if you were still in high school they would still fire him.

    And even in college it doesn't always change.
    One of my friends was a college sophomore. She had a really bad crush for one of her teachers. She approached him...

    only to find that he was kind to her because he was kind to everyone. And he was engaged to another teacher in his department.

    Dreams are ok, but ... sometimes being realistic is good too. Especially when you're getting yourself worked up over someone who is bound to tell you "no"

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    How old is he? Don't tell him till your out of school. that could cause SERIOUS problems. It's normal though. We had this social studies teach, All the girls swooned after him. So like i said, WAIT.

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  • Xixxi_Xorx

    I have thought of some of my past teachers while masturbating. I don't think it's particularly abnormal.

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  • ThatGirlll

    He's only in his late 20s, and he's an assistant football coach so spending so much time with the boys kind of keeps him acting a bit younger.

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  • BoredGuy

    typical.

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  • themysteriousblue

    There's nothing wrong with it all. Like others have said though, don't do anything about it. You need to try and focus on the academic aspects of that class...if you care for the teacher so much then surely the subject he teaches isn't all that bad. I have a crush on my Drama teacher yet act upon it only by doing well in his class. That's a constructive way to both win his favor and better your own future.

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  • 8b47

    Will you sit on my face and cum , bleed , piss , fart , shit on my face and in my mouth ?
    Then let me lick your twat and ass clean and dry.
    Let me suck your tits.
    Then sit on my throbbing cock in your cunt and ass and knock you up.
    Then suck my dirty cock and nuts.
    Is your cunt hairy or trimmed or bald ?
    Do you have a big pink clit ?

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  • 8b47

    Tell him you want to suck his cock and lick his nuts when they come out of your cunt and your dirty asshole

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  • i got my dreams but too scared on what the result would be because i know the one im in love with is married and has kids but what the hell dreams may come true

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  • SweetSherry

    Fuck him

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  • salvatorre

    It's normal, but it would probably be a mistake to take any action. I'm a guy and have been smitten by a few of my female teachers from middle-school to college, it's a natural thing. If you take it any further you risk his career and your self-confidence if he rejects you. Honestly, I'd say seek a partner your own age and save the stud of a teacher for your "alone time" fantasies. Almost all people have been attracted to a teacher at some point, and it rarely ends well romantically if tried.

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  • Painfulnote

    I say a little girl like you, should be studying instead of falling for teachers.

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  • tell him

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