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I'm just confused, so I was talking to this girl for about a month and she ended up rejecting me, cool whatever. Later she ended up going out and then she was telling me about a cute guy she met, starts to describe me but it's not me she's talking about. I kind of felt hurt at this so I left. A couple weeks later she just blocks me. Why would she block when we weren't talking anymore?
Oh goodness...well, how old are you? I'm 26, and I remember younger women and girls doing stuff like this. She knows you like her and thought you would stick around, and probably liked you a bit too, but wanted to play games. Once she realized you weren't the type she could play games with, she realized she messed up and blocked you.
At least that's my theory from the info given. There's a lot of guys I've met who have been a "default" guy for girls to fall back on when other guys treat them like garbage. Sorry you had to go through that.
If you get into contact with her again, just express how you feel. That's all I can say. Like I said, I don't know the whole story but that's what I'm getting from what you told us here.
I did explain as much as I could with as little detail as I could. Didn't want to make it too long. Thanks for your comment :)
Currently 21 she was 22. I mean I did leave first but I had to at some point if I kept feeling disrespected in that regard. She is a wonderful person just a couple things that irked me too much. Thanks for your sympathy, i feel pretty over it's just more trying to learn from this
I hope she learns as well. She probably didn't mean to hurt your feelings and didn't realize what she was doing would hurt you like that. Y'all are still young, it seems like typical early 20's dating stuff.
She probably thought you would still be her platonic friend, but that can be hard if you have feelings for her.
Even when we were just talking after she rejected me, topics of sexual nature would come up from her initiating it. Idk stuff like that just sent mixed signals about her wanting to be friends or not. Either way it became too much for me
Yeah...she probably didn't know what she wanted and thought you would stick around. There's a lot of young men who get strung along for a lot longer before realizing they should be treated better.
Hopefully she learns when a guy treats her nicely and seems interested not to send mixed signals if she *isn't* interested, and if she *is*, don't string him along.
Im married but from what I hear about online dating idk why anyone whos an average looking male does it. It seems painful to wake up everyday and see out of a million swipes you got no swipes and then you get ghosted daily. It cant be good for your mental health. No wonder incels are spreading like a disease.
Dont do the online shit just go out. Its easier to get your foot in the door if shes infront of you. Then just get her number and text her. You'll know usually if shes interested if yall are at a bar talking face to face.
Agree with the notion to go in person, i just happened to meet her through a friend and spent most of our time gaming together
It sounds like this girl was showing more than a few red flags. We often don't realise the toxic behaviours of women we're close to, particularly the ones we're interested in and ABSOLUTELY when we're young. I don't know you, your style or history with this person. Solely based on what I can glean from what you've said, I'd say you definitely dodged a bullet. It's good you're able to keep moving forward even without all the answers. That's a skill not everyone has. Hopefully you won't need to use it in the future. All the best to you!
Sounds like she expected you to be her best friend. That's the only reason I can imagine telling someone about a new flame. Either that or: she was drunk, she has no other friends or she intentionally wanted to make you jealous and you are a human with emotions and she wanted a different reaction.
A reaction like:
"Oh yay you go girl."
Or
"No, you're mine."
Or
"Cool maybe we can all hangout sometime" cause you and the dude have the same hobbies and she was trying to include you.
Sounds like she friendzoned you and then when you were hurt realised you weren’t over her and that the friendship wasn’t going to be viable moving forward. It’s a fickle age, that age, I remember it well, it’s hell if you’re sensitive. Try live as transitory as you can, keep getting yourself out there and making new connections, you got this, you can rebound
That's your suffering on your part and it's fine, but woe betide the jealous wrong man who keeps talking with the woman he met and gets a beating from her, and if you change your thoughts your feelings will change, this hurt is all in your mind, if you felt happy about it she wouldn't mean a thing and you wouldn't need her, just go up to her and tell her how much this stinks, I'm not such a fool as to give advice about just dumping a woman.
Fuck if I know.
Once while I was working at a health club this woman asked me if I'd like to work out with her sometime. She was cute so "this is great" I thought. So we set up a work out date. Then when she shows up she brought along her friend... Keith.
I never knew what that whole fucking thing was about. People like to play fucked up games. It was awkward as hell.
That's very odd behavior on her part. I wouldn't sweat it too much though, as it sounds like it's not much of a loss and she's a bit of an odd duck.