I'm embarrassed of having strong attraction towards asian woman

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I'm a white guy, and I have a much strong attraction to Asian women than any other. I feel that if I ever get married, it has to be to an Asian women.

But I'm very embarrassed and ashamed of this. It's not a slight preference, it's a very strong preference. I've never told anyone. I think my friends might suspect it. I've dated a couple of Asian women, not a lot. Then again, I haven't done much dating. I'm also shy and lack social skills.

I've heard that a lot of Asian women are willing to date white men. But I've also heard that a white guy being mostly attracted to Asian woman is a turnoff.

So, my question is not if it's normal to have this strong attraction. My question is is it normal that I'm ashamed and embarrassed that I have it.

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  • mouldiwarp
    3 years ago | pl

    “Yellow fever”. Sounds insulting.

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    • Inkmaster
      3 years ago | pl

      I thought he was talking about the disease at first.

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      • mouldiwarp
        3 years ago

        So did I.

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  • Jamie_Sulky
    3 years ago

    dude asians are hot, theres nothing to be ashamed of. Its lowkey sounds more racist if you think being attracted to asians is a bad thing, and something to hide.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    There’s a big difference between finding south East Asian women attractive and fetishising them. For example expecting a woman you’re dating to behave a certain way and like certain stereotypical things just because she’s Asian is fetishing.

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    • blinkeredharlot
      3 years ago

      Or using the phrase 'yellow fever'? Lol

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Now that I would never do. I would treat her like everyone else. I would never expect her to act a certain way just because she's Asian.

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    • Summon_Tufak
      3 years ago

      If she aint doing maths on the first date she aint no asian

      /s

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  • dernier
    3 years ago

    I'm a white guy living in an East Asian country. Over time, I realized that I'm more attracted to Asian women. My wife seems to be attracted to white men. When I look at porn, it's usually Asian women. When we pick out a sex toy, she always prefers the lightest shade.

    It works for us.

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  • thepuppet
    3 years ago

    It's just a preference and it's relatively normal. Thanks for taking out "yellow fever".

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    Unless you're attracted to kids or something, I can't see why you'd ever be embarrassed about your preferences. Most people have physical preferences - big butts, strong jaw, tall, dark hair etc. It is human.

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  • LloydAsher
    3 years ago

    Fuck who you want

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  • freakyman69
    3 years ago

    You like who you like why be ashamed. Im a white guy and i like hispanic/latina women more than any other race.

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  • trexagireve
    3 years ago

    Asian pussy is the best don't be ashamed

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Everyone has a type, or preference when it comes to physical looks. I don't have a problem with you as long as you don't objectify, or fetishize Asian women.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    3 years ago

    I regret using the term "yellow fever," so I edited my post.

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  • mayumayu
    3 years ago

    The problem isn't that you're attracted to Asians, it's that you use the term "yellow fever". Gross.

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