I'm not being accepted

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If I'm conventional that means people have to accept me, but they're not accepting me and I'm not fitting in and I'm pissed off, I'm not getting general approval, I'm being hated. People don't even recognise my morals are objectively real, that they exist, and that feeling I get from hate is a heavy, humiliated, sorry-that-this-is-reality feeling. The haters hate me 100%, everything I do, there's none of me doing anything without a hater telling me these putdowns about me, has it ever occurred to you that I'm a nice guy, that I deserve respect, that I should be given some credit? Give me a break! There's so many haters and they will criticise me a lot, I don't feel good around these people and I'm pissed off, I'm pissed off that I'm not pleasing people, that no one sees me as good, prim and proper and that maybe in my good manners and poshness that I'm established, I'm following convention. Of all the manners in the world anyone who lives with me is giving me hell, they're not letting me live a blissfully normal life, they're trying to stop all this normalcy whatsoever, they're attacking it, they're bitching at me every time I'm normal, every time I have no uniqueness whatsoever, when I should be a popular man who fits in. I don't get it, why do people want to grind my normalcy to the dust, destroy it, get rid of it? I'm a nice person. Reality is disgustingly obscene, it causes you to cry! It's disgusting, it's inconsiderate, it's horrible, everyone hates me and I'm trying to be accepted and people won't accept me, they won't let me be normal!

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Hans, you are accepted here.

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    • Hansberger
      3 years ago

      Woohoo! That's all the reassurance I need, sometimes the trivial or the simple things is what a man needs.

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      • Tommythecaty
        3 years ago

        Ok Hans.

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    There are always people who will accept you if you are willing to accept them as well.

    Ignore the haters. They can add nothing to your life.

    Find people who believe that you can do better... They will motivate you and assist you (even if only emotionally) to do better.

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    • Hansberger
      3 years ago

      Yes of course! Life's all about the confidence that you're alright. It's also full of preferences, you pick and choose your favourite selections and despite it being good you're not tied in to high standards, you're tied in to standards of man, I think and this is where I'm heading that what you want is commonality, someone who's like me. I know you're right and I think seeing the world as an illusion is an error otherwise it wouldn't be true what you're saying. Truth is mankind's wisdom if anything rather than weird wisdom. In USA wisdom is simply accumulated philosophical or scientific learning together with knowledge therefore to you wisdom is synonymous with philosophy. My wisdom is absolute income has a large impact on happiness, along with buying assets and the folk wisdom that you need to spend money to make money.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    3 years ago

    In some ways it's good that you want to pay attention to convention but the truth is that the people who are trying to get rid of your normalcy are probably people who love you and it hurts them to see you completely losing yourself in a never-ending attempt to figure out what's normal, which is actually the most abnormal thing about you, the constant chameleon act.

    You need to stop constantly changing your religion, diet, political views, wardrobe, philosophy, etc. to please other people.

    Figure out who /you/ really are and what you really think and feel. Almost no matter what you decide it will be more normal than being a chameleon. Then if people accept you, they're accepting the real you, and if they don't, then screw them. No one is accepted by most people. It's rare to even be accepted by half of the people. That's normal.

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    • Hansberger
      3 years ago

      Yes I see, but I made a new year's resolution to never change so change isn't likely. I'm staying the same as David Irving, a friend I know, and the wino by the bus stop, I don't want anyone to try to change me back to abnormal, I went back to my normalcy for a reason and was looking for a better life as a normal person. :)

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