I'm not into girls, but i am straight

I form crushes incredibly easy, I'm interested, and I find girls to be attractive, I was in love intensely for 2 years with my ex, whom cheated on me (twice) - and when I met somebody new, whom I started to feel like I may have even 'loved' - I couldn't 'get with her' because in all honesty, I have zero interest in sex.

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  • VioletTrees

    You might be asexual. Some people who are asexual are still romantic.

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    • jwhit

      me to im asexual

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    • theaverageatheist

      was going to post a similer thing

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    • TheWordWizard

      Yes I agree with this. You sound like you are Asexual.

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      • VioletTrees

        I'm not, actually. I just read.

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        • TheWordWizard

          No not the you the OP. I am saying I agree that OP might be Asexual.

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          • VioletTrees

            Oh, ok.

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    • IrishPotato

      No. He isn't.
      He himself said he's attracted to girls.
      Asexuals feel no attraction at all.

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      • VioletTrees

        That's not true. Asexuals can experience romantic and aesthetic attraction (aesthetic attraction is finding someone beautiful, but not wanting to kiss them, much like many straight women appreciate the beauty of other women), and some experience sexual attraction very occasionally.

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        • IrishPotato

          With attraction, I meant sexual attraction. Desire to kiss someone, have sex with someone.

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          • VioletTrees

            YOU mean sexual attraction, I don't think he does, because he specifically said he's not interested in sex. Also, you can enjoy kissing but be asexual. Kissing is not inherently sexual for everybody.

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            • IrishPotato

              Agreed.

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  • Skylae

    Sounds like you might be asexual and heteromantic. Sometimes people who aren't into sex feel the emotional side of romance a lot stronger than others, hence the falling in love very easily. Having said that, I'm basing this advo on things people have told me, not science or personal experience, so don't trust me 100%.

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  • redrocks456

    Asexual is the lack of sexual attraciton or intrest in sexual activities. I think you may be asexual. YOu can still be attracted to women but not sexually. And that is okay

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  • fartonmyface

    I'm a guy and I'm not gay but I am into men.

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  • incapable

    You got your heart broken. Its understandable.

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  • IrishPotato

    You're simply not attracted to this particular girl.
    Friendzone her bro, it's the best thing to do.

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  • killdatnigga

    sorryb bro but you may be asexual

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  • babygirl83

    Most guys find girls who like that sexy. So go for it...!

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  • Mason334

    I might think life's not worth it anymore

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  • Mason334

    He's not asexual he's just heartbroken his crush cheated on him 2 I wouldn't know what I'd do

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  • fjo5183

    I'm the same way. My exes cheated on me too, one with one of my friends. I find them attractive, but I wouldn't even think about having a girlfriend or a fucX-buddy.

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  • paigemaster1990

    My boyfriends like that, but we try to compromise and we will have sex about every two weeks

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  • BluntsRolled

    Some people just don't have sex drives, or don't like sex.

    You just needa find a chick like you.

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  • IrishPotato

    I´ve never gotten asexuals, maybe it´s because they´ve never actually had good, proper sex.

    Nonetheless, you might want to keep yourself from dating people who aren´t asexual.
    You´re going to end up hurting someone, or atleast make them feel insecure about themselves.

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    • TheSummoned

      "maybe it´s because they´ve never actually had good, proper sex"

      *cringe*
      You have *no idea* how many people say this...

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      • IrishPotato

        If someone would explain it to me properly, I might understand. So please, enlighten me. ^^

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        • xphile89

          An asexual wouldn't know what 'good sex' was if it hit them in the face. All sex feels exactly the same to us... boring

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          • IrishPotato

            I kind of figured that one out in 5 year time but.. thanks. Lol.

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    • we've had proper sex (not me tho i cut my dick off) we just hate the feeling or i at lest i do ween i masterbated that 1 time

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      • IrishPotato

        If you didn't like the feeling, you didn't have good sex xp

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        • i never had sex and i never will fighting is more fun to me anyways

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          • IrishPotato

            How is fighting fun in any way? People get unnecesarily hurt D:

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            • that's the fun part

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    That's weird. Sex is awesome and feels terrific. How can you be asexual?

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    • TheSummoned

      Asexuality is a sexual orientation.

      Some people like sex with girls, some people like sex with guys, some people like sex with both, and some people like sex with neither.

      It's nothing to do with the feeling or (as the guy who replied implies) "bad experiences". It's to do with the physical desire to actually do it.

      Not all asexuals are virgin, some have sex despite lack of attraction and some have sex just to see what it feels like.

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      • finallyyyyyyyyyyy someone who understands me! but i never had sex tho

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    • because it's boring and a waste of body parts

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        It's not boring it's awesome. There is more to it than plain intercourse as well. I love the taste of pussy lol.

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        • it tastes horrible and it is boring boring as hell

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          • GoraIntoDesiGals

            Maybe the ones you tasted were of questionable quality.

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          • IrishPotato

            You said you never had sex.
            You can't base a sexual descision based on zero experience.

            Shame on you, you're an embarassing to asexuals.

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    • acidlor

      Some people have bad experiences that make it hard to do that anymore. Like they might not even realize that it's happening. Psychological things like that happen all the time. I was cheated on by this one guy and he did it like three or four times, and then after breaking up with him, I didn't have sex for over a year. I was scared to.

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