I'm obsessed with ted bundy

He was handsome, charismatic and intelligent. The only thing to go on your con list is that he was a murderous raving lunatic when the mood took him.

Ted Bundy is a psychopath. Nobody knows who he really is. What you are obsessed with is the fantasy you have created for yourself about him. My advice is to stop thinking about him, stop doing research and quit breathing life in that fantasy of yours. Because that's all it is, a fantasy.

I have to say I'm interested to know why some people have a compulsion to kill. Did something happen that made them that way, or is it a mental disorder? I'm pretty sure bundy had a porn addiction, and that's why he became a killer/rapist. I don't like or admire these people in any way, but it's totally normal to be interested in knowing about their minds.

Your just a typical woman. Absolutely normal. The people that get the most letters from women callers are serial killers. Women still wanna marry scott peterson. It is a fetish but i cant remember the name, google it.

SAME

My brother says that I am obsessed with Ted Bundy. However, I am a student and I'm studying psychiatric health and I am completely fascinated by him. Bundy was raised in a good home, and aside from discovering in his young years that he was an illegitimate child, he had a normal life. That does not mean that normal people cannot have or develop psychopathic behavior, but think about other serial killers such as Jeffrey Dahmer, or just criminals in general, there is often an early onset stressor from family etc. that caused the start of some trigger. Was Bundy intelligent? Yes. Was he attractive? Yes. And he studied psychology in school which is ironic, but he used his intelligence and charm to lure his victims. He is my hobby, along with researching things about mental illness and other criminals, simply because I want to know as much as possible about Bundy and those like him, as I plan to one day keep society as safe from those people as i possibly can. THat being said, Hybristophilia or "Bonnie and Clyde" syndrome is a mental disorder that a small handful of people have. Those who have hybristophilia find sexual or romantic desire in someone who has committed outrageous things. If you are not romantically drawn to the thought of Bundy, and there are no underlying anger issues etc. that make you sympathize with Bundy's actions, I would say you are perfectly fine. If you feel strongly about your interests in him or they persist in bothering you, then maybe you should see your doctor. :)

Feeling like he is your soul-mate is not normal hon! He is long dead, and he murdered a lot of innocent and beautiful girls. I understand your attraction to him, some women have a primal attraction to danger, and he was extremely good looking. However, Ted was not normal and I do not believe he could have a loving and soulful union with a women. The only way he could get sexual release was in the violent death and rape of women. I am completely fascinated by him personally, but I never let myself forget what he is and what he did. I think a lot of it comes from your desire to "save" him, which is a very noble desire, but in his case, just not possible. I hope God had mercy on him at the end, but I really do not know. He was a tragic man who left a long path of misery and pain in his wake. You can do better than that hon!

No, it is not normal. Yes, violent inmates receive fanmail from hundreds of women, and even find women who will marry them but these women only represent a tiny portion of the approximately 150 million women in the U.S.

The condition is called hybristophilia and mainly effects women. There are two types. The first type is attracted to violent men, but do not participate in the crimes. The second is not only attracted to, but will also aid their lover in committing crimes. A common name for this condition is the "Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome".

I would suggest seeking professional help. Ted may be dead, but there are many other sociopaths who would love a chance to use you as their plaything.

This is pretty common actually, Bundy actually got married to somebody just like you while on trial. I'm pretty sure the same happened with Ramirez and Buono too.

are you female?

God I hate the fuckstick who pulls up old posts. I take time to respond then realize its old as fuck.

Show yourself asshole. I wanna beat you senseless.

I live in Salt Lake City. I have visited his old home here. I sometimes wish I could met him. And I know the only reason why I am feeling this way for him his because his mistakes. He's a bad person. I know that, but I can't help to want to have fixed him. I wish I could go back in time and give him anything and everything. But I do know I would have been dead like the other woman who he killed. It turns me on and I really can't explain it. I have never talked about it before and I know it's wrong. But I can't help thinking of a good life with ted.

Yes it's fine. He was smart, charismatic and was effective. He was a guile hero (villain) of sorts. And it's human nature to admire evildeeds Iif they're well executed (no pun intended). Just read Machiavelli's The Prince or Joly's Dialogues in Hell between Machiavelli and Montesquieu.

Listen don't fool yourself, this is NOT normal. He is a serial killer, he feels no empathy or love, he would just use you and probably abuse you and kill you too, i know you would like to believe otherwise but that's how life is. People who are psychopaths can't feel love or empathy and NOTHING can change that, it's a mental disorder, they just use people as if they were objects for their own good, it is NOT normal to feel that way towards him. If you somehow met him you'd probably end up one of his victims, thats how they trick their victims, stop being naive, just use some logic and think. It is fucked up anyone would feel attracted to such a bad manipulative person. Find a guy who does not dream about beating, raping, mutilating women and then have sex with their corpses. Wtf, that's as fucked up as it gets

The more I learn about Ted, the more I realize just how psychotic and cunning he really was. True Crime author Anne Rule was good friends with Ted and spent many nights alone with him on a suicide hotline, together they saved many lives. She never suspected anything bad about him and considered him to be a kind and caring man. When she found out the truth, she went into the bathroom and vomited. This is just one example of the many people Ted Bundy deceived. He was extremely dangerous and very, very good at thwarting the legal system. He was intelligent on a Hannibal Lector kind of level, but his arrogance was ultimately his downfall. He could have chosen not to give in to his monstrous side, instead he embraced it completely and found a way to push that side way down into himself in order to put on his impenetrable mask of sanity. He felt God-like and powerful when he killed.He was completely self-obsessed and narcissistic. He was an entirely new breed of killer who was actually proud of his celebrity status and considered the murders his greatest accomplishments. He is the prime example of a criminal mastermind and how evil depravity can disguise itself with great beauty on the outside. Not a good person to see as a soul-mate. I am not even sure if Ted had a soul.

I know people who are really fascinated by Stalin and Hither, two evils men, so being fascinated by T.Bundy doesn't seems to be a big problem.

Hybristophillia, perhaps?

I think its totally normal! Im the same way! Its creepy andamazing understanding the things he did

Serial killers get the poo-nanny? interesting!

okay so I've been reading about serial killers every since you posted this story! I came across this article which discusses the lure and attraction towards serial killers and provides different theories. very very interesting!

http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/criminal_mind/psychology/s_k_groupies/index.html