I'm overweight do you think i can still find love
I'm 220 pounds and I'm 5'7 I'm not very confident about my body at all.. I'm scared no one will ever love me because of that
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I'm 220 pounds and I'm 5'7 I'm not very confident about my body at all.. I'm scared no one will ever love me because of that
Probably but you should work on your weight because it's very unhealthy to be overweight so the biggest of your concerns is not wether or not you'll find a partner.
You sound like the average guy at my old high school & a lot of them have/had girlfriends.
I know a few obese people in a serious relationship, so yes. It would still increase your general chances if you got into shape though, more people find that attractive.
I guess I don't need to tell you about the health drawbacks of being obese and such, its your choice what you do about it. If you do decide to lose weight you must make permanent life changes, and not go back to your previous diet/exercise habits once your wanted weight is reached. If one type of diet doesn't work, try another one. Don't eat when you're not actually hungry or long past when you're satisfied. Make sure to exercise regularly, and google exercises you can do at home with no equipment. I think its important to have exercises you can start doing at any time
I'm classed as obese too and I can back this up. I'm in a steady relationship of 2 years 3 months. When I was only 10kg lighter and single I also had a few people that would flirt with me. It's all about your confidence. People dig that. Also having a confident attitude on your body might help you if you ever decide losing weight.
I believe that you could find someone that loves you. As long as you have a nice personality you will be fine. Its not about how someone looks.
Of course you’ll be able to find love. There are plenty of overweight individuals with a significant other. Take care of yourself you’ll be alright. Also exercising releases endorphins and makes you feel good so if you wanna feel confident, try exercising. Don’t even do it for the sole purpose of losing weight. Do it to feel good!
May be I'm very over wait no one has ever ask me out I think that is why I play with my self 😭💗
I’d be more wary of attracting the wrong type of partner. People with low self esteem often settle for an incompatible mate which can be very destructive. If you’re not happy with your weight then address those issues before looking for true love.
I'm 5'7 and have been around the 240 pound mark since I was 15. I've attracted men when I was the age of 18-19.
The key difference is how you carry yourself. I'm not saying you need to love your weight. It's about perception here, let me explain. If you perceive yourself as unlovable or feel scared no one will love you cause of your weight, then you're painting that image for yourself and others. This is why I got friendzoned in high.
I too have insecure parts of my body, yet I brush it aside and convince myself I'm beautiful no matter what. I tell myself I'm worth it. My confidence paid off as I have a loving fiance. We're both happy together.
Yes. I was significantly overweight when I met the person who became my spouse.
I also dated and had long term relationships with some that were also pretty heavy (so to say).
Love transcends that. Look at a person's character - and not their body to find real friends and love.
At the same time, pay attention to (and improve if need by) your character as well...
I wish you well with this,
My husband is overweight and I love him. He was overweight when we first met, and I was very slim. I still am.
In all honesty though he's not as heavy as you are, so perhaps that makes a difference. 220 pounds is a lot and you need to consider your health.
Sure you can. I've got a few extra kilos packing, but I never had trouble finding a date.
True, I have been turned down, but whatever... Keep going, eventually some hottie will say yes. Don't give up.
Girl there are guys out their like me that dont matter what sizes or weight I think you are sexy and will fuck you at night and in the morning cause I like the way body rub up against one another from rock hard dude