I'm sexually around by my sister

bE SURE TO ASK YOUR PARENTS FIRST

Easy solution: Fantasize if you want. (Everybody fantasizes about something or somebody.) But just don't act on it. There are all kinds of things we want to do but can't since they would wreck our lives. This is one of those things. And another thing: Don't flirt with her. It isn't fair, it isn't right and it would be dangerous. Other people sense these things. (Like spouses and others) So keep it STRICTLY as a fantasy.

It is not really normal, but I can understand how extreme this desire can feel. If you ever read manga, you would understand how the "sister complex" gets around. I heard from someone that, in accordance with evolution, human beings emit scents and pheromones that we become attracted to, but your family (ie your sister) carries the same sent, which should repel you. This prevents inbreeding.
I can say on a personal note that I do NOT find my brother attractive in the least, in fact I've taken notice that the mates I choose are the opposite of him. But we get along great.

I've heard of true stories of sister/brother romances where they were not actually related (adopted, different parents, etc) but they grew up together so it's still technically not socially accepted, which I think is ridiculous.

And about the masturbation thing you mentioned; are you sure this attraction isn't stemming from the fact that you may very well be a sexual exhibitionist? Sometimes puppy love will form around something misunderstood and only get stronger as you fight it... until you realized the reason why you like the person. But anyway as you said, keep it as a fantasy and make sure you're not around her when you're drunk.

I never had sex or even petting w/ my sister but the watching each other masturbate thing has been going on since grade school. lol

Ive been wanting to have sex with my sister for years. Im 18 and we are one year apart. I know it would be fucked up if I did so I wont. Ive been feeling like this since i was fifteen and i dont think its going to change. i guess you cant help who you find attractive and who you dont. also 'forbidden' things seem to catch the interest of human beings more. I wouldn't act on my desire but it's still there. So I think its normal to want it and have fantasies about it, but not naormal to act on it. NORMAL (in my opinion, but then again, i have the same problem :( )

fantasies are fantasies and it can be with anybody. I fantasized over my sister forever but never acted on it. You can act on it but only if you are sure she want to also. One way to find out is let her sit on your lap and if you get hard and she notices it, she will either gross out, start wiggling on it or something else or act like she didn't notice it.

I'm turned on by my sister...
What can i do about it?
Now i'm 1000 Km away and i'm not as long as I don't think of her, but when i see her on a facebook, she turnes me on.
Can't help myself.

I think it's not ABnormal! I have had sexual dreams about my brother, and for some reason, it didn't seem dirty or off-color to me, provided I'm not going to act on it. It's someone close to you, that may be physically attractive to you, and it's just a fantasy. Don't feel guilty about it, we are all just human and have urges and attractions that may not be acceptable in society, which is why we don't act on them. Hope this helps.

So I haven't been on here for a while....update.. My sister and I actually talked about this over Christmas...She said she might be interested in masturbating together sometime....so a few weeks ago we did....OMG!!!! It was so f'in awesome!!! This Saturday the wife is working the night shift at the hospital...my sister is going to cum over.....I have no idea what might happen.....but I am sooooo f'n excited!!!!

Since you've masturbated together I would suggest you masturbate each other. Have her lay on her back with you between her legs so that you can reach her clit and she can stroke your cock. After a few minutes doing this she will likely guide you into her. My brother and I started with mutual masturbation and moved onto fucking and it was wonderful.

First off it is not that uncommon. Wether you and your sister as two consenting adults decide to act out on this fantasy is up to you, your sister and wife. My girlfriend who very bi-sexual have been involved int the Swingers Lifestyl for 15 years now. After we were together for a while I told her about my fantasy about wanting to have sex with my sister and mother. I wasn't sure how she would react to it, but she was very turned on by it. We are very into role plays so we act this out in a role play scene. She act as my mom and she gets another girl to act as my sister. And we role play with me having sex and fucking both my sister and mom together very hot.

I fancy my half sister like crazy. There have been a few moments where I could have had her but chickened out not knowing if she wanted it. I told my wife not long after we met and she acted as my sister and the sex was hot. I now perv over my sister which is made easy as she has huge tits and likes tight trousers and short skirts. If you can get away with it then its ok in my book

You are a lucky guy to have a sister such as yours with whom you could have some sexual fun - in your case masturbating together. Next time invite her to give you a handjob, and offer to give her a blowjob in return. If it leads to something more, consider yourself double lucky.
As long as it is consensual, as long as both enjoy it, as long as it is mutually beneficial, and as long as nobody is harmed in the course of you and your sister interacting sexually (even if you should end up making love), enjoy it. Just make sure you practice safe sex so as to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
Sex has evolved over the centuries from it's original purpose for procreation, to it being practised for recreation and enjoyment between two people who both enjoy it.

U should fuck ur sister and don't tell ur wife

So what happend this story is so exiting

well I do appreciate the comments from you guys. The wife and I had my sis over for dinner tonight, I don't know, part of me now really wants to try to act on my fantasy towards her, but I'm afraid. I'm sure I will wimp out on this, but wow!! I want to make this fantasy a reality

Why did you let her watch you masterbating? That's just weird.
Just saying.

It's also normal because it's male and female. Same sex attraction is WRONG. if it was brother and brother or sister and sister that were lusting after one another that would be fucked up and plain wrong.

It's normal to be attracted to your sister. My sister is chubby and tanned skin, and wears a thong bikini and swims in our back yard pool and she's so damn hot. She goes to an expensive university, and the sad thing is most of the young guys are homosexuals and gays. That's too bad they're gay too. Why would these gay men reject a beautiful woman like my sister and rather live their homosexual lifestyle instead. My sister is so hot it's not even a joke it's for real. I love my women tanned and a little chubby and my sister happens to fall into that category. She was also the prom queen in high school and was even more attractive than all the beautiful blondes that were running for prom queen. Being skinny and blonde doesn't cut it anymore. Maybe chubby and blonde. My sister is Hispanic and chubby and so gorgeous. Those slender looking women who were supposed to win prom queen were saying mean things like "I can't believe that chubby pig won prom queen and not one of us". I could hear them talking behind my sisters back. My sister was popular in high school, but in a different way and was highly involved in all these activities different. They were just jealous because they never thought my sister would win prom queen. Wow, I thought she would never win prom queen to begin with either and boy was I wrong too. Were those other skinny bitches wrong or what? So yeah I do find myself lusting after my sister and her tanned naked body too. So yeah this is completely normal and your only human once in this earthly life, so enjoy it while you can.

It happens more often than we think. Some people are just so lucky to act on it. In my case, it was one memorable night. More than a decade passed and it is as though it happened yesterday. Incest is the best.

just get her really drubk and love her

Get it in !!! I did and my life could not be better bro me and my sister are close than me and my wife like we are one but our parents are dead tho but it's amazing her pus is truly the best plus it's just sex we do it ssssssssssssssssssssoooooooooooooooo well together

What's the update???

Not normal hun. Physically attracted maybe, but not sexually.

Wazup132 - I think that's hot! ( that he finished while she was watching) I think it would be really gross with a blood relative!!
I have to step brothers ( Not blood related ) and I've done stuff with one and the other always texting me wanting to do stuff. If ur family but not blood related I think thats fine but any other is yukky. Fantasize all u want!

Its very normal, because you got caught in a Taboo act. You either act shocked and freak out, or just say F it and keep beating till you are finished. Well your caught, and she made no big deal, just finish. The Taboo part is she watched and brought it to another level. That shows her interest in you as well, probaly sparked by seeing you Masterbating. Siblings catching each other is very common. Parents catching kids is very common. Acting on Sex with them is a differant story. The mind gets crazy when it comes to sex. Your eyes catching each other in a very intimate practice becomes an issue. Now you have engaged in a sexual act with her without even realizing it. Its natural to want to take it further, but you really shouldn't. Avaoid it, because the outcome is Full intercoarse and if caught, lots of therapy, and a F'ed up famliy. I would get her alone, and talk about your feelings, and put all the things that can go wrong on the table to help defuse it. The worst problem is in your mind, she caught you, and you feel the need to catch her to even it. Don't go there, not good!

I know this is probably not really related to this Q but think about it. I think it is normal to want to have sex with your sis becuse why does some brothers get so crazy and messed up in their heads that they rape their sisters. true story my mom was raped countless times by her brother.

KEEP IT A FANTACY and don't get messed up in the head.

about me I have had sexual activity with one of my family members. not rape we were curious. so we checked each other out. so dude it is normal.

Its perfectly normal if its a fantasy . And it depends on how your relationship was with your sister , Tell me about your family your parents and as there anykind of exhibitionism from her end. Did you see her naked in your teens ?

I feel it is wrong to have sex with my sister, but she has masterbated me the odd time. She likes it.

Oops I accidentally votes yes this is normal. Just commenting to let you know this is NOT normal and anyone who tells you different is just trying to justify why they like incest too.

Hi, you are perfectly normal. I am a 29 year old woman who suffers from the exact same feelings. I walked in on my older brother in high school who is two years older than me while he was masturbating. It surprised me, but I wasn't revolted. In fact I was a little curious, so I watched him finish up.

Since then we haven't really talked about it at all, save for a very few number of times. We live near each other, and are in contact, but not on an every day basis.

I would be surprised if he proposed anything, but I wouldn't entirely dismiss the idea.

It is totally normal. When we were little young young kids my little sis slept with me now and then and she felt it and played with it and ----. things happened. we had nothing to hold over on each other. best ever.

That's wrong and not normal, it is seriously not normal.

You are supposed to NOT want to ''reproduce'' with your siblings by instinc because incest gives disfunctional ''kids'' and are not good to the species. Even other animals don't do it because of that.

Never act on it or talk about it. What if your sister doesnt want to and think you're crazy and avoid you after that? And what if she wants to, cheat on your wife and break your family and extended family apart? Thats a no-win situation.

ps; sorry for the english ,it's not my mother language.

Holy crap. I don't have brothers I had no idea this shit happened. Sounds messed up to me. And gross. Is this really a common thing?????? My bf has a sister mybe I should be worried lol. But really, messed up. GL with the divorce.

Damn, u know wat? Im not quite sure how ANY of these ppl could say that being sexually aroused by yor sister is fine.. NNNNNNOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! EVEN IF IT'S A FANTASY, IT"S JUST NOT RIGHT.. See, u on some Incest type of stuff. And i would barelly be surprised if i saw 2 REAL-LIFE SISTERS makin out wit each other since i favor them lesbians, nahmean? lol.. But overall, a brother stimulated off his sister/sister stimulated off her brother??? Error.

I guess you are fine. I can't honestly say one way or the other as I my only family like what you said are two sisters and I truly hate them. However, keeping this short, I think you are fine. This isn't an ideal idea to have but if you love your wife, talk to her and be closer.

Hell, she might get a kick out of it.

All I have to say is...do people know how to fuckin spell??? I am sexually AROUND by my sister? Ok......? did you mean aroused...? thought so. damn...stupid people suck. and there are quite a few around. While i wasn't going to bother taking my valuable time to read any and certainly not all of the other comments, i gotta ask did any of you other idiots catch this 31 year old's fabulous typing and for that matter grammatical skills? didn't think so. :( and btws----the fuckin phrase didn't even make sense the way you wrote it asshole!

You need tolerance dude. For sure you need isolation from all these fantasies. If each single person starts doing the same, I think we are all calling for an end of humanity. Its a social death. So atleast dont start this provocative act. Try doing something else that makes you busy!!!

You're married now. Should have done her when you had the chance back in high school.

Masturbating while she sees you ASSHOLE she's your sister.Dude if it's only atraction,have sex w ur wife and get over it.

OMFG that aint normal dude.
Thats FUCKED up. LOL

This is not normal. You talk about not acting on this because you might ruin your marriage or relationship with your sister or family.....uuuuuu... what about how immoral it is. I'm not a judging person but I know this isn't normal behavior and you should seek some therapy to find out why you feel this way towards your sister. Good luck to you and while you are awaiting therapy try to focus your desires to your wife.

I bet lots of guys have been sexually aroused by their sisters and have fantasized about them. A few lucky s.o.b.s have gotten to do more than just fantasize. I never had any sister or brother, and wished I had. If I'd had a sis, I probably would have at least made a try for her.

if you believe in the whole adam and eve thing, then everyone on this earth is related...and if you dont believe in the adam and eve thing, then think about society hundreds and hundreds of years ago...brothers and sisters got married to each other at the age of 13, had sex, and had kids together. so really you're not that far off the mark. it's wrong in today's society, so i really wouldn't act on it if i were you.

Dude if u think she with it . "Incest is the best my sisters pussy is better than all the rest" trust me man the first time u is Soo terrifying and amazing . U have obvoisly thought about it her . It's a no brainier man find out if ur sister is ok with it . Ditch your wife or let her know and she can watch and be happy having sex with your sister every night and let's remove the stupid negativity surrounding it

Normal and fine. I messed around with my hot older sister, then we held off for years. One Summer gathering at her house, when I was married and fairly happy, she wore a way tight, low-cut tank top that just made her 36C tits explode out of the shirt. Was honestly the first thing I noticed when we arrived, along with the black shorts she had on. My brain immediately said "Look at D's tits!".

All day, just looking at her in that so-sexy, skin-showing attire, I was aroused and had to hide my erection several times. My arousal from her had definitely returned.

Even my obnoxious cousin said to me "Holy fuck, did you see those tits?". She had our full attention. And, I think, really enjoyed it. That tank top had to be one size too small on her.

Hey i to fantasy about mine..plan to act it out soon..i thi k its completely normal..i fuck my wife calling her mom..

You should go for it.I known I would.if she watch you finish is because she enjoyed it

i often fantasise about two girls i know taking it in turns to play with my dick and then do eachother fo the point of orvasm as i jerk over them
i personally find that pretty normal

i should have seen it earlier, the sheep at the top of the page, the talk about incest, this site is for rednecks! haha awesome!

Don't listen to these hatters it's Normal I find it to be hot to be attracted to ur sister do she like u the same do u know

Just don't get her pregnant. Poor kid

well u are very wise to look upon the greater picture of ur ACTOINS

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I ment she let's me lick her vagina not like it

i really don't think is normal... I know its normal if you had a couple of weird dreams about her when you was a teenager(cause of the hormones and stuff) but actually feeling last about her... its weird.(do you feel the same way about your mom?)

Gross.

Step-sister? Ehh, you didn't pick her to be your sister, so some kind of arousal is normal.

Real, blood sister? NOT. normal. No.

There's the expression, "Know the rules, so you will break them wisely," Most people can't or won't seriously contemplate or find a way to act against a taboo wisely. Personally, I admire your honesty and I suspect lusting for a sibling is more common than people will admit.. What would happen if your wife was ok with it? A menage? Unlikely favorable outcome, you three would have to keep it a secret, how would that effect family at large? With modern birth control and a sophisticated frontal lobe, the possibility is there.

It's normal, these fantasies are normal and sexually healthy to admit. Lots of men have them, I've talked to several, and I've had them myself. Men are very "visual" sexually, and there is little limit to our imaginations. Now, acting on them could really wreak havoc in your life, so, obviously avoid doing that. But next time you are masturbating, reenacting that scene, just smile and enjoy it.

take it slow. when you embrace her be a little extra affectionate. hold her a little longer, kiss her a little closer to her mouth or give her apeck on the lips. hold her by the hipps when you embrace. Don't be overt. She will let you know if she wants more.