I'm so tired of having people in my life who are utterly

HYPOCRITICAL!!!

So I'd like to ask about my sister first of all. I dont really understand her at all. She's changed into someone I don't know anymore. She decided to suddenly seek out a relationship,I feel to fit in. She is running herself into the ground.
She is on the go 24/7, has 2 jobs now and I see she is overly fatigued, trying to keep up the pace of everything.
She just got through some health issues and I just see her crashing before my eyes. It's not like her at all. She also is quite immature and seems to show it off a lot, I think to spite me. She also has "selective energy ", wants to go home early from work at times and get ready all to race over to his eben tho she was over there on the weekend, yet she has "energy" to get ready and race over there after an exhausting day and even fuck him by living on a pathetic pill.
Why she continue to fuck him?
When A) she says things like how shed rather hug than kiss so why fuck his ugly dick then and
b) She knows men think with their dick and if she wasnt putting out her dump her anyways. Good luck when she moves in with him and becomes a "pin cushion".
Does she NOT realise that she will have to suck his dick and screw him when shes overly tired form working every day, waking up to a hard on? What does she expect ? So its hypocritical she wants to fin work early. She made a fuss before lock down but she decided to stay with us instead of his fam, tells me my theory is right otherwise shed be over there for this month ? Right! So he also was butthurt she wasnt going over and made a sad voice when talking to her on phone , like guilting her, which thankfully didn't work!! Still, after lockdown she prolly be a psycho hypocritical bitch and carry this shit on but shes proven her point.
I mean her staying here with us for the month and not over there proves that - She's just doing it to look good.
I disowned her for 1 year like hardly spoke - Yet she didnt change!

Like he should be embarrassed by being so clingy! It's been 2 weeks and he texts every couple days and always rings like get a life, plus his mum and him wanted her to stay there for one month, but she didnt. She can't have both, I am only talking to her for my mums sake as we all live under the same roof but when she moves out I dont want anything to do with her fake hypocritical Face. It's a disgrace, and didn't even stop because I disowned her- Shows me she never even valued our friendship. She surely has hit depression by now with the way she acts truly. It's a miracle she sees what my mum experienced relationship wise, and sees what young females go through and not only that but listens to spiritual shit and preaches stuff like not seeking attention or happiness from the outside ,then she does a 180, and becomes contradictory to her bones

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  • RoseIsabella

    *yawns*

    You post about this all the time, the exact same thing, all the time!

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    It seems you are obsessed with your sister's love life. It's really not your business to creep on her like that. I can see why she stopped talking to you. You seem very negative. Not trying to hurt your feelings but you need to hear it to fix it.

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    • Lol I stopped talking to her! Shes the negative one who shows off in front of me

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

        Honestly she sounds very normal to me. She has a boyfriend. Its not that big of a deal! This is normal

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        • No not normal, maybe normal for a hypocrite who wants to fit into hetronormative society yes. If that's all you got from the whole situation u read you're going to have to take a look at your education level sorry.

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          • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

            Oh jesus christ... turn off the CNN for a few days

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            • CNN?

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  • bbrown95

    May I ask why you're angered by this so much? If what you're saying is true, then yes, it's sad that she feels she has to do things she doesn't want in order to fit in and keep her boyfriend happy. However, I find it confusing that you're angered by her being a "hypocrite" rather than concerned that she's possibly making herself unhappy to fit in with others. Also, I can understand the frustration of someone saying they don't feel good enough to work, yet feeling fine enough to go running around and visiting people. However, if she's an adult, that's her choice and if she loses her job from calling in sick too many times, that will have to be a consequence she deals with and hopefully learns from, and if she's still a minor, that's something your parents will have to deal with.

    However, I'm curious as to why you seem so bothered by this in the way you do. It seems like it's really consuming you. Are you jealous in some way, or feel your parents are treating you unfairly compared to her or something?

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    • Well it's a family business we work in amd my mum is easy on her if she decides she wants to go home a bit earlier just to hang and play video games or what not or get ready to go socialize with his mates!! Imagine if I did that and tables were turned!! She'd be PISSED at me and complain to our mother who's health isnt great anyways. She acts like a teenager, thinking life is all fun amd games. Sje should have been acting this way at 16,17, 18 not 21! She is meant to take responsibility, not only that but being anti men then intentionally seeking out a relationship to fit into hetronormative society. Sje skytes and shows off to everyone! There is a chick even at her works who said she doesnt even want a bf so god knows why she keeps the facade up!
      The fact she chose to spend ome month with us and Not stay at his and his parents home tells me she isnt that into the relationship or shed be there right now! She is going to go for 2 weeks if lockdown surpasses 1 month lol. Why?
      Apparently the reason as to why she didnt stay a month is cause she didnt want to stay in a room for a whole month (go figure). She told this to my mum who told me.
      Also, probably cause she knew that if she stayed ome month (since hes a guy), hell want to screw her more and obviously she doesnt want that or shed be there now.

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      • bbrown95

        That makes a lot more sense and I can understand why you'd be pissed about her getting treated better about leaving her job at your family business early than what would be expected of you. I agree, she sounds pretty irresponsible and it's not fair of her to lead this guy on.

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  • litelander8

    TLDR

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