I'm terrified of relationships/not sure about sexua what should i do?

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So I've never been in a relationship and they absolutely terrify me!! I'd say it's almost a phobia... I have no idea why it scares me so much but it just does. I know it's irrational to be this scared... but I am and I can't seem to help it. I also am not sure about my sexuality because of this... I could be asexual/aromantic or possibly bi or pansexual? I have no idea... I'd like a relationship/close bond, and I like the idea of sex with someone I love... but I'm not sure how that would happen.

Realise that I'm forever going to be alone 3
Live life as a single person and not care about being alone 2
Just wait and see if it ever changes 4
Have sex with both genders to see 2
Have a short term/non serious relationship then end it 0
Try having a firs relationship to get over fear and see what it's like 6
Do everything in my power to overcome the fear 4
Face the fact that I could be aromantic/asexual 3
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  • freespirit123
    7 years ago

    I suspect I knew at least 2 woman who are like this. I don't know what happened to the first one. At that time she was 24-25 years old. The second one she start to only find a partner at 34 years old but wasn't successful and has kind of given up now. Think
    you could try therapy and see how it goes.

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    Just relax. You might not be ready emotionally for a relationship yet. No need to rush.

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