I need a lazy guy in my life!

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What's wrong with giving all of your time an energy to a guy with no goals and dreams? I believe that as a woman we should be the ones to take care of these types of guys. They shouldn't have to lift a finger to do anything! We are the caretakers of our men and that's how it should be. We serve our men and nothing more. I don't care what anyone says. The world needs more lazy men so us ladies can have the joys of caring for a man!

Is it normal I feel like this?

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Based on 70 votes (23 yes)

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[Old Memory]

10 years ago | pl

Troll post??? If not...I believe that in any healthy relationship that both people should be at least splitting the effort 50/50....Whether it is paying the bills, cleaning the house, taking care of children etc. I honestly could not live with myself if I were to let a woman do 100 percent of the work to take care of me..I just could not do it. I guess there are some guys that don't care...

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  I pay MOST of the bills and he does play with the children he's not COMPLETELY lazy.
  
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gummy_jr

10 years ago

Lady WTF is wrong with you?

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[Old Memory]

10 years ago

If that's what you're in to, then go for it, nothing wrong with it, I am sure guys do the same with women in a lot of ways (financially, etc), so if a woman wants to do it for a man, I see no problem with it.

Personally, I like the idea of women such as yourself. Obviously not like I would want all women to be like that, however it is nice to hear a woman say that she would want to take care of a man rather than have a man take care of her. Quite opposed to gender roles, which I think is pretty cool.

That being said, I don't think it's how it "should" or "shouldn't" be, I think we can be people such as yourself if we like and not be if we so choose.

Maybe it is a bit extreme to say he shouldn't have to do anything, though.

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- dom180
  
  10 years ago
  
  I don't think her role is in opposition to traditional gender roles at all. My image of the OP was of a woman who did all the cooking and cleaning and housework, which is exactly traditional gender roles. She even used the word "serve", a strongly submissive word, which I thought was a dead giveaway. In traditional gender roles the men and women do vaguely equal amounts of working and caring; it's the type of work and care that is divided by gender. In her ideal situation, it would only be the man who wasn't fulfilling traditional gender roles.
  
  Totally agree that there is no "should" or "should not" about this, of course. Be who you want.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    10 years ago
    
    Well someone understands
    
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EccentricWeird

10 years ago

OP is an incorrigible douche.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Quiet
  
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  - EccentricWeird
    
    9 years ago
    
    More like a cunt.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Explain to me why I am then.
      
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LornaMae

10 years ago

Lol! I know plenty I can hook you up with!!!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Really?
  
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fatacus

10 years ago

LAZY SPORTS FANS, Assemble!!!!!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Come on over to my place sweety ;-)
  
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Unimportant

10 years ago

Hells yeah!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Preach it
  
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megadriver

10 years ago

Great. I hate doing laundry and dusting. Can you do those things for me. In return, I will drive you to the mall, or whatever. XD

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YipYipYapYapBagaBagaMooMoo

10 years ago

No one is obligated to serve anyone so women aren't men's personal caretakers and men aren't women's personal caretakers. We're Humans and we have the right to only take care of ourselves and help others IF we want to. It sounds like you have a severe confidence/self esteem issue. That probably explains why you want to be a servant and bow down to men. Please, for the sake of your personal well-being and the potential of having a good relationship, have some standards/dignity.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  Maybe I SHOULD change some things.
  
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gorillaphant

10 years ago

This just doesnt make sense to me. Why can you only care for a lazy person? Giving care isnt solely about who makes money. If you want to feel like a slave, thats youre prerogative. But lazy people tend to be really unhappy so you can keep that misery and pretend like you enjoy it.

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Vivien5

10 years ago

So basicly what you mean is that you enjoy being a slave and a man should do nothing to make your life easier. What will you do when children will come and yo'll have to wake up 3 times during night time and you'll also have to go work in the morning?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'm not a slave
  
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[Old Memory]

10 years ago

I know someone who is the perfect partner for you.
He is guaranteed to destroy the house, not go to work, not pick up after himself, ash on the floor and he even pisses in a cup in his room so he doesn't have to get up.

You 2 will get along great.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  He needs to clean sometimes
  
  Like if I have a broken leg or something.
  
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- [Old Memory]
  
  10 years ago
  
  Is he getting close to reaching morbid obesity as well?
  
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  - anti-hero
    
    10 years ago
    
    Not all fat people are lazy.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      Yep there are the ones who make a living of themselves!
      
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    10 years ago
    
    Suprisingly not. Nobody wants to let him live at their house though.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      He can stay at mine! The more men to care for the merrier!
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        10 years ago
        
        you should stay at my house and do my chores then.
        
        Im not even lazy and I work all day doing audio production and don't get shit for pay. I'd love to have someone to help me with other stuff, especially download me some passwords I lost for the hacked programs I use and learn to fix my electronics.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        10 years ago
        
        Ohhh that sound nice!
        
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        [Old Memory]
        
        10 years ago
        
        It irritates me that I work my ass off for hardly anything yet people do nothing and make a fortune. I do get ssi, which hardly pays anything, but I do as much as I can to produce entertainment even though nobody can even pay for it.
        
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[Old Memory]

10 years ago

How could you care for someone who was such a waste of oxygen. There is someone out there for everyone though! Good, you and your type can have the worthless (in my eyes) guys out there and leave the rest of us the men with ambition and strength. Win win, right?

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- [Old Memory]
  
  10 years ago
  
  Jeezz harsh...but I agree to a certain extent. What about all the homeless people? Do you think that they are completely worthless as well? It is hard for me to deem someone worthless...unless they just plain hurt people, kill people, and/or rape or molest little kids..then I see that person as human garbage.
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    10 years ago
    
    That was harsh :/ I conjured up a nasty male figure in my imagination, with lots of secondary gross characteristics other than being lazy. So yeah, harsh. Oops :P
    
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    - [Old Memory]
      
      10 years ago
      
      Oh I see..like Mr kakashka from hey Arnold or something???
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        10 years ago
        
        Have you seen the Walking Dead? I think of Carol's (dead) husband.
        
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        [Old Memory]
        
        10 years ago
        
        Oh...well I see a a huge difference between being physically and emotionally abusive and just being lazy with no direction.
        
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  EXCUSE ME! But no human being is a waste of oxygen so don't try to cross that path with me!
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    10 years ago
    
    I can think of quite a few.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      Well I guess you're right.
      
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    10 years ago
    
    Did you not read that conversation with ioncecamesohardicried.
    
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Holzman_67

10 years ago

*sings*
most people I know, think that I'm lazzzyyy eee eee

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NurseDiesel

10 years ago

Oh schtahp et.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  10 years ago
  
  No nastybirdy.
  
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  - Crusades
    
    10 years ago
    
    Stop blowing her cover! lol
    
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    - NurseDiesel
      
      10 years ago
      
      Don't be ridiculous. I've said who I was before so zip it.
      
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      - Crusades
        
        10 years ago
        
        oink oink!
        
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    10 years ago
    
    Oh behave.
    
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Thatguy777

10 years ago

Where are you? Marry me

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  NO
  
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handsignals

10 years ago

I have a feeling that the OP is a Dude.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  I have the feeling YOU are a "dude"
  
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  - handsignals
    
    10 years ago
    
    I'm 'The' Dude.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      I'm the dude
      He's the dude
      She's the dude
      CAUSE WE'RE ALL DUDES!
      
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Teh4HorsMen

10 years ago

Uh duh rah uh huh
(Translation: Ok, can you come live at my house?)

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beautywithin

10 years ago

Male is the provider for the family.They should work hard for the family. It is in the bible that you should eat from the fruits of your labor.I don't believe men should be lazy but hardworking and productive not only for the family but also in the community.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  10 years ago
  
  Men are not your personal utility, they're people. Their purpose isn't only to help others. And if you are going to base your views on the Bible, then you will have another thing coming when you get to the female and male comparison of what it teaches (Ofcourse, I doubt you will hold to that part, only the part that benefits you).
  
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  - beautywithin
    
    10 years ago
    
    Maybe you didn't get what I mean. We are talking here about being lazy so we should stick on the topic. What I have told that is written in the bible that we should eat from fruits of our labor that doesn't only meant for men but for all gender. Read again please. Thank you.
    
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Shroot

10 years ago

hi

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  10 years ago
  
  Bye
  
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  - Shroot
    
    10 years ago
    
    y u do this
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Because I can
      
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green_boogers

10 years ago

Definitely a male troll.

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PureLikeSnow

10 years ago

This troll post is brilliant, haha.

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  10 years ago
  
  Too bad it's not a troll
  
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thegypsysailor

10 years ago

Wow! I wish I'd met you before I met my gf. You and I would get on just wonderfully!
Actually, we have an extra cabin on the boat, if you'd like to join us sailing around the Caribbean for a while. With 2 gals I could be twice as lazy; I like it!

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wistfulmaiden

9 years ago

If you were for realz Id want you to be my girlfriend, Im a girl Id become a lesbian for you.
But I think youre a troll, sadly.

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I need a lazy guy in my life!