I once had 2 close friends and i noticed something odd

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So I'll call one Sara, and one Jane and we were all close as teenagers. So Sara and Jane shared a past of a dysfunctional family upbringing and drug use where as I was clean and only smoked weed and had a Good upbringing. None the less, Sara was slim like me and I found her nice looking and attractive in her own way, definitely not unattractive. Jane was a big girl, over weight quite a bit and plain Jane looking (no pun intended).
I on the other hand, at that stage in life were slim, tanned, blonde looking gal! At one point in my teenage years I did get a little chubby as I was on a shit diet and hormones but still yeah I'd say I was more attractive than Jane.
Anyhow, what I find really odd is the fact I saw a text on Jane's phone from Sara.
It were a text in the morning saying good morning beautiful what u up2 today or shed greet her hey bub wuu2?
I'd often be called endearing names like bub, babe etc but never was ever greeted as hey beautiful? I found that really odd and hurtful tbh? Also why address one friend as beautiful and not the other.

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RoseIsabella

3 years ago | pl

This this why you shouldn't snoop through other people's phones, and read there texts, because you might not like what you find.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  So? I want to know WHY
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    3 years ago
    
    They're probably just very close friends, and have a special bond, because of certain shared hardships, and life experiences.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Interesting, yet she told me
      "we shared an intense connection on the beach that day, like we inter connected, like we became one, sounds a bit like romance "
      To me, our bond was deeper amd stronger, so it's very odd she gave me mixed signals
      
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    3 years ago
    
    Makes 0 sense plus I was close to them , no one should be talking bad about me anyhow.
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      3 years ago
      
      Just don't snoop, and you will be a much happier person. Snooping is creepy. Don't be creepy, unless you want people to not trust you, and or you want to be friendless.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        3 years ago
        
        Idc! Her phone was at her nans place at the time and she gave me her phone to find soemgjign for her and then all popped up her messages!! So it's wrong that she calls her beautiful and Not me why? When I am clearly more attractive
        
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        RoseIsabella
        
        3 years ago
        
        Like I said earlier, don't snoop through other people's things.
        
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Meowypowers

3 years ago

Part of me wants jane and jessi to smack you for being annoying sarah.

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litelander8

3 years ago

I don’t see why it’s a big deal.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  It was to me
  
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bbrown95

3 years ago

I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds just like a term of endearment to me and nothing suggesting you're less attractive than her. Besides, it's very unhealthy to base your self worth and confidence in yourself on what someone else might think of you.

It could also be that maybe Jane is insecure about her looks and Sara knows it and is trying to uplift her.

Either way, I agree with Rose that you shouldn't be snooping through people's phones and private conversations.

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jimmyneutron69

3 years ago

You are thinking way to much about this. People get use to calling people by something, a nickname and do it without even thinking. Nicknames can start from anything. In hs we had a dude we still call ass muffin or "muffin" to this day just because one time he sat on a chocolate muffin with his white pants and it literally looked like he shit them with explosive gooey diarrhea.

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Boojum

3 years ago

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It's far from clear when exactly you saw the message that you found so profoundly traumatic. If it happened when you were thirteen, then your reaction was pretty normal since a lot of kids that age are insecure and still trying to figure out how to deal with people. If it is now many years later and you're still obsessing about how someone didn't call you 'beautiful', then that's pretty damn pathetic. It also sounds like the appearance of yourself and others is still a huuuuge thing for you. I suggest you try to grow the fuck up.

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GaelicPotato

3 years ago

So you're upset because your two girlfriends are into each other, and not you? Sucks, but move on.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  No that's not the case I retard
  
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  - GaelicPotato
    
    3 years ago
    
    Doubt
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Dude the fat chick was into black men are is straight as an arrow. Plus had stones ugly bfs
      
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PleaseTalkToMe

3 years ago

Helloo

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