I really want to kiss and have sex with her but...idk how she feels

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I'm 27f lesbian Basically

I met a women at an LGBT event about 3 weeks ago and she was super shy so I added her on Facebook and invited her to the next event with my mates

We flirted a lot and hung out alll night and she even grinded on me a bit, butt I asked her out and she said no romantic spark?

So basically I said forget what I said let's be friends and hang at next event she said yes! So I'm thinking she may get tipsy and flirt with me again!! How do I know if I can kiss her ? Or go further? I'll probably only have 1 drink and no doubt shell get very intoxicated. I just dont want to do anything that makes her uncomfortable especially when she becomes sober again. She's introverted and shy and so beautiful, polite and sweet. Do I ask her if I can kiss her or tell her I have a string urge to? Last time she grinded her sexy bootay into my crouch and if I had a dick I would have got hard. I guess I got a clit hard on lol. I kinda grabbed her waist while she did this but I wasn't sure if I was allowed to place my hands on her thighs or where else? Like be touchy feely? We danced a lot and I'd lightly rub my hands up her body lol or pull her in but stil I was so nervous what was comfortable for her. Also, I never had sex but I so badly wanted to take her home and experiment. She didnt allow me to walk home though sadly. So next time what should I do ?

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litelander8

3 years ago

She said she wasn’t interested in a romantic relationship. Getting her drunk is rapey as fuck.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Shes probably just saying that! I also didn't encourage her last time, she drank herself willingly! Shes the one whom flirted heavily with me. Just because she doesnt want a romantic relationship doesn't mean she isn't sexually attracted to me.
  
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  - litelander8
    
    3 years ago
    
    You seem very confused.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Nope just stating facts
      
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  - FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    
    3 years ago
    
    Its ok to get alittle rapey every now and then
    
    **CREEPY SMILE**
    
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    - litelander8
      
      3 years ago
      
      Nope. Woman actually get very concerned around dudes like this.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        3 years ago
        
        I'm not a dude plus shes obviously attracted enough to grind. I asked lots people they all said give her time
        
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        donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
        
        3 years ago
        
        wanna drink with me?
        
        i got a tolerance like an irish longshoreman and a big ole boner
        
        you should go drink for drink with me and see where it ends up
        
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Boojum

3 years ago

Sheesh!

And I thought all this uncertainty, ambiguity, second-guessing and game-playing crap was only something that happened in male-female relationships, while lesbians - being, like, totally in-tune with the female mindset - would have it so much easier.

Anyway, you're TWENTY-FUCKING-SEVEN, FFS! Why the hell are you asking for advice from a bunch of random, neck-bearded, parental-basement-dwelling internet dweebs like us?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  You're usually onto it
  
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  3 years ago
  
  Hahaha good question
  
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GaelicPotato

3 years ago

Might as well slip her a roofie at this point.

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  3 years ago
  
  Whats that
  
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FromTheSouthWeirdMan

3 years ago

Id go for it. Worst thing that can happen is she says no and stops talking to you.

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RoseIsabella

3 years ago

It's not okay to try to take advantage of a drunk person. If she gets drunk enough that you can just take advantage of her then she's probably an alcoholic, and you're opportunistic in a rapey way. ¡No bueno!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Haha tf! Why do people copy everyone elses comments?? Nor only is this stupidity but talk about p.c band wagon dudee. Think for yourself! I'm a women and that's not what I am asking. Re read my post or go back to school or better yet don't comment at all ignorant fool
  
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ellnell

3 years ago

No you shouldn't get her drunk and kiss her that's disgusting behaviour what is wrong with you. Either you accept being just friends or you let her go jeez.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Dude ready fucking post! God dont comment and waste my time jack ass if you're all gonna jump on the p.c band wagon. Think for yourself you dumb twit. She makes herself drunk and lsst time came onto me. Read English fucker
  
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sweetnsexy777

3 years ago

Just hang out with her and whatever happens happens.

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I really want to kiss and have sex with her but...idk how she feels