I really wished i had a partner by now whys it so hard to find 1?

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I tried everything to find a gf and I'm heading to age 30! I 26f and so tired of not being able to find a date let alone a gf :(
Also I see nerdy guys find a gf, lesbains find gf way outta their leagues and even my own half brother who's not even attractive found a lovely foreign women.
Any ideas why it's so hard?
I feel its extremely unfair as I have 0 experience inc 0 sexual experience and I'm starting to feel very insecure.
I had one amazing night dancing with a beautiful women, so shy and so CUTE! wanted to kiss her but at least got to hold her hand and hug her etc. She rejected me after heavy flirting 💘💘

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    I know this doesn't count as advice but honestly, it's pretty normal these days not to have a partner at 26. People settle down much later than they used to.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Really

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  • goyja-yearnin
    3 years ago

    self improvement is key :)) meet new people as much as you can without the intention of romantic dating
    becoming true to yourself will attract the right people :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Thank u

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    We know...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      😪😭😂

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  • LovelyGirl21
    3 years ago

    Well idk how you look or how you carry yourself. But definitely being around different types of girls we notice one thing first.

    -#1Confidence
    -Personality,Positive
    -dont be shy
    -dont be scared or timid
    -Be Yourself
    -Be Masculine
    -Open Hearted be Warm
    -Another great tip Hygiene please brush your teeth, floss, listerine. Take a shower, wash your clothes, no wrinkly stuff, fix your hair, moisturize your skin, take care of your skin, trim nails.
    -Smell Good!
    -Wear clean clothes, shoes and socks, have a good scent, use axe deodorant, 1 ir 2 sprays of cologne

    Simply take care of yourself exercise, eat healthy meals, get adequate rest every night.

    Love yourself dont try so hard, Remember don't "Search or Find"

    Love yourself live you best Life enjoy your favorite hobbies. Hang out with your guy friends socialize laugh have a good time, work on your Finances, get a car you like, have a clean nice place. Do it for Yourself and well being.

    Trust me, Girls will SEE you and smell how Confident you are. They will be attracted, and you don't need to be desperate or try hard to impress. Just be Happy be yourself.

    Cheers!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Thank u! I do dress nice, keep clean! I'm trying to be more confident and happy. I'm just a bit tired

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    I am sure someone will accept your love.

    It seems you are a bit pessimistic about yourself.

    There is someone out there who loves and would care about you.

    Look deep enough.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Thank u

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