I regret marrying my husband i want someone rich!

I think you are an ungrateful little bitch. Sorry but that is the way I see it your husband is doing the best he can to provide for you and its just not enough. I agree with V go out get a job and buy your own damn laptop!

You got yourself where your at, and if you can't deal with it get a divorce! Yeah do him a favor.

I am going to have to do something I normally don't do, shout and insult. Please excuse me

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WILL YOU SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU WHINNY, UNGREATFUL BITCH.

There, let me explain. ANything worth having in life is worth working hard for and I am taking a tax preparers class so I don't have to work in a factory until I am forty. I am busting my ass and I know anything WORTH having doesn't come free or cheap.

My girlfriend is a cow but I love her and I accept her. YOU on the other hand want nothing but free stuff and are unwilling to work for ANYTHING. Just because you are a girl does NOT mean you are entitled to anything GIVEN to you, you have to EARN it.

GET OFF YOUR ASS AND GO TO SCHOOL. IF YOU WANT TO BE RICH, THEN BECOME RICH BY YOUR OWN FUCKING MERITS!!!! Lastly, rich guys aren't great guys, I know, my family is rich and I don't like them. You will lose the few things you like for money and money goes easily, a decent person in your life with a good heart is very hard to come by.

Didn't Kanye West write a song about you?

Sorry but I must say love isn't all about money.

Sorry, I just hate lazy women like you. Just for the record: I'm a girl, I'm 27 so don't get hissy-pissy with me.

You should stop moaning and GET A JOB. Are you just going to sit still, letting a guy 'provide' (vomits a little in mouth) for you?

Sorry, I am just not impressed. 100%% Not normal IMHO. If he was my brother, I'd tell him to kick your butt! I'd consider myself lucky. Do you even know the value of the dollar? Mini laptops are expensive!

I'm sorry if I sound very harsh right now, but you should NOT rely on a guy financially. Not EVER. What will you do when you have accustomed to a certain lifestyle and he cheats on you with some chick and files for divorce? It will be so hard for you to adapt to a lower single income. It will be so very hard for you to start working againm because you are not used to it. You are still young, but you have to work to beef up your CV. You have to work and study as much as you can while you are still young.

Seriously, get a carreer and reward yourself by buying that laptop from your own money. It's very unfair of you to judge your guy when he's trying to make ends meet. You should marry someone because you love him. I can imagine it's hard to see your sister buying all these great things but honestly there's more to life than just money. You don't make out with your bank account.

Just my 2p.

TWO Words..GOLD DIGGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ask yourself this...Would a rich guy even have you? You might have to come to grips with the possibility that your no better that anyone else. You seem to think your entitled to certain things with little effort put forward. A grandiose view of one's self can be damaging. Most rich people got where they are with a lot of hard work and dedication. There are very few that would want a wife that does nothing but accept gifts and pampering. Most rich couples got together because they share common interests and goals. No ambition and being babied doesn't seem to fit in with a successful persons personality profile. Learn to be happy with less, drop some of your precious little needs, and toughen up. Your only setting yourself up for constant disappointment. Life's short, go with the flow.

This is the reason why you should go to college, have a career...work for a few years, travel the world...and THEN get married. but it's never to late - divorce him!

Ok yeah I agree with V there. Why don't you get a job? if you want something and your husband can't afford it then why don't u get a job and buy it yourself? If you have kids then I can understand why you dont want a job, specially if they arent in middle school yet, but if you dont have young kids that you actually need to look after a lot, then you should go out and work instead of sitting at home complaining that your husband doesnt bring in enough money.

But the sex is wild, right?

Your husband sounds like a gigantic loser. What most of the people here dont understand is that it is not really about money, it is about responsibility. Look at this spineless infraction of a man. He didnt even tell his parents that he is married (who does that?) and he apparently cant give himself and his spouse a comfortable life. He also doesnt seem to care much about her as he is clearly not respecting her or paying attention to her needs (emotional and physical). This guy is irresponsible and a loser.

Girl, get a divorce and move on. This person will never change, I promise you. Get out, live your dreams, write about them, explore the world, yourself, good people...get out of this marriage...believe me, when you are happy with a man because he really wants YOU, then you wont notice such things as little money and hard times so much.

You sound like you want to be a trophy wife, but I don't think you are the type.

You really need to re-examine your values. Stop comparing your life with your sisters, who seems to have all the riches. If you want to compare, look at the families where husbands beat their wives and children, molest them, and terrorize them on a daily basis.

You need to do your part and go out and buy what you want. No more waiting for your hun to come home and bring it to you. Stop placing these expectations on him and you will be happier. Go out and earn a wage. It will also take your mind off self-pity.

I decided that you shoudlnt divorce your husband cuz then you'll take half his stuff and be an even bigger bitch than you are right now. Instead you could work out a way where you dont take what he has and only take the stuff which you worked to get not what he worked to get.

Yes you should divorce.you got married in a way that you regret and you regret everything since. you do not feel treated to your just value and sounds like you have no feelings left for the guy. For your own sake and his PLEASE ASK FOR DIVORCE. This relationship sounds ALL WRONG.

It sounds like you did didnt you. You put him down because he doesnt earn much money you dont sound too bright yourself. Most people spend the first few years of marriage paying a lot of bills its hard all over these days. All I can suggest is you get a divorce and find someone else

I think you should also think about his chatacter as a friend. Spending good time together with a friend is more satisfying than an upgraded version of an iphone. Except that not having enough money for a haircut is really sad.

1) If he is insulting you that means he dont like you.
2) Make sure that you wont be worse off if you broke up with him.
3) A rich man doesnt mean he will allow you to spend his money.
4) Find a job earn your own money and be happy with it.

Bon chance!

Let's be honest women often want to be kept and taken care of . It's not that weird in fact it's natural. Do you love him or not ? If you don't then yes you should find someone like you're looking for. There are sites like Sugardaddy.com for meeting rich men. I often wish I had more money and that hot husband was rich but I love him so I stay.

do you fuck?

Women regard men as nothing more than a living tool - here is more proof - I would discourage any man who cannot buy his woman a new car every year and a big house and 100 000 dollars spending money per year - to not bother getting involved - she will never respect him but only hate him - its not worth it for the man to have his soul destroyed by an emotionless predator

Ok i cooled down a bit now. Heres the steps you need to take: 1). Divorce. 2). Get a knife/gun 3). Go into the woods faraway from society 4). Kill yourself. People like you just need to die, or grow up. I can see you wont ever grow up. Ever hear of getting a job? Not sitting at home watching TV and sitting on the internet on IIN? have you ever got him a present?? Like, wow. You were in it for money you dont even love him do you? Think before you marry someone. And actually no, dont divorce. Thats a sin.

Can Somebody Say GOLDDIGGING WHO*RE your going to leave your husband just because he's not rich he's working his ass off to support his family and your complaining you got problems

You spell like a dumb bitch. 'Dint' is spelled didn't. Rich guys only marry dumb bitches who are extremely beautiful. So if you are not beautiful then you'll never marry a rich guy. If you were smart you wouldn't have married someone you met in a chat room. It sounds to me like you two idiots were made for each other. Or you could divorce him and go live with your parents. Your choice.

leave him gurl!

You're stupid. You are just an ungrateful, useless fucktard who probably doesn't do anything but rely on others to obtain what you want.
The idiocy from you radiates throughout your comment so it's really difficult for me to be nice, knowing that you're a gold-digger and a loser.
You married some nigga who you met in an internet chatroom because he made money, and you didn't? Have you EVER made any smart decisions in your life?
You should've stayed with your parents.

Get a divorce, relinquish your selfisness, learn that the world doesn't revolve around you, marry somebody because you love him, not because of his salary.

Shallow.

you aren't happy. go to marriage conciliating. if he won't go, go alone. if it really isn't working out, get divorced. your still young and can start over. you don't have kids and there's nothing worse then staying in a loveless marriage because you think you HAVE too.

he sounds like a dud.
but are you just regretting it cause he can't get you a boquet of roses everyday? or are you bored with HIM and not his lack of money?

If you're seriously entertaining a divorce, don't take advice from a group of random strangers who have never met your husband and only have a paragraph-long rant about why you don't like him. You should be asking your friends, family, etc what they see when they look at your union.

There was internet dating in 2001?! Fuck thats old lolz.

You are very typical of girls living in capitalist country's. You most likely married for materialistic reasons such a relationship cannot last.

Such thing as material wealth are unimportant as when the revolution has happened the peoples government will provide you with everything you need

As our Dear Leader Kim Jong Il said "one can live with out candy but one cannot live with out bullets"

But then again marriage is a outdated,sexist and reactionary practice that should be outlawed for free love.

YOU GOT DO , WHAT MY SISTER DID,
GET OFF YOUR A.S.S AND GET A F-KEN JOB , THIS IS 2008 BE A INDEPENDENT WOMAN ..

YOU WANT RICH MAN , GOT GIVE SOME PUSSY FOR THAT BABES!!!!

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be treated nice by your husband once in awhile. Communication must be a problem in your marriage, but you need to express your feelings with your husband if you want your marriage to work, not us.

You are so pathetic its almost funny. This is why is say, women cant do anything. Theres the rare girl. But 95% of women are total... I want to swear at you right now and would if i could but my religion stops me. Errrggg!! Pathetic. Little. Fag. Ooooh.

Brake up with that zero lol find a guy that wants to take care of you and give you thing besides sex because you can get sex from any man !!!!

Look, I dont think he should have said,"Earn the money and get it" He could have just saved up and bought it as a suprise. BUT other than that, You are a spoiled bitch. My grandmother didnt even have a wedding AT ALL. And she is ok with it. You are literally saying,"I want more stuff because I deserve everyone to buy me everything and not have to work for shit" Thats what I hate. A man cant pay for fucking everything. Quit being a little spoiled bitch.

what you are feeling is perfectly normal!!! dont be ashamed, you are obviously a gold-digger, that is how all of them feel

It sounds like you got married without 100% wanting to. You also met and dated him while you were super young, which isn't for everyone. Some people really do need to give themselves a few years to meet the right person and mature themselves. A divorce is a really big deal and if you're at the point where you're talking about it this flippantly, then sure, why not. But make sure that after you are divorced and living with mum and dad that you go to school or build your career. Then find a guy that actually wants the same lifestyle you want. Or, you can work on your career now and save money for your dream wedding and go to counseling to work through your feelings.

Maybe u should study and be the rich one instead of waiting for some man to support u get ur shit together sista

Lets just say people like you end up in hell. Being greedy is bad for the after life. So, if I were you I would get a job and support what your husband does. Because one day you might be on your own and no one but you has to pay for all the expenses, and bills.

be careful what ya wish for. my sister is married to a plastic surgeon she has to write everything she buys down in an expense account. she catches hell if she is out too late with friends or if he decided she said something wrong at a dinner party or if he thinks she's looking too old.and people wonder why she drinks.

You seem to want to better yourself. Does he want to better himself ? are you both willing to save when you can spare to? You need to have this conversation and go from there. FYI when I was young, I lived in my car and worked at hardees.

Let's be fair here. I hear these same men bitching about divorcing their wives because they have gotten fat after hearing his children. That is just as bad as the "gold digger". You, like her , are supposed to love this woman for better or worse right? Put weight in place of money and then tell me if you feel the same. Double standards don't count and no, it is not different. By the way I am not fat, just putting things into perspective.

i can totally understand you, but you always have to remember, that immaterial things are much more important! it is definitely normal to forget that fact, but you have to remember yourself, what is really important. i know a laptop is useful, but does it make you happy? i'm sure you have everything you need to live and even much more. you can also be happy or even more happy, if you don't possess everything you want.
furthermore it's clear that your family provided better for you, because you were a child!! but now you're old enough to look after yourself!
if you are unhappy about the way you married then talk to your husband, it's not too late for a big ceremony!

Ok... Listen to me very closely.
Get a fucking job you ungrateful little bitch. Maybe your husband isn't rich, but he's trying his best to provide for you. So if you want a damn laptop so bad, get a job yourself. If you don't want him, get rid of him. But remember he loves you and he is trying his best to make ends meet, and maybe you should help him out.

Sounds like your in a rut of resentment I think some books like human intamacy and the five love languages and the love dare for a fireproof marriage I think your love tank is low and your not getting one of your love languages met like you mentioned you haven gotten hits from him that could be on of your communication of love to you that is lacking I hope you read those books and read them together. With your spouse my husband and I read them together when we were engaged and. The live language book gas a test in the back to see which is your love languages ranked 1-5 and the love dare is a book and journal of things you do for u your spouse and marriage and there is even a movie too so good luck.

Oh dear girl. Why don't you swap places with your husband. Why don't you earn all the money, why don't you see how much the bills cost and how much your husband actually gets, because you know what? If you don't pay bills, you could lose everything! He may not have told his family about you, but I'm sure he will soon enough, or they'll find out. Nevertheless, he's still providing for you, and I'm pretty sure he loves you a lot, other wise he wouldn't have married you. Other wise he wouldn't still be putting up with a gold-digging bitch like you.

Bitch, you a gold digga!

By the way beeswax, you may have had a or some bad experience(s) with women, but not all of them are like this. I have had an abusive boyfriend (my only experience). But I still realize not all of them are like this. I guess I realize this, because I have such a wonderful Dad. I am on SSDI because of my mental health, but I am not looking for a rich man just to take care of me. I want a equal. Someone to help push me forward. Because the way out of SSDI is through school. I am going to school in September, so I can get a teaching job and have the insurance to get my Meds. But anyway, my point is not every girl is like this one! I really hope and pray you find your one and only! This goes for anyone who thinks this way of women.

God Bless You and Yours.

You married married him. To death do you part ring any bells? You made a commentment. He is not abusing you or cheating on you. You made your bed, now you should have to lie in it. Too many people think it is ok to to devorce over stupid things. You should think about getting a job though, at least until you have a child.

God Bless You and Yours.

You're a bitch.

Signed,
Knight Nigel Wellington XXI

I'd marry you and get you the things you'd want, the material items all the time. "BUT", you're friends and family wouldn't like me too much I think. If you love him, material wealth will be just out of reach. Accept it for what it is.

HAHAHA a laptop is like 300 bucks!

anyway, all you have to do is divorce and find a rich guy that would love to marry garbage.

Sweetheart, take charge. If he's dragging you down, let him go. If you have kids then you were foolish but showing them they don't deserve to be happy won't help them any.

If you and your husband are doing your best, working equally hard and supporting each other then maybe you should fight it out.
If either of you takes the brunt of earning or spending then it will only spread resentment and that will destroy anything you have. Get out while you're young enough to still make a new future.

Fag! I absolutely.. I.. I Hate people like u omg wow u are so immature i cant stand it. You.. You.. Wow.

Hey, I ain't got shit except for some land and 10 broke vehicles :), 1 that runs, but the wife and I pay the bills, feed us and the kids, grow a garden,and make do with what we got. We are happy!

Yes that's it stay with him become a part time hooker/ prostitute leave me your number

I was thinking today, doesn't gold digger actually means hooker? get paid for sex and stuff?

yes i think you most probably did make the wrong decission.money isnt everything but it is very important.you dont have to marry someone rich just someone who will give you a good life for you and your kids.if this guy isnt willing to tell his family hes married then he has a problem.he should be proud to be married to you.your 25 you have plenty of time to know someone else and make your life all over again.so dont linger there if your not happy.your only wasting your time.

money**

lol BITCH love aint about momey you dumbFUCK if you really loved him you wouldnt even question your marriage

Do him a favor...get divorced! You are a self centered, envious POS.....money, money, money....what a shallow witch you are!

TL:DR

OP is a leech bitching about her host.

What's done is done. Sounds like you only leech from people.

Sounds like you want to be a Dependent more than a Partner.

For some rich guys sake I hope you never marry one...I would not wish a leach on anyone.

wow i have never seen sucha long area of comments but i gotta tell ya ....

You sound like one of those couples that didn't finish high school or something ... but that's not my point ....

The point is .. you want a rich man .. rich men never have time for you .. they're too busy making money for him and you .. dont' give a damn what's going on sometimes (for some) ... Anyway .. but it's nto all abou the money . it's about your happiness .. and so let ssee you'r enot happy because youd ont' get whateve ryou want and when you got the extra money it goes to some one else .. hmm .. that doesn't sounds good .. that sounds like he doens't care about you much .. (from my side of view)

So y' all are married and lets see .. his family doesn't even know it? Well .. oculd you have explained the whole statement better cause eveyr one got it wrong .. and formmy point of view i see a lot more problems than just not getting what you want ..

I'm not married but i have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now and i've lived with him for 3 1/2 .. here's the thing .. I get what i want .. but it takes a lot .. I can't work becuas ei'm disabiled (legally blind/deaf) and wel i can't drive so it jsut costs more to get transportation (especially aroudn this dumb small town) and you know what? im not gonna make any money so i have to get SSI .. but .. unfortunately .. my boyfrien dhas 2 kids (9 and 11 y/o) and they live across the country so we only see them .. like what once a year? (for a whoel 2 months) and it sucks .. you know hwat it's like? they're not even my kids and it's like ... i pay rent and some bullshit and then i gotta pay for the tickets for them to come here and for them to get home .. it's a buncha bull .. but guess what? I gotta do waht i gotta do .. i'm not happy with it bu tit's not all about the money . it's about who you love .. and if you dont' love him .. then you know he's not right for you .. and fix this marriage thing .. dont' youw anna tell the whole world your husband? what if you have kids someday? shit then that's when it'll get worse .. so make your decision now .. and if you're able to work (even though you can't get there) then .. go to work .. becuase you'll be much happier . :)

Perhaps you should get your lazy, kept ass off the couch and get yourself a job and pull some of the weight, instead of being a dead beat albatross bitching about how much money your hubby doesn't make.

What do you think, a vagina is an entitlement? This isn't the 50's, you know.

You need to stop pointing the finger like you are perfect, i grew up in the ghetto, came from nothing, i worked very hard to get were i am. I have a great husband and god has blessed me so much, we live an awesome life you know why? Because we support eachother in are goals. You need to be more supportive of your husband and stop putting him down. If the money problem bothers you so much then get an education and find another job and stop depending on your husband!

Huh, dumping your husband over money... YOU, my friend, sound like a "gold digger". My advice for you is too ask yourself, "do I love him?" If you do, stay with him, marriage is tough, but stick it out! If you say no, ask, "is it only that he is not rich, that I do not love him?" If so, you are what we call "arrogant".

God Bless
xx

Well it sounds like to me all you care about now in ur relation ship is materialistic things. . . Blah blah blah small wedding, laptop this, bills that. . . . No one forced you to be with him did they?. . . What about marry him?. . . . What you need to do is go back to the time when you guys met you loved him then. . . And it had nothing to do with bills or gifts or money. . . What made you fall in love with him then

You know, you where very stupid to fall in love with some guy in a chat room. WTF were you thinking? You didn't know if this guy was educated or not. You are a b*tch. Just get a divorce and marry a guy that can actually CARE for you. By the way, you are STUPID!!!!

you're a Horrible person for wanting a rich husband just because your sister has one.

get a job ur self u f**king cow it isint good u rely ing on someoneels how do u think they feel if they sore this GET A JOB UR SELF YOU BICH

Have a divorce with him if ur not happy! D:
I would hate to be stuck with a guy i didnt love

tell him it hurts to be told these things

yep i think u did chick. times are real hard when there is no money though... it just makes every problem you have ten times worse and harder to correct.

When you were young and were thinking of what you'd be when you grew up... did you constantly say 'I wanna be a PARASITE' endless times?

If you think he is poor... why aren't you rich? You just want a richer man? Why can't you work hard and become rich yourself instead of being a leech? Do you think rich men picked the riches in the street? It is all about hard work!

But if you have the looks then it is possible to be a rich man's trophy... for showing off to friends at parties. You won't get love am sorry.

If you are really after money, you could turn slut if you have the looks. You could make good money

ur problem is not the money. if u loved each other money wouldn't really matter, and y don't u get ur act together instead of relying on a husband to provide for u.. i kind of despise women like u marry rich kind of women. if your successful that will increase ur chance of meeting a successful man.. boo and yah

Wow its called get a divorce if your so unhappy. Also, get a job and make your own money, your a big girl now its time to make decisions based on what YOU want.

I THINK PEOPLE GET TOGETHER BECAUSE THEY WANT TO SUCCEED TOGETHER, DONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE ALWAYS THE ONES THAT HAVE TO MAKE IT IN THE WORLD, THAT WAS SO 50 YEARS AGO. LET ME TELL YOU FROM MY POINT OF VIEW GOING THRU SOME HARD AND DIFFICULT TIMES WITH MY PARTENER. THERES IS NOT A MOMENT OF MY DAY THAT I DIDNT THINK ABOUT WAT MY PARTNER WAS FEELING, AND HOW MANY TIMES A DAY SHE CRIED AND HOW MANY TIMES THEY WERE SAD BECAUSE OF THINGS THEY DIDNT HAVE!!!PUT YOURSELF IN HIS SHOES!!

Curiuos? if you Divorce your Husband and do end up marring a "Rich Man" and you fing yourself unhappy with something else who are you going to blame then? Take a long hard look in the mirror. This may or may not come as a suprise to you, but money is not going to fix your problem.

Civil Wedding, is that a common law thing or what. My state does not have a common law marrage thing but according to all of this tax crap I am studying, it is rather common and ACTS just like a real marrage. Or, did you get married at like the courthhouse?

Either way, it will be a huge pain to get out of so just work hard on yourself and become a better person, yourself. You want that laptop, earn it or find it on eBay and get it that way. Like I stated before, anything worth having is worth working hard for and this is something you truly never grasp.

yes u did :(

your 25. your young. find a Real guy

Marry Mr.Peanut. He's got a monocle!

Marry a millionaire. That is if he wants a poor ass like you. I am poor too and I know No millionaire would pay attention to me yet alone a leech like you.

Congrats, you've joined the rest of the dredges of society called "Weak minded, gold digging, empty headed, prostitutes".

well to be honest you sound so cold hearted all you care about your husband for is his bank to be honest if he is paying your bills he should be aloud to treat himself and you should get a job if you want your own things but as for the fact his family dont know your married he should be buying you lots of things to make up for that shit wedding you had if i was you divorce its the harsh truth

Well, no offense, but you married a guy that you met on the internet. [I dont think that was a good choice on your part, but...*shrugs*.]

Any way if you wanna dump him, do it. Don't let a guy hold you down making you unhappy, when you should be living life.

You only have it once ya know ;)

You married him, if there's no infidelity how can you think it right to just leave him? If you want change you've got to go make it. Talk to him and tell him you want your lives to be different.

there's nothing wrong with wanting to be pampered and if you really feel this way about him then why not leave him.
you ARE 25 after all, you still your entire life in front of you.
that aside, I'm not going to call you a money loving whore because I don't know you well enough, but I really REALLY hope you have more than just that reason for leaving him.

lots of people do stupid shit, like getting married young, and lots of people have amicable ends to those kinds of relationships. if you try talking to him about it instead of posting it on a anon-site like this you'd get more sympathy.

-cheers, ricky

While I don't think being married for money is right in anyway possible, I actually understand what you typed in your original message. So if you love him (doubting you do), set his ass straight, tell him its either you get a better job etc etc or I'm gone. If you don't love him, then yeah divorce him as soon as possible. Ugh I feel bad for you, these things eat away your soul. I have a friend who does things like this and it's just like shes not human to me anymore.

Get a job. There is no excuse for you not to be working, unless of course you chose to be a housewife. But if you have children, do not fob it off on them. My mother was working 3 months after I was born, with my father also in full time employment. There is no reason for you to not be working.

You're young and think matariel objects are going to make you happy. You have a void that needs to be filled and you will be spending the next ten years unhappy because you'll put yourself in debt and wont understand why your so unhappy after everything you bought. 10 years from now, you will still be unhappy. Talk to a pro and et a dovorce. This guy doesn't deserve to be draged down with you.

uhm ever heard of GETTING A JOB ? women like you just sit around all day doing nothing at all . AND THEN EXPECT SOMEONE WHOS DOING THE BEST THEY CAN TO BUY YOU LAPTOPS AND PAMPER YOU ? sweetie, this is REALITY not your fairy tale world . Please do him a favour and divorce him . You were only in it for the money .

You don't sound mature enough to be married yet. Get a divorce, go get a job, some education, support yourself for a while until you grow up a bit. Then meet someone. In real life.

You never really mention in your story if you love your husband. It sounds like to me that your more interested in money then marrige since you mentioned your sister being engaged to a rich man. I think that you should leave this man because you are obviously not happy and maybe do something for yourself for awhile, you said your family can support you better then he could. And if you do plan to marry again you should make sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with this man. I think that you are completely normal I mean common you didn't have a decent wedding?! Now, that's unexceptable if you ask me. and they dont have to be expensive so that is not an excuse either. Leave him. =]

Well, marriage is about love, understandment, passion etc. It's not about how rich someone might be. If you don't love this man, then I suggest a divorce. Don't cheat, that would be way worse. But, what if you found a rich guy who you didn't love and treated you badly? What's worse? A life filled with money? Or love? Example: Before my mother had me, she was engaged to a rich man. He was handsome and smart. But he wanted way too many kids. And he wanted to move to Mexico. But, my mother realized that she didn't love him. About three years later, she found my dad and loved him and married him. So basically she chose the life filled with love, not greed. Do I think you're normal for thinking this? Of course. A lot of women do. Just do what is best for you. Who knows? Maybe the guy you fall in love with, may be rich.

Hmm, i Reckon... That iPod's should have Condom dispencers... Any thoughts?

instead of ragging on your poor husband and wishing for something you can't have, why don't you just appreciate that he actually has a job and pays the bills.

poor you, not going to the salon in so long, your life fucking sucks i guess. the toughest times in our lives help bring out who we really are, and you're showing everyone that the real you is selfish, materialistic, and bitchy.

This seems to be an arrangement nobody really thought through. Both of you were completely retarded to get married so young/fast/under the circumstances.

GET A DIVORCE and move on. Try to learn something from this and don't repeat it.

did he act like this before the marriage?
did you think he was gunna chnage, and gett moneyy?

money shouldnt be tht important to you, to divorce.
if there isnt love, divorce before kids come into the picture.

You sound like an extremely materialistic, superficial person. All that you have to say about your marriage is that you don't respect your husband because of his mediocre earning capacity? I'm not trying to offend you, merely trying to be honest.

Take a minute to think about this fact: people with lots of money are NOT any happier than people with moderate amounts of money. In fact, rich people kill themselves more often than middle class people. Assuming you have enough to have your basic needs met, additional money will not make your life any more satisfying.

That being said, I'm sure you disagree with me, which is fine. So you should carefully analyze your next step. First determine if you are attractive enough to dupe a rich man who is as superficial as you into marriage. Be objective when thinking about these factors: do you have a nice figure, what do you weight, is your face pretty, are you at least college educated, what is your IQ? The higher you rate on these questions, the more likely your superficial needs will best be served by divorcing your poor husband and finding some rich guy who wants nothing more than a trophy wife to spend money on.

Unfortunately for you, my impression is that you are not very intelligent. The combination of low intelligence and rampant superficiality is harsh, because you likely will not be able to devise a master plan whereby you can leech off of a man's hard work, much less effectively pull the plan off.

My advice: start doing something useful with your time so you develop some self confidence. Read Atlas Shrugged, procure a meaningful job, do volunteer work, or even just exercise regularly; these steps will help you begin to feel like you are worth something and will lessen your tendency to rely on material things to fill the void within. Best of luck.

I do not feel sorry for you. At all. If you want expensive shit, get a fucking job, you lazy bitch. I hate it when women depend on a man for everything and can't do shit for themselves. It's weak. I can tell you are weak. Here's a thought, take your ass back to school, you need to. You need to learn how to write.
Also, I know plenty of people on here are telling you to get a divorce, but you won't do it. You won't do anything. You are just here to get someone to pity you so you can feel better. You're not going to get that from me.
You are 25, and you talk as if you can't support yourself. WTF!? You shouldn't need your husband OR your parents to support you at that age. Pathetic.
Most importantly, THAT'S WHAT YOU GET for being an idiot. People rush into marriage all the time. Then they are unhappy, they end up getting hurt or hurting someone else. Think before you make a major decision. I don't understand how someone can stay in a shitty relationship, let alone make it worse by marrying that person. This doesn't sound like it started out great, it sounds like you were young and dumb, (still dumb, not so young anymore) and made a stupid choice. FIX IT YOUR DAMN SELF.

The author of this topic is the kind of people that people with a very large bank account do their best, I guess, to avoid.

So basically her own mentality goes completely against the chances of actually meeting a rich man and to keep him.

A good lesson for her would be to meet a rich man, sign a prenup which leaves her with nothing if they divorce, they then marry, then he would notice her lazyness, and then dump her. Leaving her with nothing as the prenups stated.

After reading her first post, I wasn't surprised to see how negative was her replies toward the comments of others. And if people agrees with her, this is a sad world.

It's unfortunate for her husband that he doesn't notice it, because not only would I divorce from her, but I would fight as much as can so she gets what she deserves, which seems...it's nothing.

Make your own money! Geez I hate how other women want to rely on men for their money. If you arn't happy in your relationship then leave. Make sure you tell the next man youre with why youre with him though. Its not nice to make someone think youre in love with them when it's really their money you are lovin.

divorce if your only alternative is to live a miserable life. and if you feel guilty about it, think of it this way, assuming he's a similar age to urself, divorcing him now would leave you both young enough to "start again", and also,without you he'll have more money because he won't be supporting anyone else.

sounds like hes using you. leave the ass asap. move in with a friend or family till your back on your feet. do it now before he takes any more of your prime years. theres tons of men out there that arent rich but well off and that will treat you like a queen. do you have sex with him clean the house etc STOP till he changes or move on. dont allow yourself to be a floor mat.

I think you've learned your lesson and now should move on. 18 is SOOOOOoooo young and too tragic of an age to try and settle down, no wonder you regret the entire thing. Next time, meet the man somewhere besides the internet...there are so many rats out in cyber space. I agree with much that has been said though, but my personal musings will neither help nor hinder the fact that you need to move on and up or out or however you want to put it. Good Luck!

~Peace~

Ditch husband, get job.

not really much to say idk why i hit the post button but you need to think about how he feels why he acts this way what he is doing for his family ect, and you married him so this is your own dam fault, you should be greatful you have him, atleast you have food a house someone with you, atleast you aren't old and alone, you should get a job and learn that life isn't fair. anything can happen if you put your mind to it but you seem to not know that all things worth haveing are earned not given love isn't given it is earned so is happieness if you can't get throught the hard times you can't survive. you need to straighten up and fly right sister.

Yeah. Get a day job, and a night job. Work hard for the next 3-6 months. Save as much as possible. In addition, find brilliant friends, go out, find new people. After you have an okay amount of money, and friends, leave your husband. Start again. Please dont not do anything.

Look. he's a jerk, I can tell right off. And you should get a divorce. you met him in a chatroom, for god's sake! Would you just dump the fool? And besides, he'll make more money by getting rid of you. Live with your parents for a while, get a job. Hey, maybe you'll get a good-looking co-worker.
Or do you love this guy?

If you love him stay with him. If you don't get a divorce.

just because ur husband is not rich u want to regret marrying him that is the wrong decision u make about ur life well i think u put him down he loves you for sure and maybe u do to just because of money dont let ur love destroyed if both of u works hard and earn enough money to support ur living u might save some money.. dont let him go believe someday u will sit down and ask why did i ever let him go ? who knows by the time u guys married he can find a good job and become a rich anything can come up in life so **dont let him go for money ...

You were too young and dependent to marry. And you are being taken to task for that (still expecting to be looked after).

But he's not ready either - won't even tell his parents?

You both made a mistake from the sounds of it. And so what if you've both made a mistake? Move on. Marriage can work later but you've both got some growing up.

27, male, soldier, fort campbell, ky.

Hit me up! :P

yes.

personally i think if you joke about your marriage then your marriage will be a joke.
marriage should be taken more seriously, marriage isn't just about you, it's about the both of you.

ask yourself: if you divorce him, will you be any better off then you are now?

and really think about it, in every aspect.
i think you could make this work, even if you're struggling ends meat.

Lol, if its money you want, your a ignorant, sad, loser. Marriage has nothing to do with money, only love.

If your that unhappy yes.

True, so true.

There IS a reason why brothers and sisters shouldn't marry.

T-to the-O-to the B.R.A.

Actually, I heard Spam is no longer here because he was arrested for molesting underage animals in the liverpool train station.

Not hard to believe, if you've ever been to the liverpool train station.

I have.

OMB

Wow. Don't I leave an impression lol.

Ok, well ... I might've been a bit funny. I like to take it out on my keyboard.

Miss October, I like the way you write. Almost like - Simon Cowell? Lol. You're welcome and it's ok if we don't always agree. I have a knack for opinionated characters. :D
Lotofjunk, you stalker! (Kidding.) I admit it's a kiss but I really just use it as a sort of personal signature.
PoolTOY. You were bothered to read my post right to the end weren't you. I'm flattered.

Erm I'm not saying anything. :D Lol. xxx

You are the only one who can solve your problems.Why would you stay with him if he doesent do shit for you i mean its not right to marry some small dick rich guy you will be unhappy to but there is a balnace that is a little bit of both worlds.First you have to make a decision and think if you really want to be with this man he sounds like a real pile of crap and a cheapass so if you are still looking good get out there and work your magic and try not to attract some loser who doesent even pay for a meal.

have you tried stalking?

forget it, the bitch is GONE

i agree with cab and chris, especially chris's last sentence.

Get a goddamn job you stupid, ungrateful, no good piece of shit cunt! i mean at least go stuff some cocks in your mouth for money, then you can buy your own goddamn laptop. or you can just shoot yourself in the face.

PROVIDE for you?! PROVIDE FOR YOURSELF, GET A JOB. THEN WORRY ABOUT CHOOSING A MATE. and by the way, weigh a person's financial habits VERY HEAVILY when you consider them for marriage.

first off if you marry for money and not love you will never be rich enough to feel like it was worth it. if you marry to apease someone else you will never have enough peace to make it worth it. you got married for the wrong reasons. now you want to leave for the wrong reasons. you seem a little selfish. GET A JOB. Try providing for yourself for at least 6 months before you judge him. You might realize money doesnt come that easy. NOw onto my real concern, how is it even possible that his parents dont know you two are married? why has he not told them? there is something so wrong with that. he is either hiding something from you, like a previous marriage or children or something. Or he is embarassed by you and doesnt want people to know you are his wife? does his family like you? where do his parents live? have u talked to your family about all this? what do they say. do they know only his sister knows you are married. i cant see any well adjusted person agreeing to keep their marriage a "secret". you seem to be having a huge bout of sibling rivalry, jealousy is a dangerous thing. be wary. i am assuming your sister loved this guy and supported him and helped him. she didnt sit in resentment and wish upon a star that he would win the lotto. if you want your husband to be more aggressive or succesful you help them, you certainly dont degrade them or belittle them. I am betting he wasnt on the fast track to success before you were married so you should have known what you were getting yourself into. its ridiculous to marry a homeless man and then resent him for being homeless and divorce him. i would say go be a gold digger but i dont think you would put any effort into that, im assuming this because you dont seem to put in any effort into your marriage. i suggest counseling, being honest and telling his family and your family the whole truth and nothing but the truth, theres an old addage THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE. be truthful with yourself and hubby as well. and lastly get a job.

Cheers to violent10dency. GET A JOB! Yes, it was a mistake to marry someone to please your parents, wtf were you thinking?? But you married him and you should try to make it work. If you are this selfish with this marriage no other marriage will be any better. Though he definitely should tell his family about you. It's always hard to make ends meet especially today, which is why in most marriages BOTH WORK. Don't bitch about him not makeing money when you are too lazy

Why do you need someone to provide FOR you? Independence, please? Try supporting yourself. Way to give women a bad name.

What happened to working together? That's real marriage. Just because your a lazy, gold digging, miserable leach doesn't give you the right to insult your husband. You married him for a reason till death do you part, though thick and thin. No wonder why he doesn't respect you. He's most likely embarrassed that he's married to you thats why he didn't want to tell his family. I wouldn't respect you either if I work from home and all I see is you sitting there all day complaining. What you need to do is start helping yourself and your family. He can't do it alone and you are selfish and spoiled for expecting him to do everything. Most likely you were very delusional and naive when you decided to marry him. You made your bed so lie in it!

do not be such a shallow bitch your one of the reasons why people hate america shouldn't have married him them either divorce him find someone you actually like instead of being a gold digging bitch.
with regards,
Michael