I rejected my dream girl

Ok

In school i always wanted to go out with my crush. i had lots of opportunnity's to ask her but i never did

Now i'm 17 and in college and she asked me out and i fkin rejected her. I just can't be bothered to have a relationship, I go to football matches every saturday which is LADS only, i go to college, i work, i have an extremely long college project to do and i don't have much money to spend on her.

I literally told her i don't have time for a girlfriend, which was a dickish reply and i feel bad about myself

is it normal that i can't be bothered to have a relationship yet, and how can i say sorry to this bird, whom i still relaly like

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Based on 76 votes (36 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • PumpkinKate

    Which are you going to look back on and remember more?

    A little bit more time hanging out with your football friends, a couple extra hours at work, possibly a slight increase in your GPA...

    Or pursuing the "woman of your dreams" and possibly forging a relationship that could utterly change your life?

    Also sex.

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    • PapzBSlim

      This was deep.

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  • PapzBSlim

    Well, that is a big mistake. You could have just taken it slowly with her. Did you even know if she was alright with you having your own space? It would have been nice to see her when you two had the chance and to be able to talk to her for support. Just tell her sorry and that you were not thinking clearly and made a spontaneous decision.

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  • dom180

    You go up to her and tell her you're really sorry you rejected her, you realise you had your priorities all wrong and you want to go on a date with her somewhere. There's no need to over-complicate it by over-apologizing for rejecting her or anything else, just say that. If she's still interested, she'll go out with you. If she doesn't, then at least you did all you could.

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  • Gravy

    Mate, stop reading this shit and go and get her. Read later. GO!

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    Tell her what you told us.
    But as others said, if you liked her that much, you would find the time to have a relationship with her. We understand that you are busy etc. but it could still work! I managed to have two serious relationships throughout my A levels.
    LAD.

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  • I'm sorry for saying this but please forgive me but you must be a fool to reject your dream girl. You may not have another chance so you better go run after her.

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  • Thatguy777

    Dude, if you really like her you must find a way to make time. If you don't you'll come to really regret it down the road. Who knows, maybe she could be the one. Next time you see her, you should apologize for rejecting her. Tell her you kind of like her, and you'd like to date her, but you're really busy with school. Hopefully she will be understanding of this. Then in your spare time you can text her, and maybe go on a few dates with her and see where it goes. Don't let your responsibilities get in the way of love. You only live this life once, so you might as well enjoy it.

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  • jucedaguy

    Show her the D

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    • Energy

      Yep, chicks need their vitamin D. Take her out to sun gazing!

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      • jucedaguy

        Exactly! Then smile and show her the 'D'

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  • cat753

    I think if you had explained the situation, maybe she would be happy spending little tine with you as long as its meaningful. She likes YOU not the money you spend on her, trust me there are many ways to make a girl happy without money. I think you should at least give it a try... I feel like you are really going to regret not taking this oportunity

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  • MelanieSantos

    you should of told her that you didnt want to be in a relationship at the moment because you didnt want to be distracted from school work but that you kind of like her a little

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Shit dude you might aswell brick your face.

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  • Gonna get her an expensive christmas present, hopefully help a bit, thanks for all advice

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  • loyally

    I am also extremely busy with my own life. I hardly have time for friends. You made the right choice. Relationships take time which you hardly have. You can explain it to her and say that you'd like to take things slowly as friends for a while. If she says no, she is just being a brat.

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  • openocean

    how do you still really like her if you have nothing in your life to share with her?
    sometimes people come at the wrong times in our lives and being too busy to fall in love is understandable but man get in or get out!

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