I want a kid but i don't want it to have gay parents

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So, I'm gay (even though if I had a choice I'd much rather be straight) and I really want a kid in the future but I don't want it to have gay parents. I'm not saying gay couples shouldn't be allowed to adopt or anything, but that's just not something I would want for my child. I would want it to have a proper conventional childhood with a mother and a father like how I had mine. The issue is I'm not even bisexual, and marrying someone of the opposite gender would mean we would have no sex life besides breeding, and it probably wouldn't work out.
I don't know what to do. I don't believe in conversion therapy but I'd probably be willing to even try that at some point.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    Yeah, conversation therapy is only going to make you lie to yourself, your future wife, and the kid you have. Either have the kid as you are or just don't have one at all.

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  • CountessDouche
    4 years ago

    It's probably even WORSE for a kid to have a parent with self-loathing, identity issues & massive amounts of sexual shame.

    Yeah, maybe just get a turtle or something instead, dude.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    If you are lesbian couldn't you get some sperm somewhere and jam it up you with chicken baster. Or gay couldn't you jack off and give it to a women to birth? As for being gay parents.... not much you can do about that. when the child calls out "dad" you both wont know who is to answer.

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago

    so just look after someone elses, start up a babysitting service

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    My sister got turkey basted by her wife in the backseat on the side of the road. They have a now 3 year old daughter. The only problem I see is that the girl is scared of men bc she has none around. I don't think "mom and dad" is necessary, as people raise kids in all sorts of family dynamics. However, I do believe that a child needs a positive role model from both sexes. "It takes a village"

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    4 years ago

    This is beyond my pay grade. Seems a bit dysfunctional having two dads. Its not normal.

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  • LampmanDaniels
    4 years ago

    There's no evidence to suggest that children raised by gay parents are in any way less adequately prepared for life. And if you are gay, you should know that conversion therapy is a cruel, antiquated pseudoscience at best. Homosexuality can be a very difficult part of yourself to accept given the social stigmas surrounding it, but you must because it's not going to change. I'm sure you and your significant other would make excellent parents.

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