I want my brother to die so badly

I know how you feel, my brother is 21 years-old and he's a WORTHLESS piece of crap he's very very very very selfish he will not lend my mom a helping hand and he don't treat me like a sister i think he's making me mentally sick I really hope that he gets his retarded ass out and move out.

basically my brothers clinically insane. he's got several "mental problems" and it gives him an excuse to treat everyone like shit. i've hated him my whole life because he's been abusive since he first learned how to hit. and i really didn't expect most people to understand, since you don't know my brother. if you did, you'd get it. cancer i guess is harsh i just want him to disappear.

I want mine to die too, but I think you might have better reasoning than me.

Also, as much as I hate him, I wish he'd die peacefully and - preferably - not be aware of it.

So as wrong as we boh know it is, I can sympathise

Tell your parents to send him to boot camp. I'm sure that will chance him.

I know how you feel. My brother is scum he disrespects our partners our 2 other sisters he calls women bitches and hoes and beats up his girlfriends. He calls my mom a fat bitch all of the time while he is living her basement @ 25 years of age. He pays no rent, eats for free, has no job or car, and is extremely ungrateful. He even steals. One incident was so bad that he stole all the Tvs out of the house and my computer my parents brought when I was in 8th grade and I had no way to do my homework. He steals money from my parents, me and our 2 sisters plus our nephews.... Smh... He has physically put his hands on me and tried to fight my mom and continues to do the same thing. Yet I think he hit a nerve when he stole my fathers wedding ring and was put out and is leaving either at his girlfriends moms house or in his gf's car. But he continues to beg my parents for money and comes over everyday to take a shower or to use the bathroom... It's horrible.. I can't stand to look at him and he won't get a job he & he would rather beg or freeload than go get food stamps to feed himself... I wish he would grow up. O did I mention he is addicted to weed but that's no excuse he is just lazy.. Sometimes it just makes me sick to look at him. So yes I understand..

I think it's normal. I feel the same way about my sibling. He's an abusive, rude, selfish little sack of shit. Like our dad. It makes me feel sick, the fact that I'm related to him. He's slightly younger than me, but he that don't mean he can't hurt. The fact that he uses sticks and knives to attack me doesn't help. Or the fact that my mother don't give a shit, or care enough to sort him out. But honestly, I think if the people who say you've got 'issues' for feeling this way about your brother lived with someone like that their whole lives, they'd understand.

"i wish he would drop dead" once is enough don't you think? haha.
He sounds like a douchebag though. I can't imagine even talking back to my parents or raising my voice at them :l

What you need to do, is set him on fire. It'll be funny.

i hope he gets the AIDS then kidnapped and raped and tortured 24/7

i know how you feel. i'm 19 and my brother is 21 and i can't stand the fact that he's alive. he's so fucking abusive to everyone yet somehow my mom still defends and loves him. he's making me go insane. i can't do this anymore.

OK, this is a difficult one but I feel pure hatred for my brother too. I want him to die even though that would upset my mom. otherwise I wouldn't be upset if he did, I would be relieved. I feel no love for him anymore and I have such hatred for everything he's done to me and my family, I haven't seen anything good in him for the past 7 years tbh. He swears at me and my family and likes to aggravate and attack me every single day even when I do nothing to him. I've tried to help him but he acts like a dick and makes fun of me when I have cried over frustration. He attacked my mom whilst she was pregnant and punched two holes into a wall, he has been excluded from school countless times and gotten at least 50 detentions over 3 years. No one does anything to stop him, no one sticks up for me, I want him to die too. I hate seeing his fucking face.

I sadly know exactly where your coming from. Have you ever been told that when you "grow up" everything will change and you'll actually adore your siblings? For some people that may be true but my brother has gotten on my nerves so much that i almost want him to disappear. I know that sounds horrible, but just so you know i'm not and axe murderer. He treats my parents so badly and i cant help but try and fight their fights. i cant see how they can ignore him and almost feel bad for him, even though he treats my whole family like shit. I won't lie in telling you that i've been pretty harsh on him too, but nothing compared to what he has done. i feel like sometimes he has some sort of mental disease, but he doesn't. i wish he did because then i would have my solution to all the hell he has put me through. All he does is swears, plays video games, bosses people around, smacks and kicks people, and lays his fat ass on the couch eating junk food. Is this what all boys are like? i have a younger brother but he is nothing like the other one. I guess he is still to young to fully decide that. my oldest sister is also nothing like that little brat. can anyone tell me what the hell is wrong with him? i honestly cant stand to even see his face! is that normal?

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Cancer?
wow.. I know your probably angry dude. But he's 15. If he treats your parents like shit, then... That's the're fault. They shouldn't allow him to do that.
Then... Your 18. Move out bud.

He is a douche but you obviously are the one with serious mental issues. Hated since birth? Either you are a psycho or a major drama queen.

Never wish death on anyone...not cool.

"I've felt this way since he was born."

Who is the problem here?

i hate my brother too, he is 12 and i am 15. he's just a dick, i ask him to get me something that is right in front of him and just hand it to me and he says "say please' and i say "you don't say please to me" and he just shrugs his shoulders like IM SUPPOSE TO RESPECT HIM WHEN HE DOESNT RESPECT ME UGGGGHGHH I WISH HE WOULD JUST DROP DEAD

This is 8 years old but yeah I feel the same way. My older brother is 5 years older than me and when me and my sister were younger my parents would leave him to babysit us, during that time he would hit us HARD anytime we said something he didn’t agree with I got bruises. I thought by the time I’m 15 he would be out, but no. Here I am at 18 and he is STILL living in my parents house at 23. He is a cunt and so damn annoying. I don’t mind ppl who play games but he has no disregard that my room is above his and yells so fucking loud cursing and shit. He also doesn’t pay rent, stays at home smoking weed, mooching off my parents and doesn’t respect my mom or my dad at all. And it sucks cuz he probably won’t be moving out anytime soon considering he got himself 20k in debt. It is such a annoyance when I have to see him. One time I said something he didn’t like and he literally grabbed kitchen knives and came up to my door threatening me. Hope one day he moves out. Feel like I can’t live my life because he is making me miserable. I can’t be comfortable at my house. And my parents don’t do anything about him when I tell them 🤦🏻‍♀️

Im 17 and my brother is 26 I've thought of killing him every night for the past couple years he still lives in my grandparents basement and we share a room I want to slit his throat everyday so yeah it's normal

i kinda feel the same why about my little brother. he's lazy, takes money from both my parents and i, he gets mad for no reason at all, and he calls everyone names when he thinks no one can hear him. there are days when i just want to beat him up, unfortunately he's a foot taller than me so it's impossible to do that.

I hate my brother i cant hit him but i want him to die i hope karma will punch him so bad.

Hey it's normal I usually want to kill my brother so badly because he treated me alway as an animal, he always beefing me out, he also always blackmailing me, and he also striking my head with a long stick in my head, I almost die because of him, im 14 and he's 17, all of my brothers are scumbags and douchebags, they always beatening me with their fist and blackmailing me again and again, EVEN MY PARENTS, THEY DIDN'T BELIEVE ME THAT MY BROTHERS ARR BEATING ME UP ALWAYS, I wish they die before they come out from my mum. I wish they go to hell after they died, I hope they can be obliterated by an RPG, I hope they've been @ the d-day at omaha beach, I have a brain tumor right now because of them. They always hitting me in the head.

My fucking brother is a few years younger than me. And he is a fucking asshole. He is a spoiled brat and tells all of these little secrets to my mom and never tell me. I hate that. And since he is the "little one" i cant the tar out of him or else he will cry. Like a pussy and get me in trouble. He never shares and acts like he owns everything. And I cannot do anything about it. This is bulshit. I just want to move out so i wont need to deal with the crap.

I realise that I am wrong on several ocassions; I don't ask when I take, I swear a lot more, I get lesser grades than he does in high school and in other things, but that give him no right to dick about it. and drag it, and use it to berate me.

You're not alone here.
What really gets a gherkin in my a$$hole is that he brings up valid points and he's smarter than me. And guess what? It gives him the fucking right to be an asshole, especially in the family.
He takes advantage of being right to beat me down and be a dick to me.
Never before have I felt a welling of shame, embarassment, defeat, and the lethal desire to stab him with a kitchen knife, twist it in his gut and make him physically feel what I feel emotionally- every time he beats me down.
Even worse, I want to make a point. A serious point (to my brother and to my whole family); they think they know me, and everything, but there is one thing they are not right about me- Is that they really don't know me; they are fucking wrong about me.
That they think I cannot cross the line, but I will because they are pushing me.
And it takes one more push to knock me over the sanity line- from man into a monster.

You're the older brother if you want normal just beat his stupid fucking head in when he pisses you off and hopefully he will stop being a useless cunt

I hope you die. See what i did there ;)

About my brother i want to add aswell. The only thing he does is push me aside and claim everything for himself. I was told to share with him but he never has to share any shit with me. I cant even sit with him in the same fucking room. My parents grant him everything you can possibly think off. They think he is so much better than me. Like you again I wish that fucker could just die very slowly and very painfully. I will forever curse that fucking asshole.
I hope you and me could meet someday to find a solution to our curses.

My brother is a sexist chauvinist homophobic pig. I hope he dies. He disrespects our parents and he's just a useless piece of shit who wants me to be masculine, yes he makes fun of gay people. He sees lesbians as some sexual decorations to satisfy him. Fuck him. He influences my sister to be very sexist, going as far to make fun of feminism and gay rights. He makes fun of gay rights, and he always associates me with gay characters in the television, even trans women. He's just a BIG BURDEN in the family. I tried ignoring, he just won't fucking stop. Oh wait, I don't want him to die, I want his existence to be removed.

Hey listen. I fully agree with you I constantly want my brother to die aswell. Mine too is nothing more than a fucking asshole. I mean I take the blame for everything he does and all the shit he causes. His friends are all fucking assholes aswell and they can all fucking die aswell. My brother is nothing more but a fucking curse to me and my family. He constantly gets praised by my parents and they never punish him for any of the shit he causes. According to himself he is the smartest and best human on the planet and my parents think that of him and thus if I say a word of protest my parents blame me ofcourse and indeed my parents think he is the best of the two of us. All he does is ruin my family. I just wish that mutherfucker could just die. My utopia is a world without him. You and I are precisely on the same page. Im glad there is somebody in the world to whom I can tell this and with whom i agree.

I actually agree with the writer of this post because my brother is a dick; he doesn't even treat me like part of the family especially about news that he should share such as about to have a baby; he calls up my other family to talk to them on the phone to tell them but doesn't bother wanting to tell me and he has my cell and wouldn't text me either. I really feel bad for his wife who is disenchanted about who he really is and who she really is in love with along with the baby who doesn't know what kinda scum this kid really is. I only found out about it through my mom. God I hope he will die some day. Fucking brainwashed GWB supporter SOB

Just a side note, this isn't just about the above situation we have been arch enemies for years now as far back as I can remember. I think it will be better that he passes away; because honestly I can't stand thinking that someone like him should exist in this world. He is so fake. Either he goes or I will and by saying I will I am not implying anything regarding suicide.

My brother is 54 and sleeps with our 85yr old mom and has brainwashed her.She told my son last night she hated me and I do everything for her. she fell and he laughed at her he is the biggest sissy I know and hasn't been with a women for 20yrs. That's what u call a piece of crap. he doesn't work and my mom pays all of his bills and he tried saying I was stealing from her.I hate him and want him to go away. He takes her bankcard everyday.I hate him so much. I even proofed he was taking h.er money and she wont listen.

Trolololo?

if you hated your brother when he was born, then the problem is with YOU. not him. you need to be nicer to him.

Ok idk if your a guy or a girl but any way if you've truly hated him so much that you wanted him dead since his birth i think you got jealousy problems or something or maybe your just so frustrated with him you just said the get your point across. If my lil brother acted like that i would put him in a level of pain he didnt know existed espicially to our mom but maybe you should both get some therapy it's obvious he needs to go to boot camp or get some kinda help to straighten himself out but if youve felt this way before he was like this then you may need some help too and in hating him so much you may have helped make him this way. Sorry for posting such a long reply.

Your brother is just a teenger going through a difficult phase. You're so mean

HI my brother was a bit of every naughty trick that you had discussed about.he passed away last month and i dont know how im going to live my life without him,he died of an infection while treated for cancer.trust me you seriously do not know what you are wishing for.try to love your brother instead and im sure you wont regret it later.I didnt talk to my brother for almost 3 years.but somehow we drew closer when he was diagonised with cancer.the most difficult thing in the world is to watch someone wither right in front of your eyes.Dont do this to yourself.

hmm, he isnt going through some rebellious teen phase to grow out of?

I'm in the same position. My younger brother is an arrogant, selfish, evil sack of shit. He torments me and my other brother everyday of my life, no exaggeration. He's abusive and has hit his seven year old brother. I have become so angry with him that I can't be in the same room with him. I contemplated suicide because of him, and he makes me so frustrated because he treats it as a joke, like everybody thinks its funny. My family also thought about sending him to a home when he completely ruined christmas for us, which he also now treats as a joke. I don't want him to die but I wish he was never born. The scariest thing is that I think I could kill him and feel nothing but relief if given the opportunity. I have tried to help him, we all have, but we doubt he has the ability to change now. I don't know what to do. My only hope is for when I move to go to university next year but I will feel guilty about leaving my other brother with this bastard.

Youve HATED him sincr he was born, people sometimes become what you say/think of them.

You are a hateful bitch. "Since he was born" really clued me in....YOU have the problem. Maybehes an asshole because

Look I have a sister who's a giant pain in the ass. She's a few years younger than me, and we don't have the greatest relationship. That being said I would never wish her to die of cancer or alone. I admit there are times when I've enjoyed seeing her fail. But at the end of the day I really do love her. I don't know maybe you have it worse. I've found redeeming qualities in my sister. Maybe you can find some in your brother. If not, than try and help him get his life together. That's what family does.

You're praying that he dies! That's not right. God would not appreciate that you disrespect one of his beautiful creations. Instead of trying to get him to die, change him. Help him become a better person.

how the fuk can u hate someone since birth was he takind ur stuff and bein a douche as a baby ....dammmmm u got sum ishues

Wow. You really shouldn't wish death upon anyone. Even though we all have that one person we truly hate & despise... He's your brother no matter what.

I agree with all the above posters. It sounds like you have serious issues. Maybe you need counseling?

wow you have issues if you have felt this way since he was born. did you just say that because you are so frustrated?
i understand that you dont appreciate how he treats your parents, my brother is the same but he has mental issues which i dont think is an excuse, i think he knows what he is doing because he acts like a spoilt little 5 year old and he gets what he wants even though he is nearly 30!
maybe talk to your parents about taking him to the doctor to see what his issues are and why he acts this way.

Never wish for someone to get cancer...just plain not okay.
I agree with everyone above ^^

wtf i have 4 brothers i wouldnt wish that for my worst enemy and u would wish that for ur little brother god u going 2 hell if u think likr that

Sounds like he stole your thunder when he was born and you've been jealous of him ever since. Boys have to deal with their raging hormones as they get older and it will get worse before it gets better. You really don't want him to die, come on... When u get older you will laugh at how you feel now and actually grow go love all the stupid shit he does.