I want to divorce because of hygiene disgusting habits

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I have noticed my wife doing strange things over the years. When our baby had a snotty nose she once wiped it with her thumb..I turned away and when I looked back I spotted she licked the snot off her thumb! She breaks pimples on her body and then puts her finger in her mouth and kind of cleans her nails on her teeth, she scratches her head and then fingers go in the mouth, specifically the nail and cleans it on her teeth then I see her mildly munching on it - she does it very subtly and I've had to observe her like a hawk to see if I'm either going mental or if this is actually happening. Today I noticed it again and I think I've had enough. About 3 months ago I was a bit tipsy and spoke to her and said I was disgusted with it all...to stop doing that. She denied it and said I was making stuff up...but I've observed her more and more since then...it's DISGUSTING!!! To the point where I don't want to kiss her anymore...it grosses me out!!!! I've seen this behaviour but maybe was in denial...but I can't anymore...I want to leave her as it makes me want to throw up to see this shit going on! oh the stories I could tell makes my skin crawl and stomach turn!!!

Is this normal for me to want to leave her, is this normal for a human being to be sooo dirty with hygiene???!!!! A 10 year marriage will end as a result of this...it's disgusting!!

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    Call her out everytime you see it. Yell her name as soon as she touches it on her tongue.

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    Stopped reading after the first one. That's a instant deal breaker. You know the ckeavland show? Theres a booger eating episode. They started singing a song and I started throwing up. Litterly. Thats ome of the few things I just cant stomach

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    • leggs91200
      3 years ago

      Yeah, I would rather deal with piss and shit than anything that comes out of one's nose or mouth.

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      • Mammal-lover
        3 years ago

        Amen

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    My sister eats her bogies, it’s fucking gross. I wouldn’t want a partner who did any of that. 🤮

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  • somebody148
    3 years ago

    She had a son before meeting me - so I noticed my step-son one day pulling a scab off his knee and then eating it!!! I was like - WTF!!!!! He just laughed...!!! It's GROSSSSSS!!!!!!

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
      3 years ago

      Genetics

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  • TerriAngel
    3 years ago

    Yet, somehow you got married to start with?
    It's went on 10 years.
    But now you notice?
    Sounds fishy to me.
    I can spot poor hygene in a day or 2.
    Usually less.
    So what's your excuse?

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    3 years ago

    You tell her to choose. Either she stop eating pimples and snot or you leave.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    I caught my ex eating his boogers and was repulsed.

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  • D.O.C
    3 years ago

    You truly looking for a way out you tired of marriage , you trying to find some excuse , gtfoh

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  • MrToxic
    3 years ago

    You have a choice, you can:

    A - Sit her down and talk about it, offering to work on it and point it out to her when she's doing it as well as ask that she seek therapy as well (if necessary)

    B - Pack it up there and leave.

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  • Sad18yo
    3 years ago

    I’m a germ-a-phobe. That shit is fucking nasty. No, BEYOND fucking nasty. I can’t even begin to describe how FUCKING NASTY that shit is. Bro, there aren’t words in the English language to express how E V E R. L O V I N G. F U C K I N G. N A S T Y. that shit is. Ewwwwwwww. Fucking EWWWWWW dude. Nip that shit IN. THE. BUTT.

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    • Sad18yo
      3 years ago

      That guy ^^ is right. Listen to that guy, FUCCIN’ NASTY.

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      • Sad18yo
        3 years ago

        I completely agree with both of you. That bitch needs to shower in fucking Clorox and rubbing alcohol, then embalm herself with Purell. As for the dude, if I were him I’d be vomiting in the rucking sink whilst crying myself to sleep.

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        • Sad18yo
          3 years ago

          No bro she just needs to jump off a cliff, end of story.

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        • Sad18yo
          3 years ago

          Make that three. She’s a FUCKING. NASTY. ASS. BITCH. Like wtf who does that?

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  • TuckerT69
    3 years ago

    Hells-bells, I'm not even that gross and I'm a man! I think I would end that too! It's like From the South Weird Man said, I would call her out on it every time you see her do it, and I wouldn't care if companty is around or not either! I would embarrass the he'll out of her, and I would tell her that was my plan too!

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  • leggs91200
    3 years ago

    In the right company, women are more crude than men, it is true.

    But yes, wanting to leave because someone acts disgusting is totally normal.

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  • --
    3 years ago

    She aint my bitch, I don't care.

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