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I love to be tied up and gagged but i have never been. Is it normal. And i want someone to tie me up pleaseeeee somone tie me up.
It's perfectly normal. When I was getting into it, I thought I was weird, but there are millions of people that are into this.
I'm a personal fan of Ball Gags. They turn me on.
To be bound and gagged is a wonderful and exhilarating feeling and is a perfectly normal expression of one’s sexual desires. If that is the way we are then there is nothing we can do about it anyway so just enjoy the whole scenario.
When I was thirteen I went to a spare room and tied myself tightly to a chair as far as I could and wriggled along the ground until I came in my underwear. I did not know what was happening though I knew it was a great feeling and soon after realised what happened. I went on from there till I met the girl who became my wife and introduced her to all the most kinky habits I had developed over the years. We soo0n used to fuck both dressed up in rubber mackintoshes and high heeled shoes as we gazed into the mirror. She used to bind and gag me for hours and this went on through forty years of happy marriage. She loved me and did anything for me to make me happy though I never tied her up and never tied any woman up as most of them do not like it as we men do. Now that I have been alone for about twenty years I have visited many women for highly kinky sexual sessions and have a local girl whom I trained to bind me tightly and gag me as she slaps my face hard dozens of times and paddles my bottom.
To be under a woman’s control, submit to her and obey her, is a wonderful and natural feeling as they really love to control us men. Nothing more sensational then to be slaved up and humiliated whilst under her spell during one’s sexual feeling. Of course this is solely when wants this as a normal life with one’s wife or girlfriend outside of sex is a different matter but when one has the sex bug then submission is such a joy. So, if you want it and enjoy it you will find that if you introduce this from the beginning she will accede to your wishes gladly and it will become a natural part of your relationship.
As to whether 'tis normal to wish to be bound, gagged and made helpless, it matters not unless you are harming another in the practice and process of your desires. You have but to look around for a bit on the Internet to see how many others share your desire.
It's called bondage, lots of people do it, is it normal? LOL, what is. It used to be described as not normal in an old psychological manual...DSM3, I think.
Later, bondage was de-listed from the DSM, meaning it was accepted as normal.
Whatever. It seems there's very little science one way or another, and believe me, as someone the same as you, I've looked.
So, here's what I suggest:
1) Lots like you, don't feel like some sort of weirdo or all alone.
2) Take it easy, take it slow and don't (for example) post asking complete strangers to tie you up. A bit dangerous to say the least.
3) There seem to be lots more of us who love being tied up than tiers. Who knows why - I sometimes think that those who like to tie have a harder time dealing with that idea than whose of us who like to be tied.
I also think, sometimes, that those of us who like to be tied up have a more physical experience than those who get a minute or two of tying and gagging and then...what?
4) My friends that I have told about bondage, and to me it was this great sob-story, all have said either, "ya, so?" or "well, where's your rope?" I.e., to you maybe it's a deep dark secret. To them it's, see above.
5) Like yourself. If you wanted to rape, pillage and murder, get help. If you're not into hurting others - then you're normal - chill.
I think it's completely normal. Some people love to be tied, some don't. But there is nothing abnormal about it. I love to tie guys up and be tied up. I'm always available to help :)
Years ago as a young man of 25 i was held at knife point by a woman burgler and trussed up and gagged with para chord and gagged with a hard rubber ball and duct tape on the living room floor for 7 hours until my girlfriend came in and freed me the erection i had was rock hard it made me ejeculate many times, i have been into bondage ever since.
I've been bound and gagged numerous times and it is extremely exhillerating. As a male it may seem difficult or embarrassing, however the thrill of being helpless is extreme. The gag tied tightly in my mouth intensifies the embarrassment and the excitement of the ordeal.
takes allot of trust to allow it. It was suggested to me this past year, and I asked, "Really? You wouldn't be worried I would leave you there and go get my friends to come in and watch while I took pictures?" He seemed surprised I would even think of that. DUH.
We never did, and he COULD have trusted me, but THINK, and be sure you are safe...
BTW, I would LOVE to tie someone up and slap them around a little-- and it wouldn't be too hard- just that one time was because I was drunk when he suggested it... :)
Its common--Normal is a word that doesn't really have any meaning really! lol I'm a guy and I REALLY love it! Love especially to get hog-tied behind my back. WAY fun! The more creative the better! And if you know you like it, even without actually trying it, I bet you really do. ust find some1 who digs it too and it will be super-awesome. Go for it--but do e careful that you trust the person tying you up
I think this is normal and fun. It's dominance play, it doesn't need to be too heavy but it could be. Whatever you discover, always be careful. When tying yourself, make sure you can get out if there's an emergency. It's usually safer with someone else but there are still risks.
I'll do it for you. After I tie you up and gag you can I have nasty sex with you? that is if your a female of course.
dude im am exactley and i mean exactley like you but i have always wanted to get tied up and gagged i have fckin dreams about it so as far as you and i are concerned yeh we're pretty damn normal
OMG... i thaught i was the only 1... and it too embarassing to talk 2 any1 u no... aint it! x
hey i knw wat u mean, i really wna talk 2 people about it but its embarrasing
to sexy biatch. i know what you mean im exactly the same. are you from the north east btw? im male nd have been into it but have never dared speak to anyone about it or try it :s even this is making me think im wierd. if you want to talk to someone about it i have msn? make each other feel better about it. nd i am 18 not some pervert
I thought that nobody really liked it, but if a girl wants to try it with me...just ask it!
i try to tie myself up but i am not very good at it i would like someone else to tie me up
Can someone please tie me up and gag me I love the feeling of being totally helpless!!!
someone please tie me up in a bra and thong. please where do you guys live come and tie me up
any girls in opington or near fancy tieing and gagging a very fit man. me im up for it
My dear friend me eaither love to be tied up , it turns me on,, but I should advice you a little: be very careful not to make difficult ties or neck ties it may cause death,
alway prepare knife or cutter near to you in case you couldn't untie yourself,
I was young when I was first introduced to bondage. At 15 years old I was often made to strip nude, my wrists and ankles bound with ACE bandages and a gag inserted in and around my mouth. I was often times left this way for hours and I never had a bad experience. I was introduced to anal and oral sex during this period, was dressed as a girl and made to perform for my master. All was thrilling. I did have a friend who engaged in the same pleasures and was "kept" for 3 days. He was violently raped and forced to perform oral sex on his captor numerous times. Be careful with whom you play with. Afterwards, he tried to commit suicide over the shame and embarrassment. He's alive today because of good counsiling and friends who support him. Again, be careful.
My first experience with it happened when I was 22 years old. I was dating a 31 year old divorcee and she always came over to my place because she had kids. I didn't know she was into bondage when first starting going out but she would drop little hints about things. Occasionally she would get a little loud and I told her the walls were a little thin. She then said "Are you going to gag me, then?" I thought she was joking and we both laughed. One she came over and we were in bed and she outright asked me "What would you think if I asked you to tie me up while we have sex?" I told her I was game because I had always thought about it and saw women in movies bound and gagged and it was a turn on for me. Being so young, I didn't know how to ask, though. She had brought an over night bag and pulled out some rope and asked me to tie her to the bed, which I did. She was tied spread eagle and once she was secured I went to get on top of her again and she said "Wait! You forgot the most important thing." I asked what that was. She said "You said I was too loud and when I'm tied up and get really loud. You need to gag me." I was shocked because I had never done it before. She told me to look in her bag. In it was a roll of duct tape and footie socks. She then said "Take one of those socks and put it in my mouth then put tape over my mouth so I can't spit it out. That'll shut me up good!" I did what she asked and I started touching her. She moaned into the gag and when she came, she screamed into the gag. It was such a turn on!!!
So yes, it's very normal despite what society says.
To be bound and gagged is a wonderful and exhilarating feeling and is a perfectly normal expression of one’s sexual desires. If that is the way we are then there is nothing we can do about it anyway so just enjoy the whole scenario.
When I was thirteen I went to a spare room and tied myself tightly to a chair as far as I could and wriggled along the ground until I came in my underwear. I did not know what was happening though I knew it was a great feeling and soon after realised what happened. I went on from there till I met the girl who became my wife and introduced her to all the most kinky habits I had developed over the years. We soo0n used to fuck both dressed up in rubber mackintoshes and high heeled shoes as we gazed into the mirror. She used to bind and gag me for hours and this went on through forty years of happy marriage. She loved me and did anything for me to make me happy though I never tied her up and never tied any woman up as most of them do not like it as we men do. Now that I have been alone for about twenty years I have visited many women for highly kinky sexual sessions and have a local girl whom I trained to bind me tightly and gag me as she slaps my face hard dozens of times and paddles my bottom.
To be under a woman’s control, submit to her and obey her, is a wonderful and natural feeling as they really love to control us men. Nothing more sensational then to be slaved up and humiliated whilst under her spell during one’s sexual feeling. Of course this is solely when wants this as a normal life with one’s wife or girlfriend outside of sex is a different matter but when one has the sex bug then submission is such a joy. So, if you want it and enjoy it you will find that if you introduce this from the beginning she will ascede to your wishes gladly and it will become a natural part of your relationship.
I to would love to get tied up but only by a woman not for sex but to be helpless and made to find out what it's really like
i've been tying and gagging myself for years on in. when i got my 1st apt.(by myself),i use to put on a uniform(used dickies,sears roebuck,work clothes)and combat boots to tie myself up.i wrap belts around my boots to hold my ankles in place.my thighs above me knees were tied up.i learn to slip a rope that goes under my armpits,back of my neck,under the other armpits,and both ends meet in the middle of my back. then i would take strong rope and tie it to my bound boots. the rope would TIGHTLY meet at the other loop behind my back already.than i would take police style HANDCUFFS(I'M CAREFUL-SO FAR),hand cuff my left wrist,then stick my hand behind my back over the loop of the rope in the middle of my back,then i bring my legs up,and struggle because it's TIGHT to make the other cuff go thru the loop of the "leg line".and you have probably one of the greatest hog tie you will ever have. tying myself up teach me to love my handcuffs and keys,rope,uniforms,i can go on. yes, i love being all tied up.
Hell yeah,its normal,for me i like to see women being tied up and gagged with a pantyhose hooded on their heads,its really erotic and fun to see them struggling and talking while gagged :),man im even getting hard right now.
Then just do it!!! Quit wishing and just make it happen. If you're a girl, you'll get plenty of volunteers. Check out Craigslist. Just make sure you have a guy friend nearby. Expect to get fucked in every hole you have. Hard. Expect spanking and double penetration. I'd love to be first in line to get that asshole. MMMMmm.
The first time my boyfriend asked me to tie his wrists together I was a bit surprised and nervous ... we had been together for a month or so and he was my first sexual partner.
Gradually we started doing it more and more with him tying me up as well (as he suggested.) It felt really good having no control and turned us both on a lot.
This made me remember being younger and feeling the urge to be gagged or getting a weird feeling in my stomach and slightly embarassed when seeing someone gagged on tv or in a movie. Finally it all made sense when I found out that it was a fetish when I was 18.
My boyfriend and I do it quite a lot. At one point I thought it was the only way I could come or be turned on but going back to basics was nice too.
I only likes tape gags at first but now i love ball gags. Its great being tied in loads of different way and now 2 years on im glad we are both into bondage and know exactly what we like. Its better to do it with someone you trust and to ease into it :)
Would being tied up matter in the tools used to restrain a person? Would a person prefer to be tied by chains (handcuffs/legirons) or rope (maybe leather).
Sure, its normal. Some ppl think and feel the same way, but doesn't express it too openly so its not very common to hear. Although, I would be interested in having a playmate, female adult, but finding one or talking about this is gonna be hard to bring up.
no its not normal...because normal in itself does not exist...there is nothing wrong with wanting to be tied up...i think its better to be tied because you not only have more pleasure but it also means that your:90:percent less likley to be a rapist!!!
Dude, perfectly normal. i do it all the time. im tied up even when im writing this down
find yourself a sadist. sounds like youre a masochist. the two go hand in hand.
btw if youre a hot girl. im there. lol