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If someone wants kids is it okay to date someone who says "I don't really want kids but maybe in the future I'd change my mind"
If you’re dead set on parenthood I wouldn’t advise it, especially considering your window to have children without being an “old parent” is finite.
Well, there's always the chance that they won't change their mind, and having kids isn't something you can compromise on (you can't have half a kid), so I'd lean towards no, myself.
You got some fucking nerve. Like, what is wrong with you? I'm genuinely wondering.
This is offensive to women who are infertile.
I want to be like a hamster. I love the taste of children. After all, what am I supposed to eat after I give birth? My child would be the perfect little snack.
Never use a condom and they will change their mind jk. Maybe try asking them
Idk thats a hard one but its honestly a very important question. If having kids is important to you my advise is to try not to miss any redflags. See if the person is good with animals and is compassionate and calm under pressure. Alot of times its strange to me that so many ppl have kids with someone then the guy/girl runs off and escapes the responsibility of parenthood and I wonder how did you not know that person was a scumbag before you had kids with them. Be careful not to have kids with someone that will run off because whether or not its your fault that that happened the fact remains that you did make a decision that will statistically give your kid a disadvantage and that decision was having kids with the wrong person.
I would since they're open to the idea of having kids.
I'm not sure myself but it pendles back and forth a bit as I like the IDEA of kids but in many ways I see it as responsibility i'm not sure I want. It's like that for a lot of people I think but then they meet someone they feel they actually want to live that family life with, or they come to an age where they feel mature enough to be a parent.
It is risky if you absolutely want kids and it's something you can't imagine living without though, since if you really fall in love with this person and things work out with them so well that there's a future there then it's not gonna feel very good having to still go separate ways because you want kids but your partner can't promise you any.