Iis it normal i get no same sex crushes and why?

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I'm 25f and have had a lot of close girl mates in my life yet, not one has admitted to having feelings towards me. This saddens me as over the time I have felt things towards a couple of friends and only one I confessed to, all to be rejected. I'm tired of it and I see it happens all the time where even besties fall for each other. Why does it not happen to me and what am I missing? I dont think its the way I look as a lot of people say I'm attractive and its sadly mostly guys but I have had woman say I'm beautiful. I have confidence like I'm not shy, im quite extrovert and friendly natured. Tell me where I'm going wrong or is it possible i have had people crush on me without realizing it?.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    If all of your female friends are straight then it's completely normal for them to not be into you.

    I had a female bestfriend in high school who supposedly was attracted to me, but she never confided to me that she was. She actually told my best guy friend that she was attracted to me. I'm actually very happy she never told me, because it might have been really awkward.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Hmm okay but now days majority of women are bi or at least bi curious

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        No they're not. It's just so trendy that now you think they are.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Um actually they are, I think you're unaware of how common it actually is.

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            Oh, I'm aware. It's a thing, but it's not a new thing.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago

              Never said it was new

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  • plantab
    5 years ago

    Theres not need to feel bad about this, they might just not be gay! (or bi, etc) I'm sure plenty of people have had crushes on you, like you felt towards some of your friends, but didn't say anything. I'm sure you're not doing anything wrong!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Okay thanks for the advice!!:)

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