Iim for a graduate student instructor to have a crush on an undergrad?

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In college, I took a class two years ago with this one instructor. Ten months later, we were walking on campus in opposite directions and I overheard my former instructor say to her friend “Hey, it’s [my name]! I had a crush on him!” At the time I took the class I was 19 and the instructor would be 23-24. Now, the instructor would be 24-25 and I am 20.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    12 years ago

    I don't see a problem with it myself. You should probably be flattered, and possibly have a conversation if your old instructor is someone you could see yourself dating!

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    As long as you were of age, it's fine. It could've been your personality or your wit that attracted her to you.

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  • iceneo
    12 years ago

    Completely normal and well within age ranges. As you get older your desires of what you think is attractive do change. And of course it was only a crush.

    If you don't feel comfortable knowing it then just ignore it but I would be flattered and if you like them ask them out!

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  • ANGLOGEEZER
    11 years ago

    How many other females has this boy instructor had affairs with? Typical. Technical term in Psychiatry is TRANSFERENCE. Female instructors often have affairs with impressionable college boys, too. Normal? Ja, Si, Da, Oui.

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