Is it normal a woman being submissive

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Is it normal I hate when woman claim they enjoy to be sexually submissive like its some revalation. Its like if a woman were to come out of the closet as straight. In fact it is by far easier to find a lesbian than a dominant woman.

And don't tell me about dominatrices. While they act dominant if you meet or learn more about them they almost all have Alpha boyfriends and prefer the submissive role in their personal life.

I understand the reasoning that sexuality is still taboo but I don't understand why women feel entitled to be so self congratulatory while proclaiming they are the norm.

Also just butt hurt as I ponder if truly dominant women (that don't at the end of the day want to be dominated themselves) even exist

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    What's wrong with equality?

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    • rayb12
      6 years ago

      The role a partner plays sexually and their hierarchal position within a relationship if such a thing exists are two seperate things. For many people sex that does not involve power exchange is not stimulating while the consensual play and performance of dominance and submission is greatly rewarding.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        I'm just not into any of that shit, I prefer sweet loving like folks do when they're listening to the Slow Jams. The best loving is sweet and slow like molasses.

        ... besides I just got out of a relationship with a verbally and emotionally abusive narcissist who was trying to take it to the next level. I will NEVER be submissive for anyone.

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        • rayb12
          6 years ago

          You can enjoy your sexual preferences without denigrating those of others. Especially while yours are the norm.

          I'm sorry to hear this, and have read you speak about it more at length. But Rose, my kinks have nothing to do with abuse. I see you without exception taking the side of women and think you need to be more careful about letting your experiences influence comments you make on posts that really have nothing to do with them, such as this one.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            Just as an aside, I recently got proposition by a self-described submissive male. I really didn't take interest of course, but I do want to mention that a big part of that is that he said he doesn't drink, and I assume he's not down to smoke some herb.

            Sure a lot of people probably get into kinky role playing in the bedroom, and perhaps it has nothing to do with abuse. I suppose I am very disappointed in myself for having not seen the red flags along the way. A person can leave a detailed post about whatever drama he or she is experiencing and I can see red flags in a toxic partner plain as day if the post is detailed enough. However, I am not as adept at taking a step back, and looking with clear eyes at my own life circumstances. I can tell you this much that I have never met a man who has portrayed himself to be the victim of cheating, alcoholic, abusive women so much in my life as I did with this last one. I believed him in earnest as I want to have compassion for the victim, and in all honesty I do believe that there are men that are abuse victims, I really do. I should have been more wary and suspicious, as if all of his tales of woe are to be believed all of his ex-girlfriends cheated on him except for me. I have a soft spot for people who have been cheated on as I have been cheated on by my first ex-husband, but he is the only one that I know of who cheated on me. I should have been suspicious when I met someone charming as eager to please who claimed that every single one of his exes cheated on him. It is perhaps just too much of a coincidence, and I certainly didn't want to be the one to invalidate the feelings of a seemingly nice guy who claimed to be the victim of repeated infidelity and physical abuse.

            I guess the joke's on me. Believe me, no one in their right mind would want to be in my shoes right now.

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  • Blood_Kat91
    6 years ago

    That's just life i guess. Some women are clear subs, some don't mind being on top.

    I'm open to pretty much anything that doesn't get too out there (mutilation,scat, etc.)

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    • rayb12
      6 years ago

      It is, and yeah maybe I've been lucky but every girl I've met has been open.

      My wish is just to find someone that brings up punching my balls before I do.

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