Is it normal about that movie 50 shades of grey ?

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My gf made me watch that movie with her. And I felt extremely uncomfortable from the beginning. But my gf and her girl friends seemed to like it a lot so I tried not to say anything.

So do girls really like that kind of rough sex ? And to be honest, that main guy was hot like underwear model hot so maybe really hot guys can do that ? I'm not that hot, I can't picture myself doing rough sex without looking like a rapist.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    No, all these crazy, squirrel bitches be trippin! There's nothing wrong with you, there are just lots of stupid females out there.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Mr Grey essentially rapes Anna...I heard this from somewhere, I can't remember where from but it goes like this.

    If Mr Grey was not a powerful, rich, and handsome guy, it wouldn't be a romance movie, it would be a criminal minds episode.

    Why women are so crazy for such a crappy story or even guy is beyond me. I have little to no doubt in my mind that if you took out the shallow aspects of Mr Grey, his money, his looks, and so on, this wouldn't of gotten as far as it would.

    And before everyone gets bitchy, no, I am not aiming this at all women, just the vast majority of the Mr Grey fans.

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    • wistfulmaiden
      9 years ago

      It's not even romantic! Secretary was kind of kinky and had a happy ending. This one just beats her like a dog until she realizes... Fuck this it's not worth it!

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  • sillygirl77
    9 years ago

    I refuse to read the book and see the movie. I heard about the vile acts that go down... rape, ignoring a safe word and him beating her etc... not for me. So many women at work read it, and I have not clue why. OP you're completely normal.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    No. I was shocked at how awful he treats her and I would never be treated that way.

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  • sheven
    9 years ago

    Just because it turns you on doesn't mean you want it in real life.

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  • ArayaLioness
    9 years ago

    BDSM is NOT like 50 shades. Women who have read that book and/or seen the movie have said that the man is an emotionally abusive stalker who relentlessly pursues the woman. BDSM has rules and one of the rules is that if someone DOES NOT WANT to do something, DO NOT DO IT. Christian Grey ignored her.

    That being said, many women like rough sex. It is normal. It's a preference. There's nothing wrong with that.

    Also, I don't think Christian is hot.

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    The book and I assume also the movie, which I wouldn't spend 1c to see, portrays extremely dangerous non-conensual sex and bullying.

    The fact that this portrayal turns some women (and lots of men, I'll bet) on doesn't mean they want it in real life.

    That's the danger of this type of misogynistic propaganda, it gives some men an excuse to terrorise and abuse women in the belief that women really like that .... some of us may like GAMES about submission and domination, but we're not so stupid that we want the real thing

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    • TrustMeImLying
      9 years ago

      "The fact that this portrayal turns some women (and lots of men, I'll bet) on doesn't mean they want it in real life."

      I'm so glad to have come across least one comment here that seemed to grasp this idea. I've not read the books nor seen the movie, but I can speculate its appeal and probably even argue that those who like it -do not- want a similar relationship. But I'm sure there are tons of readily available articles one can google that would be more credible and comprehensive than the several paragraphs I'd type up.

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      • Ellenna
        9 years ago

        Well I don't think it's as black and white as that, more grey! (Excuse the puns)

        The issue with both porn and BDSM is that the intensity of the sexual response can become addictive, so that some people will look for more and more extreme acts either on the screen or in reality and NO addiction is healthy. In particular, very intense sex with no emotional and/or spiritual connection can lead to other people being treated as commodities to be used and discarded or even worse.

        Some people who use a lot of violent porn DO start to believe the propoganda that this is what women want and act it out in real life.

        I do believe that BDSM "games" within committed egalitarian relationships can be positive for some people but this is NOT what is portrayed in Shades - the "hero" ignores her safe word and continues with sex against her will (ie RAPE) also belittles, intimidates and criticises her outside the sexual part of the relationship (ie DOMESTIC VIOLENCE).

        Just as with porn, there's a real danger that some men will see this as what women want and some women with low self-esteem and/or past abuse issues will go along with it - THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT HEALTHY!

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  • Dazed_dreamer
    9 years ago

    Me? No.
    Am I the only one that hasnt seen the movie?

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    • Freedom_
      9 years ago

      Me neezer.

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    • thegypsysailor
      9 years ago

      Nope; it hasn't gotten down here yet.

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