Is it normal afraid to "go down" in case its gross down there?.
Sex is all about being caught up in the moment and going with the flow rather than asking questions like "Are you clean down there? Do you have your period? E.c.t...
I'm 25f and never been down on a girl because of my fears of not being able to handle it if its really unhygienic..
How do you go about this with your gf?? I would hate to embarrass her if I went down then had to come straight back up!..