Is it normal afraid to have kids because they will be like me

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I want biological kids someday but I dont want to pass on all my problems to my child and problems from my family. I want them to have betters looks, health and IQ than I do. Should I just adopt so my kids have a better life.

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Based on 35 votes (25 yes)
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  • Scouseberg
    7 years ago

    I'm an extremely cute guy but both my parents were kind of ugly, my face is just a mixture of the few good features they have , and I have a friend who's the same.

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    My friend adopted in the 1970s and its all sorted out by socal services you know nothing of the mother or back ground and pick the child up from an arranged location from social services

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    • charli.m
      7 years ago

      Are you aware it is no longer the 1970s?

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      • funlovingbitch
        7 years ago

        I know wish it was would fell so old lol

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  • Reeve
    7 years ago

    Hey I feel you dude, you care a lot about your future offspring, nice job, but it sounds like you have low self-esteem. Focus on your positives.

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    That is a nice thought but adoption is a gamble unknown health problems genetic problems family history all unknown.

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    • Reeve
      7 years ago

      Wouldn't somebody be able to tell you about the child's history? I mean that's what I would do.

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