Is it normal annoying friend always groping me and wont stop?

Is it normal for a friend to always have to touch you and wont ever stop. Makes me not want to be around people anymore. I dont have many friends left and when I hang out with these people I am obligated to do something like this. Its fucking irritating since I am stuck doing stuff myself. I would like friend as I have no connections and no work but use to make friends at high-school.

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Based on 49 votes (18 yes)
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  • la_uva_mojada

    tell them you just got diagnosed with scabies

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  • thegypsysailor

    It's pretty sad you'll put up with this shit for the sake of a few people who really aren't your friends, anyway. Where's your self respect? If you tell someone not to touch you and they continue doing it, then they are by no means your friend. A friend wouldn't treat you that way.
    You are fooling yourself that these kids are your friends, so stop lying to yourself, dump them and go find some friends who will show you some respect.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Grope his crotch with the point of your heel or your soccer cleat. That should get the point across.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I can't stand touchy-feely people!!!! It's one thing if I have a close relationship with a person that I trust and like. But no, it'd always the people that I'm not close to or fond of that think that is perfectly acceptable to feel on me. I fucking hate that. They make me want to punch, slap them or tell them off. I would never psychically assault someone, but I have told some people off and once, I had to grab someone's hands and push them off of me. People get so mad and offended when you do this! I'm so peaceful and relaxed otherwise. I wish that more people would ask first. >_<

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  • RoseIsabella

    Eat lots of delicious beans and then release a silent but violent one next time the octopus tries to grab you.

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      fuck fartin time for a stun gun

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      • RoseIsabella

        Hell yeah! I ain't mad at cha.

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        • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

          then i aint tryin hard enough

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          • LOL, you guys made me laugh!

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  • reminiscent

    Ok if you dont want to be touched that way and they keep doing it that would piss me off. You dont need friends who wont respect your feelings.
    try joining a club...like a book club or knitting club. Whatever your hobby is there are lots of other people with the same hobby.

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  • just tell them , some people are touchy feely and some are not...but give them some slack cause they might forget from time to time

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  • Faceless

    Meh. Groping is part of life. When I was your age we groped all day and groped all night. Man, those are not fun parties...

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  • (s)aint

    Stand up for yourself. It's your body and you make up the rules for who gets to touch it and who doesn't.

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  • helpful_demon

    it's normal to be annoyed by this behavior, but the behavior your friend is performing is not normal. they're not respecting your boundaries and that's creepy and abusive. i'm sorry to hear about your situation but, if they're not respecting your boundaries and forcing you to act like you're okay with them making unwanted contact with you, they're not your friends. you might have to break it off with them - but don't give up hope! i'm sure you'll find some real friends that you can trust and that will respect you! best of luck!!!

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  • Nokiot9

    You aren't happy that someone finds u attractive enough to want to grope u? Or is this like, a thing that's totally forced on u?

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    • helpful_demon

      even if someone finds someone else attractive, they should never, ever grope them. you can be attracted to somebody without crossing their physical boundaries or otherwise making them uncomfortable.

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    • Grabbing places like peoples crotch and shit constantly is kind of annoying. Its not like they are touching me in the stomach or something. That isn't sexual.

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  • captblood44

    i'm sorry i read this. why didn't someone stop me. :\

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  • Crusades_

    There is nothing wrong with groping people. I grope random women on the street all the time. Because they're all asking for it, dressing all sexy n` shit.

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    • shuggy-chan

      And when that old lady gropes you she'll say you were asking for too xD

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