Is it normal as an adult to still steal from your younger brother's friends ?
Is it normal that i will be 30 in a month (and still live with my parents)and I CAN’T stop stealing from my 20 year old brother’s friends ? , one time I stole a couple of things from his friends, he found out and fought with me a BIG fight , and I broke his trust towards me, already our relationship isn’t good , now it’s even worse , after a year or so I stole from his other friend who came over with my brother from college to sleep at our (or my parents ) house , for a week , and he didn’t find out , yet he came back yesterday to visit (he doesn’t live with us ) he lives in an apartment next to his college , anyways he didn’t ask about the stuff I stole from his friend , yet the following day he called me from the office to ask about his friend’s stuff because his friend forgot them at my parent's house , I played dumb and pretended that I don’t know what he is talking about , I hid his friends stuff in my closet , and he told me if I searched all your room and the closet are you sure that I wont find my friend’s stuff ? , I told him will help him search for the things , he didn’t listen and put all my clothes on the bed and searched under the bed , he found his friend’s stuff in my closet and told me on the phone “ Why do you keep doing this ?” . We are a dysfunctional family now we are even more dysfunctional .