Is it normal for “tea-bagging” (assault) to be passed off as a joke

This happened in 2011 but I just remembered it last night.

On a residential trip in my secondary school one boy was “tea-bagged” in his sleep, meaning another boy placed his testicles in his open mouth. News of this spread through the school and the victim was a laughing stock, people would yell “tea bag!” at him between lessons. As far as I’m aware the boy who did it to him faced no social repercussions and the teachers just acted like nothing had happened.

Was it normal back then for male on male sexual assault to be viewed as a joke? For a victim to be shamed so publicly?

It was normal 3
It was not normal 4
I witnessed a similar incident (please describe if you feel comfortable doing so) 1
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  • 1WeirdGuy

    I thought they laid them on your forehead I never heard of someone actually putting them in a mouth 🤮

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    • It’s forcing an unconscious guy to do oral sex basically, over the line and disgusting.

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        People knew better than to do that to me. If you stick balls in my mouth you will be forced to fight me ...that is a good quote btw

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  • litelander8

    I’m going to say that sadly it is normal. But it shouldn’t be.

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  • malaparte

    In 2011, when I was in the 11th grade, this guy grabbed another one, pushed him up against the bus, and began furiously dry-humping him in his ass. The guy getting humped asked his assailant "Logan, y'all ain't bein' serious are you?" to which Logan replied, "Boy, if I was bein' serious I'da done kicked yer ass!" Shit like this would happen all the time in the locker room, and it was usually the biggest homophobes that would assault everyone.

    I remember hearing about this guy once that tea-bagged another guy at a sporting event; some guy was bitter about his team losing, so when he saw a guy passed out drunk wearing the opposing team's jersey, he decided to restore his honor by shoving his cock into the unconscious guy's mouth.

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  • bigbudchonger

    It's hilarious is what it is.

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    • Would you find it funny if you were on the receiving end? How about if someone did this to your brother or son?

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      • bigbudchonger

        I would hate it obviously. It's called schadenfreude; we all get it from time to time

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        • You don’t think that’s a warped attitude to have to an underage victim of sexual assault?

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          • Wow3986

            Don't mind him, OP. He's just another sick fuck defending the actions of a rapist.

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          • bigbudchonger

            I wouldn't call it sexual assasult. It's alsmost like calling a wedgie sexual assault. I don't see the intent of sexual assault as the intent or act in this case.

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            • Putting your genitals in an unconscious person’s mouth is sexual assault- an unconscious person cannot consent.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Well it was funny when Marylin Manson did it..

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  • Wow3986

    Not normal.

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety

    It's one of those things that you'd think would be frowned upon, but isn't.

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