Is it normal for a professor to care and worry about a student?

One of my students had to take a leave of absence halfway through last semester because she had anorexia and had to be hospitalized. She's back this semester, and she's in one of my classes again, and I'm so worried about her. She looks much better, but I don't know how she's doing mentally. I really care, but I don't know how to approach the issue.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa

    I would be very happy if one of my professors showed such concern for me. I look up to a lot of them and that would mean a lot to me. Maybe just catch her after class and let her know you hope she's doing well, or compliment her progress in the class (if she's doing well). A kind word can go a long way.

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  • Freedom_

    I had one professor who would just ask me how I was doing/show concern after I missed a day and I thought that was nice (I think he got a sense that I was going through some things from the previous semester). I don't like to talk about my personal issues unless I get an invitation to do so, so to speak. It was somewhat of a relief to be able to talk about it (although barely) to someone I looked up to. He didn't treat me any differently either, which was also a relief because I didn't want to come across as wanting pity; he still called me out when i came in late, as well as if I wasn't paying full attention and such.

    I hope he's still at uni when i go back so I can rock out in his class. Somehow his painting lectures read to me as metaphors for life lessons and I couldn't show how much I appreciated that at the time. I also left mid-semester...without a word ,didn't notify anyone or anything because my reasons were starting to sound like excuses to me and I didn't want to go into too much detail about it.

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  • KingTermite

    keep a professional distance, it would probably put your job in jeopardy if it came across like you're trying to bang her.

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    • 53739

      those are the best bangs, the emotionally/psychologically vulnerable ones, usually they're insecure and looking for external validation.

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      • KingTermite

        I didn't say it wouldn't be fun. I'll bang nearly any woman that doesn't move faster than me, but that's beside the point, I was only talking about the best way to keep a job. If the job isn't a priority then by all means, get down on it.

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  • flyingnostalgia

    You should keep your distance.

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  • Crow

    I had a high school teacher who really worried for me when he saw my mum hit me during parent teacher interviews.

    I really appreciated his concern. He's like a second father to me.

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    • KingTermite

      There's a disturbing thought.

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  • NathanScot

    @53739,...true,so true.

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