Is it normal for an adult to be attracted to teenagers?

Just wondering?, because i think it is but i want to hear other peoples opinion

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  • chubbawubba69

    Absolutely. Throughout most of history it was common to consider someone who hit puberty an adult. This is why 30 year old men used to marry 14 or 15 year old girls on a regular basis. You can't help being attracted to them once they begin to look like women. 18 being an adult is a relatively modern invention as well as an arbitrary number.

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    • Devyn

      18 is not only an arbitrary number, but a much higher one than is common in the rest of the developed world where it is normally 14 or 16. In Spain it's 13!

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    • Gelmurag

      Thank God. Someone just saved me a ton of typing. Its all biology!

      Heres the link to the rant post

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-younger-girls-like-older-men-and-why-112440/#comment-988840

      Also: Here is a listing of time frames and ages. I had to dig this one up out of the archives haha.

      http://isitnormal.com/poll/whats-the-perfect-age-to-lose-virginity-110642/#comment-956617

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  • ariannel

    Depends on the age. 13 - 16 is creepy. 17 - 19 is not so creepy.

    It also depends on how old the adult is. If a person is in their 20's or 30's its not so weird. 40's+ is a bit creepy.

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  • tommy81

    It's normal from a biological standpoint. Nature doesn't adhere to our societal standards and laws regarding mating. Once a person has gone through puberty, they've developed all of their secondary sex characteristics. So it's no wonder why they are included in those they are attracted to. I'm not saying that adults should form sexual relationships with teens, only that it not abnormal to be physically attracted to them.

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  • if girls don't want to be looked at then maybe they should cover their pussy ass and tits up then

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    • ToxicCrayons

      I had 40 year old men straight up staring at my tits and ass from the moment I hit puberty. I never wore anything that showed cleavage or had my ass cheeks hanging out. At 15 - 16 I had married men on a day out with their wife and kids standing there perving on me. You can't say, "WELL THEYRE JUST ASKIN FOR IT CUZ THEYRE WOMEN," as if all men are monkeys that can't control themselves. Please refrain from any future stupidity in the comments section.

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    • cousinsrock

      THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!

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      • your welcome. thats how i see it

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  • 1marcelfilms

    Thats why most teachers have like boners all day long

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    • milkymum

      a few of my teachers where pervs and had bonners why teaching and looking down my top

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      • Specter

        Yeah, that's creepy. Teachers, of all people, need to pretend they don't find their female students attractive. Anything else is bad for everyone.

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        • milkymum

          that is so true and off putting knowing the teacher is looking down my top or talking to my breasts but the worse was in detention

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  • Demigod

    OK, I NORMALLY horse around on here and crack jokes, but for once I will be serious. take notes: I AM a licensed Psychologist and work for the Criminal Justice System. All man made laws aside, it is completely normal as long as the teen is well past puberty. In the Mammalian animals it is a natural drive to seek a mate that is most capable to reproduce and procreate to further the survival of the species. In humans this is teenagers. The female will have the longest reproductive span and the male will be the most virile at this age bracket, peaking at about 18 years of age... So this is an instinctive drive.
    However sociologically speaking, we have adopted rules and morals against such practices for well defined reasons based on the mental health of the younger person. In the long run, the youth does not have the mindset nor life skills necessary develop a healthy romantic relationship with a much older person, and the situation rapidly turns toxic and causes the teen many mental health issues. In just a century and a half past it was common to arrange marrages of youg girls to older men, and much information became available as the science of psychology was developing and maturing, giving massive amounts of hands on proof to the issues this created. The same too, was found in the cases of incest, which contrary to popular belief, are not all that prone to produce "defective" offspring, unless the family lineage is so inbread for numerous generations that the genetics are literally locked to two sets of genetic material for multiple generations, as has been found in many cases in history (and on sci fi tv). The point here is in both instances there is a very high risk of emotional trauma, which is why society has enacted laws against incest and statutory"rape" type situations.

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    • robbieforgotpw

      Nice novel

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  • TwistedLittleGirl

    I don't think anyone'd do that maybe if there are 25 and the man is 50 it doesn't matter if a cuople of that age range are happy let them be and don't judge them for being happy together xx

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    • cousinsrock

      Thank you! for god sake!! I love the way T.V brain washes the world.

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      • TwistedLittleGirl

        You see this is the problem with modern day society I'm 18 and I've been with a man who was 48 and it was great! I believe that youngsters that are attracted to the older generation is because they quite clearly have developed maturity at an early stage like me I prefer mature and sophisticated men than boys my own age, maturity is HOT!!! Sophistication is HOT!!! To a girl that acts older than they really are older men totally and utterly hot hot!!!

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  • Blather!

    Well actually, if your an older guy/gal and like 14-16 its not bad, but 10-13 means your a pedofile but yeah

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  • underager

    Age of consent here is 16.
    Sooooo, for the last 4 years of a teenager's life they are ALSO adults.

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  • oneonone

    All normal red blooded guys way to do it with young girls
    All normal red blooded female want to do it with young guys
    Those that don't ate either lying or not normal
    I'm no Pedo but a sexy young 16+ in the UK is legal. The more the better

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    • cousinsrock

      Banging a 16 year old in Michigan is legal too

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    • TwistedLittleGirl

      I totally agree I live in the UK its so much better :D xx

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      • Austalien

        Same here in Australia :)

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  • Bernardsbook

    Normal.

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  • YagM

    I notice they are hot but there is something lacking. The way they talk, their facial features and the way they dress makes teen girls and sometimes girls in their early twenties seem "not fully formed".

    And frequently annoying.

    Even if it were legal I would nave to be very desperate to do more than look.

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    • guacadoggie

      Agreed. I think a teenage girl can be quite hot, but I think they're often annoying and not on the same mental level that I am (I'm 24).

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      • yeah thats true

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    • cousinsrock

      Its called maturity dude

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  • lovelyllama

    If you are talking 12-15.. no that is disturbing. 16-19.. yeah that is nature. If they have somewhat developed that makes sense.. but if you mean little girls, that is wrong in society. Any younger than 16 keep it in your pants and your imagination.

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  • mattchengdu

    23 and teaching English in China. Slim 12+, cute eyes, short skirts sometimes showing panties, trousers or jeans right up showing their lips - you just dream. some of them are advanced and stare at my boner. i daydream of them taking it in their mouth, or giving me their virgin tight holes

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    • Shaung1

      good on you

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  • LooksLikeLove

    Men find teenage girls hotter than adult women ... because they are!

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    • Joykidet

      So you think 13-18 year olds are hotter than all "women", what defines a women ? I think 13 is far to young in today's society.

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      • Legion

        maybe, but it used to not be

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    • Austalien

      I agree :)

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  • dbug97

    Okay first make sure they are not under 13 cuz then it's child molestation which is really bad. Second in my opinion it's really really creepy!!!!!

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  • Specter

    Yeah, it's normal... especially if the girl has matured early. Some 14 year-olds look very developed indeed, and I can't say they're physically unattractive.

    On the other hand, some still look like little girls, and on the inside they are ALL little girls, so penis stays firmly in pants.

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  • trickydick

    It works both ways

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  • ThatsWhatWeDeerDo

    I actually don't know... haha. I'm 18.. and last year (age 17) I had a boyfriend who was 28... 11 years age difference O_O So... I would probably say it's not weird.. I know he liked me for me, not for weird pervy reasons (I can read faces... so I DO actually know that..)
    As long as it's not creepy...
    And like Lucyg123 said, it depends on the people... me and my ex were really open with each other.. he never said anything inappropriate.. it was good.
    So.. I guess half n half.. =/

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  • Avant-Garde

    It depends on the age difference.

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  • Lucyg123

    It depends on the people

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  • DolphinAngel

    Before I answer that question... what age?

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    • Shaung1

      as young as 12-13

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      • Lynxikat

        I'm sorry, but that's pedophiliac.

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        • cousinsrock

          i don’t think its pedophilia until a adult rapes a child. just thinking about it doesn’t make him a pedophile. and if one of his students wanted to have sex with him I still don’t think its pedophilia if that’s even a word.... lol The word pedophile is getting used to loosely these days. If your a freak that rapes little kids then yes you need to F.ing die and your a pedophile. But if a teen wants to have sex with you then your just one lucky son of a bitch..... lol

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        • Shaung1

          No it's hebephiliac, it's true, pedophiles are interested in prepubescent kids, 12-19 year olds are pubescent

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          • Lynxikat

            When I usually think of hebephilia, I usually thought of teens 15-19... thanks for the correction :)

            But, either way, 12-13 year olds are still children- it's gross.

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            • Shaung1

              What can you do I didn't choose my sexuality, so its not my fault I guess, I'm not a rapist or anything

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      • DolphinAngel

        Yeah weird... but I am not the one to judge =P

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  • zchristian

    Age does matter here...

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    • cousinsrock

      No age dosnt matter thats just what T.V has burned into your head.

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      • zchristian

        Only thing tv has burned into my head is the German language...

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  • hhdvedgbch

    If it's a 14 year old fuck no if it is an 18 year old sure

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    • Shaung1

      im talking about as young as 12-13-14-15-16-17-18-19

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      • milkymum

        i was 12 when my breasts started to grow and thats when guys start to notice and my male teachers where worse

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        • cousinsrock

          Would you pleas shut up about your breasts already whooooo cares stop wearing shirts where your tits are hanging out!

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          • SceedarMoon

            Yeah ahahah no doubt!

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          • milkymum

            you dont have to wear baggy tops or loose fitting ones for guys to look or talk to them!!!

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          • Miauwo

            AHahahahahaha!

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  • normalfeet

    Rapists!

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    • Shaung1

      How does being sexualy attracted to teens make me a rapist you should know people don't choose thier sexuality

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  • emy

    If you are over 30 and attracted to teenagers you should be in jail! that is just wrong

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    • Demigod

      YOU are wrong for claiming a completely normal urge is wrong. Acting and feeling are two totally different things. People like you are why the world is so messed up today and our youth no longer know who they can trust, so they hold things in and end up not seeking hepl when they need it. I see too many parents, seeking therapy, because their children committed suicide as a result of not having someone they could trust, to talk to... We need less hypocrites and more honest people in the world. YOU are a hypocrite...

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      • Legion

        wow. This is one of the smartest things anyone has said on here. It's stupid how many laws meant to protect end up hurting more than they help, especially when people go to great lengths to enforce said laws.

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    • cousinsrock

      Your wrong for saying that. Just wait till you get 30 and you have the hots for a teen then are you wrong???????

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    • Shaung1

      im 23, why should i go to jail, i have good morals and i live in a nice house (upper middle class)

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  • milkymum

    all guys at any age will look at a teen girl, its nature and doesnt hurt to look, but when i was at school certain teachers would look down my top that when it goes to far

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    • cousinsrock

      Stop wearing slutty cloths then!

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      • milkymum

        what do you mean by sluty clothes or was my old school uniform making me look sluty!!

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        • Its_Called_Love

          Yeah, it doesn't matter what you wear, the dudes will look.

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          • milkymum

            so true and no matter when or where and with ever im with or there with

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  • tobiashardy

    When I was 19-20, I thought I was one of the rare guys to still be attracted to 15-17 year old girls. I realised now that it was perfectly normal all along. But nobody around me was bold enough to admit it, or could be that they were in denial. Society says if you are above 18, it's wrong to look at girls who are under 18. It's totally nonsense, because most girls get puberty at 12-13, and they are already fully developed by the time they are 15-16. It's human nature to hormonally respond to their bodies. Having said that, it doesn't mean I will do anything about it though. Matching maturity levels count much more than anything else.

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  • wreckblizzardrefresh

    So when you are more older and have kid will you be ok with older men Hitting on your young kid.

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  • Mersaphe

    When I was 18 years old and a freshman in college I would fantasize about dating high school girls. Now that I'm 25 and too old for college I think about dating college girls. I won't say that with age comes wisdom but sometimes I do regret how immature I used to be.

    That being said, my best friend's sister is 17 and recently I've been having dreams about her. I know it's wrong but she has the smile of an angel. So maybe I'm not really all that smarter now after all, or maybe it's my other head doing the thinking.

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  • Feanaro

    Yeah teenage girls are hot. Though 13 is definitely way too young, I more mean like 15-17. I'm pretty young though I'm only 22. I think about teenage girls a lot but when I'm like 40 I'll try not to lol.

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  • Bow95

    Yeah, i really hate that all the older guys trying to take girls my age. They are just leaving us with the freshmen.

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  • Silverloin

    um i don't think adults liking kids (sexually) is a good thing in fact when is that a good thing ._. this sounds horrible

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  • Wolfmankayl

    I think puberty is old enough if they want it, but marriage first.

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  • simple.chicc

    YES IT'S SO HOT TO ME BABY

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  • blackalica

    it's normal to look...not touch

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  • maxwellelle

    it is hot and wrong

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  • Joykidet

    Well honey. That'll depends on if yer likes the anal or if you likes the twinkly winky. It's all relative baby mhmm

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  • It depends on how old this adult is. If he's like 50, fuck no. P3d0

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    • Shaung1

      23

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  • TwistedLittleGirl

    How can you be so sure I'm that age?
    :P for all you know I could be same age as you or older x

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    • Crudhouse

      Mmmm...you're calling yourself the little girl AND you didn't reply to my message so I just got here by mistake lol

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      • TwistedLittleGirl

        Well i have been mistaken for a 12year old :S that's why I'm called 'twistedlittlegirl' and tbh I'm not that old x

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  • Crudhouse

    It's normal to get attracted. I feel weird even going out with girls older than me if they're less mature than I am. Feels as if I'm violating nature's laws somehow.

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    • TwistedLittleGirl

      In ways we are simliar but its kinda the other way round isn't it? Great minds together create good things you get me? ;) xxxx
      How old are you??

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      • Crudhouse

        I'm 30. Great minds only get great with time and maturity though unfortunately. Let me guess yours...16/17?

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  • TwistedLittleGirl

    Well that is good to know tbh I didn't care what society thought about what I wanted to do and they can't stop me, if you do find a girl just make sure they know what they are getting themselves into xx

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  • TwistedLittleGirl

    Its not as terrible as everyone makes it out to be, I'm 18 and I've been out with a 48 year old I know a lot of people that go out and get married to older men so it is normal it doesn't matter what other people think its nothging to do with them just don't rape anyone xx

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    • Shaung1

      I can never rape anyone

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  • kaylanashrafi

    Umm... sir i hope you rent fucking these 12 yr old ur attracted to because if so no its not normal your welcome. ur weird. just telling you straight up dont be a teacher, and if you already are i suggest you quit now.

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    • Shaung1

      no im not a teacher, and yes its only weird because society says it is

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      • moonbeam11

        Yea society says it is! They are right what in the world could attract you to a twelve year old they are still little girls you sick pedophile

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        • Shaung1

          its true we do live in a unfair world, im not a pedophile, im a hebephile/ephibophile and i didnt choose to be a hebephile/ephibophile so why do people discriminate other peoples sexuality when they didnt choose it, please stop being a ignorant monster, i really think people like you are stupid no offence

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      • milkymum

        not when your 12 and you ahve guys lookign down my top or talkign to my breasts let alone guys trying to or actually touching when i was 12 , my breasts started to grow at 12 and guys perved more from then onwards

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  • ishitpandas

    Ya normal most men are pervs so it's nothing new haha

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    • milkymum

      that is so true guys look and perv at girls soon as they start to get breasts, my school teachers where the worst for me but i didnt mind my male mates at school looking

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  • DevilsAdvocate23

    I am only 18 but i find young teens very sexy. There innocence And cuteness is very appealing to me. I would love to get with the younger sophmores and even some freshman from my school, but fear getting in trouble :P

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  • gnordsnerth009

    There are a lot of beautiful teenage girls that I'm attracted to, because many of them look like mature women. But I don't fantasize about them or even think of having sex with them. Don't stalk them or download photos of naked teenagers from the internet. or you'll be pegged as a pedophile, and locked up as a sex offender. Glad they convicted Sandusky, finally. May he rot in hell.

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  • LovingTogether

    OK kids, please believe me. I'm going on 83 yo and I still have sex with my 82 yo wife once a week and we have had guys as young as 18. We're both bisexual. For me, I often think of underage girls and boys, but can't do much about it because it's illegal, but when I jerk-off, I do think of the youngsters. My wife likes her men at leaset 30 on up.

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