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I recently moved and my new place has no room for my weights so I've joined a gym. Over the last few months I've noticed some guys in the locker room or getting out of the shower with a full on erection? It's not a gay gym. Nobody seems that bothered by it. Is It Normal?
It’s reasonably normal at my gym which is “gay friendly”. Far from an everyday occurrence, but I’ve noticed it a bit. Nobody cares.
The struggle is real for gay/bi guys in those situations, especially when they are younger and have less control. I’m bi and was outed at school because of this. After rugby practice it was. In the showers and all of a sudden these older boys came in and now it’s packed and I tried not looking but couldn’t help myself. I tried to stop it but the harder I tried the harder it got. I couldn’t help it. I hoped nobody would notice…….. They did. 😂
You can imagine the shit I got, even from my friends. From then on I was the queer boy.
I would try to avoid the showers after that, but the PE teacher was like a fucking nazi with it, even though he knew why I wanted to avoid it. Then I just thought fuck it…….Take it on the chin, stick up for yourself and don’t be embarrassed.
I never thought of it like that. I guess for a fairy like you being surrounded by all those other boys would be like me being surrounded by hot chicks. It must have been tough. They must have bullied the fuck out of you for forever. How old were you?
Fairy? 😂 The bullying was so bad that I told my mother that I would not go to school. She wanted to know why, so I told her it was because all the kids were calling me gay, and she was like….. “Why”? She got the truth out of me in the end and she told my stepdad even though I begged her not too. He burst out laughing, and then my mother was laughing as well, and then I was laughing. I was just ignoring the name calling, but my stepdad told me not too. So from then on when they made fun of me I made fun of them. If they touched me I would punch them back, and even though I was only 12 I kind of liked having a scrap. After a while it stopped, although I was still the gay kid, but that didn’t bother me.
Id bully you too because you admitted you were staring at dudes dicks and walking around with a hard on. Youre a fuckin weirdo.
Nope…… You would have tried to bully me, and failed. I would have had your own friends laughing at your ass. You would have been one of those boys who go around calling kids a fag but then when nobody is around you would ask the same kid for a blowjob. I know your sort 1WeirdGuy.
"I know your type" the same person complaining about ppl stereotyping you as you stare at dudes dicks in the shower and play victim when they call you out.
I dealt with a lot of phobes when I was kid. One of'em use to call me every slur the English language would allow, but then he'd grab guys' asses in the locker room, or he'd push you up against the bus and start thrusting like he was fucking you in the ass.
Get real! When you look hard enough (no pun), men and boys with boners are everywhere! The beach, on buses and trains, walking around — you name it. How about girls with stiff nipples? Totally normal.
Being the outgoing feminine bi cross dresser i would try to give hints that I like what I see and willing to help blow off some built up steam
IMHO, a nice hot shower is the next best thing to sex. So yeah, it's normal for me.
I wake up with a hard cock sometimes but when I'm strongman training I do not thankfully I'm at home when i do
You can't always control when you've got a boner. Sometimes you're not even thinking about sexy things, and a boner appears. I've got a boner right now, and all I'm doing is drinking coffee and posting things online.