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When I was little I was molested, since I have had to baby boys. What I want to know is is it normal For me to think my boys might grow up and molest some poor little B or G :-/
I guess under the circumstances it's understandable to worry, even though most parents wouldn't. Do try not to let this worry show to your kids though. I don't think that would be helpful.
You can teach them about respecting other people's boundaries though. Not touching someone if they don't want you to is a good message for any age.
is there any reason you think your boys might do such a thing? first of all kids are sexually curious abou thier bodies and that of thier peers being boy or girl. dome sexual games/exploration is nornal betwern children of the same age and gender or different gender to them is not sexual is play curiosity. if you ran into an episode where you carch them pkaying such games calmly stop them adk whete they learned it.
I guess it is just a fear that I have since I was molested by a few people since I was 3-13 I didn't have the best mother
I'm very sorry.
The first big step, if you haven't done it already, is to remove yourself and your kids from the degenerate environment which facilitated your abuse to begin with.
Firstly, I am sorry for your experience. There is nothing I can say to make it better.
However, you just put your finger on it. You agree that you "didn't have the best mother". Guess what? You can be the mother you never had and I am sure they will turn out fine.
Make sure your boys trust you and feel they can always come to you, ensure you never tell them off for sharing their opinions or thoughts with you. If there is a problem at some point which is related to that which you are worried about, you can speak to them and get help. Worrying about it is deconstructive and will stop you doing the best that you can.
Good luck.