Is it normal for professors to treat students this way?

I am 26 years old. Currently finishing up my associate's at a CC. I'm possibly starting undergraduate in the Fall.

One of my requirements was a very basic chemistry course with some lab time. It's called "chemistry in everyday life".

I have a teacher who I am starting to wonder if he has something against me. When I first started the semester, I decided to sit in the very front to focus.

I noticed from the first day he would keep staring at me when he was lecturing, which I didn't put much stock into.

We write these things called media responses in which we find a science article, summarize, and respond.

On my first paper, he corrected sentences that weren't incorrect and wrote at the bottom (paraphrasing), "several confusing sentences that don't make sense. I would suggest reading out loud to yourself and proofreading".

This paper was about a study on classroom acceleration and grouping students based on ability. In my paper, I made a comment about how I wished I would have been grouped based on ability as a child as it would have changed my life and I wouldn't be so far behind in pursuing a degree. I mentioned that I tended to want to spend time with people who might be deemed as less intelligent because the people who I was probably more close to in terms of intelligence seemed snobby. My point was that I chose my friends over academics only to end up losing those friends in just a few years and being left empty-handed.

I would rather be up front about things so, after class, I asked him what he didn't understand in my paper and I explained where I think he misunderstood my point and he seemed to understand more clearly.

After that, I made sure to write excellent articles. Fast forward a few weeks and during a lecture he made a comment such as, "Steven knew that, didn't you Steven?" Which again, I just shrugged off.

Also, I'm not fat, but I'm muscularly thick and about 6 feet tall. I have back issues I'm working through on top of everything else so I tend to take my time walking between classes. I was walking one day and he condescendingly said, "Almost there, Steve." Mind you, he is about 5 foot 6 and very skinny.

I study in the study center regularly, minding my own business, and he'll come up to me and it's like he has to know I've seen him.

Finally, on my recent paper, I wrote about a study that emphasized that students are more motivated by their peers than teachers. I'll definitely agree that it isn't a groundbreaking notion, but I decided to use it anyway. I will say that every article between my first and this last one were much stronger topics.

Anyway, the study basically said that professors are only effective at giving the hard facts and that students aren't even really motivated to learn until they see other students working towards their goals because it helps them envision themselves in future occupations applying the learned information as it relates to their field.

I have not yet received this paper back yet graded, but first thing Monday he discussed my paper to the class without mentioning who had written it, which is something he hadn't done all semester. He told the class he thought that the study was common sense that students learn better when working together and was very judgmental about it. Whether he believes that's common sense or not, not only should that not be the case (students learning more from peers), my article was about being INFLUENCED to learn more by peers.

Again, I just did my best to ignore it. I have so much else to worry about right now. After class, I was using the study center, again keeping to myself as I usually do. He went out of his way to come up to me and say, "thanks for letting me use your article today in class". Which is silly because I didn't give him permission nor did he ask to use it.

At the time, I was reading something so I was so caught off guard that I didn't have time to say anything. He said it like we were best friends and I said, "thank you...for obliterating it and making fun of me throughout class", but because of how caught off guard I was, he had started walking away by the time I could finish my sentence.

I know some professors want to bring the best out of their students, but it's not like I'm not trying to become the best me. I know full well I am not where I want to be. I dont do drugs or even really drink. I have no friends. I definitely try to make up for my shortcomings in other ways, which is why I'm always in the study center. I don't feel that I've ever been rude to the professor and I do nothing to anyone. I'm not a bad looking guy so I don't know if he's somehow jealous or if it's just a classic war between an English guy and a math/science guy.

I know I can be better, but I'm in a spot where I can't yet be the best me. There isn't a single lower chemistry class than this one and it feels like he makes it so much harder than it is. We had a substitute one day and I actually felt like I had been taught...plus, I felt free from projected hatred or bitterness.

I just feel like he is overstepping his boundaries. If he wants to criticize me, he can write remarks on my assignment or talk to me after class. The remarks he's making seem unprofessional. I know I'm being sensitive to some degree but I already feel like crap all the time.

I don't want to get in a spot where I'm in the wrong and do or say something regretful so wondering if I should talk to some kind of school official if it continues. What do you think?

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Comments ( 14 )
  • ERIC-CARTMAN98

    Based on how long this shit is and the fact that you took all this time to write i am gonna say it's not normal and your professor is an asshole.

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  • HalfInsaneFemale

    hes got Short Guy syndrome. hes passively angry at you cause he knows your dick is bigger

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  • Tealights

    I get it. I had a supervisor who would power trip on me often; he transferred a week ago, thank goodness (I was so close to losing my patience). I actually like going to work now.

    Anyway, you need to change your perspective on this a bit. He's getting under your skin because he can (sadly, there are people like that, especially if they're in a position of power). You truly just need to not give a shit. You're young, he isn't. You have many opportunities to be anything and adapt, while he's set in his ways and stuck at that college. You have so much going for you that he can only change if you allow him to by letting him get to you emotionally. All school cares about is attendance, and completion of the assignments, that's it, everything else is subjective depending on the professor. He can't fail you because he doesn't like you as long as you show up and do the work.

    I'm not saying you should be rude to him, just show him that his tactics aren't working anymore. You're there to learn and get your degree (or in his class, just pass and gtfo), not do high school shit while in college with some old ass man. So when he announce your paper in class, shrug it off. When he tracks you down in the study center, shrug it off; because all this is temporary.

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    • LionsMane

      I would tend to agree. I'm just saying I've maxed out on allowable credits you can take at this college. You get someone crazy enough, they'll fuck your grade up just for the lifetime satisfaction of it, effectively making me a dropout and forcing my loans into default.

      A job, I'd be less concerned with, but there's a lot riding on this semester.

      Sometimes it's just better to nip something in the bud and go to the appropriate administrator.

      But I will say it's all easier to see now that I've made this post. His intention was to make me feel inferior from the start.

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  • lordofopinions

    I have to agree. Your post went into WAY too much detail.

    What I gathered is he was a real dick at the beginning but he is starting to mellow.....a bit.

    Can you sit further back in the classroom?

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  • Fckmthrfkers

    I had a POS professor like that. He was a fucking asshole! Just endure the shit cake and get your grade. Just like a few cops out there they think they have super powers. They need their asses kicked!

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  • ojimpu

    Some professors are completely bs. They'd do everything to bring you down to see if you'd rise up or it's another win for them. It's given you'd meet them in college, you'll never know what's gonna happen.

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  • LionsMane

    UPDATE: we conveniently had a teacher assessment today at the start of class. One of those questionaires they do once a semester. I kinda put him on blast. 2 birds with one stone. Even though I'm probably going to regret it

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  • wigz

    Sounds like you got under his skin and now he's taking it too personally and making it his mission to try to embarrass you. It seems inappropriate.

    Sometimes the same class is taught by more than one teacher, look into that. If not, see if you can take it online maybe? I don't know what else you could/should do because it's been ages since I went to school. I don't know if complaining would help at all.

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    • LionsMane

      Well, we are three months into the semester and I doubt I could find a reasonable time slot to take the class. It definitely makes a lot of sense when you say that I've gotten under his skin. I just wrote up a formal complaint. Debating if it's big enough of a deal at this point yet to do send it in. You just never know about people and to what extent they'll go to. I am maxed out on allowed credits so if he really wanted to screw me over he could.

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  • Takuto

    It seems as though he's straight up being an asshole and you should ask him wtf he's doing. Many teachers do do this and this is when you realise there's very little dividing teachers from bullies except teachers are subtler and a degree. For some moronic reason many believe they need to drag their students down because their own life is crap.
    He sounds jealous as fuck.

    I've had this happen before but I wouldn't say it's normal.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Well, I read most of it then skimmed the rest. Your professor is a dick.

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  • Ratmanwakes

    Whatever you had to say in this telephone book ofa post of yours nobody will ever know: too boring and too long. Just looking at its sheer length gives a person a fucking headache. Go away.

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    • SmokeEverything

      Least im not the only one annoyed by these people writing novels on here lately. Just vote yes and move on

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