Is it normal for your personality to not match your appearance?

Not in a trans way but like being an attractive female and having the personality of a cringey neckbeard IIN?

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92% Normal
Based on 13 votes (12 yes)
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  • Ligeia

    Sounds like a typical pick-me.

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    • Nah, neckbeards are not attracted to males

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      • Ligeia

        What? Have you never heard of women pretending to have typical neckbeard interests, like videogames, to appeal to that type of man. It happens

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        • Yeah but Im not talking about pretending, and if you have the mind of a neckbeard it would mean you're attracted to women in a probably creepy way, not that you like videogames. Pickme female means they want to be picked by a man, and wouldn't be any kind of appearance mismatch.

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          • Ligeia

            Oh ok I see

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    • ospry

      What's a pick-me?

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      • Ligeia

        It's a woman who adopts traditionally male hobbies and anti-feminist ideas to appeal to men

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        • ospry

          I was gonna say that sounds like a Tomboy, except that Tomboys adopt traditionally male hobbies because they like it, not to try to be more appealing

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          • Ligeia

            Nah tomboy hobbies are more outdoorsy/athletic, pick-me would be like video games, watching sports, faking music/movie interests

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            • ospry

              I like that faking music is a traditional male hobby 😂

              Okay, on a second reading I get you meant faking music interests. Having had a brother in a high school garage band though, I think it's fair to say a lot of guys like to fake music too

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  • DarkLordGoosifer

    There's a lot of ugly-pretty people and pretty ugly people out there

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  • kikilizzo

    I used to look cooler than I was and get away with it. At least with strangers lol. Now I cant be bothered as much.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    How would she have the “personality of a cringey neck beard” ?

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    • severe social ineptitude (autism), poor hygiene, waifu pillows and the like

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      • SkullsNRoses

        It’s possible, just because someone is conventionally good looking doesn’t mean they are a functional or pleasant person.

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  • LloydAsher

    I'm more of an asshole than I look it.

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  • normal-rebellious

    No it's not normal, but it's common, I look like the philosopher I am but I act like a hectic, busy and introverted man but without the stereotypically anal look of neatly brushed short hair, suit, tie and a haircut, I look nothing like that, I have longish hair, an untrimmed beard, and a coat and you would think I'm lazy by the way my personality looks, yet I'm doing my home work (work at home) typing on a Word document, drinking takeaway coffee, succeeding at blending in the crowd, in the mainstream, it's not my physical appearance but longhair as I am people are into stereotypes, like thinking I'm a deadbeat.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    People at first minute meeting me think I'm preppy and narcissistic for some reason but I'm chill, nerdy and a self deprecating type lol so yeah it's normal for personality to not match appearance

    Oh and I look like a teenager or early 20s but I'm in my 30s so they expect me to talk more young and like a typical gen z until I open my mouth

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  • litelander8

    😂😂😂

    Yes.

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  • Tinybird

    Sounds like me, except I'm attracted to males.

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    • I thought you were asexual, and besides what does this have to do with attraction

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      • Tinybird

        1. I never said I was asexual. I talk a lot about asexuality and how it's the same as "aromantic". But I never claimed to be asexual, because I experience attraction, albeit to very strange and specific things, to the point where I may as well be asexual, because I will never find someone irl I am attracted to.
        2. Because you replied to someone else above that "neckbeards are not attracted to males."

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Id just fucker probably. Dont have to get married or buy every girl a new car. Dumb girls can be kind of attractive in their own way.

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    • notmyrealname123

      she said that she uses waifu pillows and has poor hygiene

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        Before doggy style just rip open one of those alcohol pads and swipe her butthole with it

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