Is it normal heard of this before??

Any strong emotion makes me have to go really badly.

There used to be a lady working at the residential home I live in – the manager and her daughter – who made a rule that I should only be allowed to pee every 2hrs for the good of my quality of life. It hurt. My chair would rock backwards and forwards as I tried to hold it in, unable to speak properly, my face twisted in agony.

Voice a dry rasp from the sheer pain in my (now known to be so small it may as well not exist) bladder, I'd use my pendant to call, only for other staff to say they weren't allowed to help me and leave. I believe this was for fear of job loss from that evil woman, though some absolute angels did so anyway. Then her daughter would tell her mum all about how I hadn't made it to the toilet again . She said I kicked her (I didn't) and cursed her (I'm pagan) & both would say “no good asking, you'll never get medical help for it” and “why did you do that at your age, you didn't need to”

1 of the other inmates blew the whistle on the manager, and her daughter, now the residential home is the sort of place all residential homes should be – the staff are lovely – but I'm still afraid both women will come back, and when I need to go I panic and shake, petrified. I'm now taking certain measures to ease said problems, but I still have bad dreams.