Is it normal husband wants to wear dresses

They hide their fetishes for fear of rejection. No matter how much people love each other, usually for a woman to hear that their man has as much if not more lingerie or dresses than she does, well society and the "moral majority" has been pounding things into peoples minds that things work like this and anything from that normal by their "standards" well, hell they are the outcasts, the "freaks" , or just not acceptable to "social standards". So instead of a "live and let live" society, people for the most part are so fucking judgmental because "society" told them how it should or shouldnt be. If a guy wants his wife to fuck him in the ass with a strapon, who are we to give a crap what goes on behind closed doors. If the wife wants to fuck other women with a strapon, again, who the hell are we to make judgements on others and what they do behind closed doors.
So many people are busy in the neighborhood gossip gazette and trying to see what others do so that they might somehow have a juicy "oh yea, listen to this" kind of a story to tell at the next neighborhood bbq.
Myself, i dont advertise it but i dont keep it to much secret anymore that yea, i am a crossdresser since age 13. I have no idea why at the time why i had wondered about how it would feel to wear a bra. Most of my friends know and and it dont matter to them. And if it does matter to them, then they dont matter to me.
We may not all agree with what others do in private, but a fetish is a fetish is a fetish. Be it one that you agree with or not. But on the other hand they may not agree with whatever your feyishes are or may be. Just look at things from both or all sides before you decide to be a huge prick and pass judgement. There is only one that i feel can pass judgement on me and it make a difference, that would be the Good Lord above. So why not leave the judging to him and live and let live.

Is that what you do then?

Because she like masculinity not femininity

guys shouldn't wear dresses

I don’t know why! I don’t have a problem with women wearing trousers even though once upon a time that was totally unacceptable behaviour. Now it’s considered normal. But the idea of men wearing skirts/dresses is not acceptable to the majority in our society, which when you think about it is totally hypocritical. Yet I still have a problem with it, even though I can’t explain why. What makes it even more hypocritical is once upon a time men dressed in tunics and tights. These were far more like the short dresses women often wear these days which would have been considered outrageous at the time if a woman had dressed that way. They were expected to wear longer skirts that hid their legs.

It was actually more interesting and shorter than 90% of them. Dont be such a dick.

Exactly, would it kill OP to use paragraphs?

Here’s the thing. I could never describe him as a sissy. Growing up his step father was extremely violent and used to belt him regularly, in his teens he started to intervene when his step father was in one of his drunken rages and beating his mother up yet again.

At 15 he found out his step father had been regularly rapping his sister for about 4 years since she was 12. At this point he went berserk and that night when he came home my husband attacked him with a kitchen knife ready to kill him. He was stabbed but didn’t die but he had been so drunk, when he woke up in hospital he didn’t know what had happened. My husbands mother made out it was self defence and as everyone knew what he was like they believed her.

At 18 he joined the military and went on to be in special forces for 10 years. I don’t know details but I know he saw and did some terrible things. Since leaving the military he’s worked in construction in what I would very much describe as a mans world.

Oh yeah. God forbid men be feminine. We all know feminine men are disgusting because being feminine is weak. Nice.

Wow! What the hell does that mean?

It never actually grew on me but I accepted it with some difficulty. It’s not that I’m homophobic or anything like that but it came as a huge shock to me. In the end I accepted it but I found it difficult when one minute he would be strutting round in his boxer shorts and looking like the guy I married, then the next day he takes his trousers off and he’s wearing a frilly little pair of knickers. I can’t really explain why but in the end I just felt I needed to know what to expect when I saw him taking his clothes off. I gave him the choice but told him it was all or nothing whatever he chose. But it was still our secret, if he starts wearing female outer clothing like dresses and skirts sooner or later he will get caught, then it’s out there and there’s no hiding it.