Is it normal i’m jealous over my twin’s boyfriend

I have a twin sister and we are really close, like close close. We have both taken the exact same path in life and we are now studying the exact same subject at the exact same university while sharing the same apartment, clothes, shoes, everything else. We used to spend hours upon hours together every day ever since we were born. We even think in sync and often complete each other’s sentences or say the exact same word at the same time.

Now to the issue. It’s more of a me problem than anything else:
She recently got herself a boyfriend and she isn’t spending as much time with me as before. While I’m happy for her, I do feel that the guy stole my sister from me. I guess (or hope) that I will get over it soon. ✌️

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  • MrToxic

    It's fairly common for siblings that're close to struggle with them having a new person come in and impact the status quo you're used too. It's important you don't let these feelings of jealousy impact your behaviour/judgement. Many in your situation tend to look for reasons to have that person taken out of the picture, failing to realise the impact it can have. Your siblings happiness should be priority. You are however, allowed to express your feelings to them.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Threesome

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  • Cable4nerds

    I’m sure you’ll get over it one way or another. It’s probably healthy to have space but also for them to make time for family too and not be consumed by a relationship. Happens all the time.

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  • Somenormie

    You'll eventually get over it one way or another.

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  • JustAHuman

    You share everything else. Can't you share the boyfriend?

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  • Tinybird

    Yeah I hate couples and people who get boyfriends and spend less time with their friends and family.

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