Is it normal i always get involved when my brother beats his gf

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My brother gets into terrible physical fights with his girlfriends (yes he has more than one) and he obviously wins these fights because he’s physically stronger. He doesn’t always start them, but as a guy, you should know that your punches are waaay stronger than your girlfriends. He does a lot more damage than they ever could.

I’m like always the only other person home when these fights go down so I feel the need to break it up, but I get always my ass kicked in the process. He broke my nose the last time and that was like two weeks ago. I fucking hate being that one person, but when it’s like 2am and all you hear is yelling and crying, you kinda feel the need to get involved.

I wish I could just stop listening or like find a way to block it out so I wouldn’t feel the need to go over there and take the ass beating so these girls wouldn’t have to. My position fucking sucks and I would never call the cops on my brother, that’s a fucked up thing to do as a sister. I can’t even get these girls to stop coming back because they’re dumb as hell.

What should I do? Why do I feel the need to get involved? And why does everyone fucking suck bags of dicks?

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  • Fugazi,again
    4 years ago

    Call the cops. Hopefully he'll spend a few days or weeks in jail and we'll see how many fights he starts in there. Maybe it will teach him a lesson or at least give you a break from his bullshit.

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    • Fugazi,again
      4 years ago

      And it's not fucked up to call the cops on him, it's fucked up that he thinks it's okay to hit women (including you probably).

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      • darklantern
        4 years ago

        Not just women, anyone

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    Learn pressure points and how to redirect momentum in your favor. Pretty soon you'll be kicking his ass and he will be crying like a baby.

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  • Bobtailcatgirl
    4 years ago

    That's horrible abuse is never okay.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Why on Earth would calling the cops on your brother be a fucked up thing for a sister to do? He's obviously a terrible person, and last time I checked assault is a criminal offense, so if he broke your nose the last time you got involved then you honestly have the right to not only call the cops on your brother for domestic abuse, but to press charges on him for assaulting you!

    Why would it be any more wrong for you to call the police on your brother for assaulting not only his "girlfriends", but yourself as well? Why does he deserve to not face any consequences for his criminal actions? Where are your parents?

    Honestly, if he were my brother I would have called the cops on him the first time he ever assaulted anyone, and honestly I'd be down to get some hidden camera footage of him, and post the footage on YouTube as well as turn it over to the police. I don't believe that just because someone is a blood relative of mine that he, or she deserves to be absolved from facing the consequences of his, or her actions.

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    • darklantern
      4 years ago

      I wouldn’t call the cops on my brother either. He doesn’t hit his girlfriends but even if he did. I’d try to stop him but I think it’s fucked up. I don’t know if you have a sibling but if you don’t then it’s kinda hard to explain and if you do then idk. Different people I guess

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        Yes, I have a sister who is three years my junior, but when it comes to abusive behavior I DON'T believe in all of that blood this thicker than water stuff.

        My sister told me a few years back that she had choked her ex-fiancé, and once punched him in the groin, because he called her a bitch. I believe that such behavior is abuse. One of my best guy friends from that time said they were both assholes who deserved each other.

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  • Zonfire80
    2 years ago

    Tell him to stop that shit. Then report him if it gets out of hand.

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  • darklantern
    4 years ago

    Empathy is always right. Whatever feels right is right. The world would be a much better place if everyone lived by those principles

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