Is it normal i always get rejected in my dreams?

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So whenever I dream about someone, fictional or real, that I'm attracted to, I get rejected by them. Whether I'm trying to initiate friendship or some flirting, they always ignore or reject me, finding me creepy and disagreeable. I'm not into it, it's not a kink or something I enjoy, it makes me very sad and even more sad when I wake up because I know I've missed the opportunity to be held or validated by someone I admire. I'm stupid lonely irl and these dreams are super not helping. Are these kinds of dreams normal? If not, how do I fix it?

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    They are probably a reflection of your fear of rejection and an indicator that you need to work on your confidence.

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  • [Old Memory]
    3 years ago

    So not even in your dreams, huh? Damn.

    Really it sounds to me like you have a fear of rejection and low self confidence and your dreams are just reflecting this. Try to be more confident and im sure you'll be fine.

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  • Jamie_Sulky
    3 years ago

    dreams are confusing. They don't necessarily portray accurately how you want to feel. After I broke up I would dream a lot about was my ex, even though I was over her. Don't let it get to you. It could mean this or that, but then again people have dreams where they blaze weed with jesus and it doesn't always mean anything. Have some confidence, and you'll be fine.

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  • freelarking
    3 years ago

    Seriously not fair! This is the one place things should go your way.

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