Is it normal i automatically think the worst of mod messages on any site?
I'm not a trouble maker. I don't troll, I don't harass people. In general the only time I break any rules of a site, are because I either forgot, or I had a moment of being stupid.
So the thing is, whenever a moderator messages me, I automatically, like on reflex assume the worst. After all Mods never seem to just give a friendly hello, it's always about; "You did so, and so, and bla bla, ban warning."
I hate getting Mod messages so much, that I've deleted two profiles of social sites I used to be on, because a Mod one day messaged me out of the blue. I was like; "Well I'm not about to get bitched at, because of something stupid."
Anyone else ever feel this?