Is it normal i can never get off by fingering myself, and only by humping?

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This is regarding masturbation. I'm 22f, and I feel like this isn't normal. When other women talk about masturbating, it's usually stuff regarding touching oneself and fingering.

Trust me when I say I've tried every kind of approach I can think of regarding fingering.

Yeah fingering feels... alright... when I'm turned on, but it's never enough. It's not satisfying. I have to hump something to actually orgasm. I have to hump something to even get close fo orgasming. The sensation is much better, it feels more intense, and it fuels my fantasies better.

Is this weird?

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  • dude_Jones
    10 months ago

    Your sense of desire sounds very healthy. Good bedroom partners like you make orgasms pure catharsis.

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  • Dot123
    10 months ago

    Normal and hot.

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  • Diaperboy69
    9 months ago

    I may be able to help. Humping is the preferred method of masturbating for both men and women. Reason is of the pressure applied to the erect penis/clitoris in controlled movement. Also, it enables you to penetrate your anus with a finger. The dual stimulation is amazing. I would be happy to pay a house call and demonstrate. I could offer my leg to hump on while pushing my finger up your butthole.

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  • Tinybird
    10 months ago

    same

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  • raisinbran
    10 months ago

    Try humping a pillow or leg.

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    • Tinybird
      10 months ago

      pillows are too flat, not bumpy enough, I don't get why girls always hump pillows. Not the right shape.

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  • darefu
    10 months ago

    There's an anatomy lesson in here somewhere, but at the risk of actually posting a serious answer/comment here on IIN, I'll refrain and just say every human being is built a little different.

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  • litelander8
    10 months ago

    I thought that female masturbating meant fingering. Which it definitely includes it. But it’s the clitoris that gonna give that big O. So yes you are actually 100% correct.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    10 months ago

    I had a female dog like that

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  • newnormal
    10 months ago

    I have been with some girls who could not achieve orgasm through normal intercourse. They needed fingering or oral sex. However, I have also been with some who could climax through both sex and oral sex or hand jobs. You, sir, are lucky to be able to achieve orgasm through normal sex.

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  • JuicyTho
    10 months ago

    Yea normal. I cant get off by myself either. It all feels okayish but I need dick otherwise its pointless.

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