Is it normal i don't believe in unplanned pregnancy?

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I heard yet another, otherwise intelligent woman describing her life path.
She was dating and later married a man she met, after they found out she was pregnant.
I try to be polite.
I bite my tongue A LOT.
but, STUPID BITCH!
As if ANY adult educated woman has an ' unplanned ' baby.
How stupid are you?
If you're a woman and have sex without some type of protection.
You will get pregnant.
De De De.
Dumbass.

For a lied to man, yes. 6
For any intelligent adult female, no. 8
For rape victims, yes. 8
For a child that hasn't been taught sex ed, yes. 5
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  • Tealights
    4 years ago | pl

    Damn so if my IUD fails, I'm a dumbass!? NOOOOOO!!!!!

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    • mauzi
      4 years ago

      IUD, SIS - stay in school, cause it's the best!

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      • TerriAngel
        4 years ago

        Daaa
        Ftt.
        Finished school several years ago.
        My love life is fine.
        But also none of your affair.
        Thank you for checking in.
        My guess is, you just felt a need to say something.
        Maybe think a little first, and remember you don't need to post every random idea you have.

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        • mauzi
          4 years ago

          Take your own advice

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  • paramore93
    4 years ago

    Contraception isn't always 100% reliable, accidents happen.

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    • Mark92
      4 years ago

      Thats why there is plan b, aka pills....

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        4 years ago

        Plan B isn't always effective.

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      • TerriAngel
        4 years ago

        Mark.
        Thank you, for common sence.

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        • Mark92
          4 years ago

          Ikr, nothing is 100 % effective but better to try our best than to do nothing and complain.

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          • TerriAngel
            4 years ago

            Mark.
            Again.
            Sir, thank you for actually reading the post, and considering the topic.

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    • TerriAngel
      4 years ago

      Paramore, can you read?
      I said, without protection.

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      • charli.m
        4 years ago

        And everyone has said that pregnancies can occur even with protection. Your question does not allow for that. It allows for the binary of a) "Unplanned" pregnancy due to negligence and/or lack of intelligence (ironic...) and b) Use protection, no pregnancy will result.

        You always word your questions poorly and fail to understand what you write, (and what others write unless it suits you). When your only communication method is words, as it is online, it is YOUR job to make sure you communicate your ideas effectively, not ours. You failing to hit the mark every time then tantruming about it speaks very loudly as to your own education and intelligence levels.

        Silly, silly terrence.

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        • TerriAngel
          4 years ago

          Charlene
          Well said.
          Not well thought out.
          I am simply saying that for an educated adult woman to claim that her pregnancy was a surprise.
          Is B.S. 99% of the time.
          Birth control works.
          Very rarely does it fail.
          How is this even an arguement?
          Numbers don't lie.
          Look at statistics.
          Properly used, birth control is very effective.
          So these accidents...
          Aren't.

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          • charli.m
            4 years ago | pl

            Terrence.

            Everything
            you just

            said
            pefectly supports every
            point I
            made. So

            I guess
            there's nothing more to say.

            There's
            no arguing with

            the terminally stupid, as

            evidenced

            by
            the
            idiot

            who doesn't understand her

            own original post.

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            • IrishPotato
              4 years ago

              Jskcoteibpfffft hahahah

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            • [Old Memory]
              4 years ago

              😂😂

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            • TerriAngel
              4 years ago

              Charlene.
              We have well spoken, but pointless arguements.
              I represent reality.
              You like colorful language.
              Damn but we'd have fun on a debate team.
              Problem is, I'm always right.

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          • IrishPotato
            4 years ago

            Does this guy honestly believe there's birth control with a 100% success rate?

            Lol.

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            • TerriAngel
              4 years ago

              Irish not sure who you're talking to?
              But, I have 2 kids.
              Birth control did and does work fine for me and my daughter.
              Is it a 100%.
              No.
              But I haven't had any surprises either.
              Properly used birth control is very, VERY effective.
              If you can read?
              My post is about grown adult, educated women who do NOT use protection.
              Then act surprised when they become pregnant.
              Not using birth control, is the very definition of TRYING to get pregnant.

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      • paramore93
        4 years ago

        You didn't specify that she didn't use protection so

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  • bigbudchonga
    4 years ago

    It's interesting, but those people who are "dumbasses", are outbreeding the rest of us. Your premise makes sense, but those who are currently winning the evolutionary race are the ones who poses the trait of "fuck it I cba with protection."

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    • TerriAngel
      4 years ago

      Big bud.
      Valid point.
      I can't and won't try to argue it.
      Folks with a brain, with even a little money, with any concept of responsibility, or planning for the future.
      Are NOT the ones having accidental births and dropping kids in litters.

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      • bigbudchonga
        4 years ago

        Yup. Manifest dysgenics. Unfortunately, I doubt the West will do anything about it until it crushes us.

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        • TerriAngel
          4 years ago

          Big bud.
          I see the writing on the wall just as well.
          I'm not having anymore kids.
          I don't advize anyone to.
          Between overbreeding .
          The redistribution of money.
          The pollution.
          The world and society are both headed for the toilet.
          ' the west ' is getting breed out, bought out, and sold out.
          As we speak.
          Just fed calories and Wi-Fi enough to keep the population under control.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Condoms break and that 1% in birthcontrol can still happen. Some do use protection but it doesn’t 100% always work. I myself use a secondary substitute just to be extra sure I don’t pop out a mistake. I’m far from ready to even consider one. Those who don’t use anything and act like it was a unplanned thing did have it comming but don’t go judging them all.

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    • TerriAngel
      4 years ago

      Twerkn.
      You agree with me.
      Spot on.
      You dis me for judging them.
      It's just my opinion.
      If you as an educated adult try the head butt beer can crush on a glass bottle. Get hurt and say ouch, didn't think that would hurt.
      I'll call a spade a spade.
      You're a dumbass.
      That's reality.
      I'm not judging your lip gloss, or taste in music.
      THAT'S BEING JUDGEMENTAL.
      I'm just calling out stupidity.

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      • [Old Memory]
        4 years ago

        “An example of judgemental would be; People that make assumptions about you based on what you say or look like, they are judging you. However, being judgemental is also when a person feels the need to categorize you or compartmentalize different people into thier own stereotypical status system”

        There ya go. Found that for ya. So to make this clear you aren’t categorizing all people who had a unplanned pregnancy to truly have it planned?

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        • charli.m
          4 years ago

          It's too stupid to understand. It can't even understand its own post.

          There's no fixing the arrogant fucking retarded with a superiority complex.

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        • TerriAngel
          4 years ago

          Twerk.
          All I said was don't be an adult female, having sex.
          Then act as if getting pregnant was a surprise.
          Not using protection, while having sex.
          That's pretty much the definition of trying to get pregnant.
          So don't act surprised when it happens.
          Don't act like it was unplanned.
          Don't pretend you didn't know
          A+B= baby.
          You insult yourself and everyone else to pretend you had a surprise pregnancy.

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          • [Old Memory]
            4 years ago

            Tearbear.
            Yeah I get it. As long as you aren’t running around pointing fingers thinking every unwanted kid was a unprotected thing.

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            • TerriAngel
              4 years ago

              Twerk.
              The kids are the ones I feel for,
              If anyone.
              No different then the crackheads that get pets, then drops the litters along the roadside.
              I don't have ANYTHING against the child.
              I sures hell didn't get to choose the woman I was born to.
              But I do hold adult educated women with birth control options in a western society liable for their actions.
              We have access to birth control.
              It works, really well.
              So, unless you want a baby.
              Use it.

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  • karmasAbich
    4 years ago

    Dis is stoopid

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    I wasn't planned. My first wasn't planned... Not everyone regrets having a baby. And it's also REALLY hard to "plan" to have a baby. They come when they come. People have been doing it since people existed. It's nothing to be upset about.

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    • TerriAngel
      4 years ago

      Lite land.
      I'm not upset.
      Just calling it for what it is.
      The upset part is women.
      Grown women claiming it's a surprise or unplanned.
      Sex without protection IS PLANNING TO GET PREGNANT.
      TRYING in fact.
      It's not a mystery.
      How are you not getting it?
      Basic biology.

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      • Columbusbiguy
        4 years ago

        I hear what you are rambling about throughout and while i dont necessarily agree with you, i see your contention. However, your best suumation statement for your position is, in my opinion, "Sex without protection IS PLANNING TO GET PREGNANT." While I dont agree with that statement, I think the argument that I would make is, sex without protection, IS WILLING TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES IF THEY GET PREGNANT.

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      • litelander8
        4 years ago

        Based off the rest of the replies, no one understands what you're getting at. Most babies are unplanned. Once again, that's ok. We have a uterus that's sole purpose is to make babies. Even when we ovulate ( most people don't notice) women are WAY hornier.

        I just looked at your poll. It only has a few responses. Because is kinda sucks.

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  • badmanalive
    4 years ago

    I’m pretty sure you have to be at least 18 to post on this site.

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    If you look at the statistics then yes, some people aren't using contraception, or aren't using it properly, and I agree that this is pretty stupid. If everyone used condoms plus hormonal or long acting contraception then there would be very few unplanned pregnancies. But they would still occur. It's just basic math that they would still occur because no contraception is 100% effective. And even someone who abstains from sex could get raped or something.

    So I think a lot of unplanned pregnancies are people being stupid, but to say that all unplanned pregnancies are people being stupid makes you sound stupid too. It's not statistically possible.

    Also, hats off to the women in those situations who choose to keep the baby. Please don't call them stupid because they've done nothing wrong and faced up to their mistakes like adults.

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  • Mark92
    4 years ago

    Same goes for men you misogynistic asshole !

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago

    It's almost like humans have signs that show they are pregnant and know how cause and effect work. Two people do it and if one isnt infertile they could have a baby as a result. If you are concerned about a baby double the birth control: condoms, and birth control, pull out if you want to increase it. Or abstinence if you want to he 100% and weird.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    So who hasn't been taking their lithium lately?

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  • Unknown_player
    4 years ago

    Theres no sure way of having sex without the risk of pregnancy. Contraception reduces the chance but it's still there the one sure way to not become pregnant or get STIs is to not have sex. So if you think unplanned pregnancy or getting pregnant by accident is a thing...then think of this you had sex dummie. Sex leads to fetus...didn't think I had to write that one out for ya

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    • TerriAngel
      4 years ago

      Unknown.
      You just reposted my point.
      So, not really sure what you think you are adding?
      1 Birth control is 99.8% effective.
      2 yes, it can fail.
      3 Using no prevention is in essence, trying to get pregnant.

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