Is it normal i don't think women who date transwomen can be considered lesbians?
There's a lot of transwomen with penises who call themselves lesbians and the women who date them. But as a lesbian myself, I don't think any woman who likes dick, whether attached to a man or trans person, can be considered a lesbian. If we liked dick, we'd be straight or bisexual. I got called a TERF and transphobe because of this.