Is it normal i don't trust men?

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Growing up, my brothers would beat, choke, and molest me. Despite seeing the bruises and knowing they were molesting me, my parents didn't care. In fact, when my main brother who beat me would do it, she would call the police and tell them I was suicidal and they took me away in handcuffs. She also let the brother who molested me from six to seven move back in with us when I was 16. He switched from shoving his fingers up my vagina and anus to grabbing my breasts and pinching my nipples. The police, mainly the very aggressive male cop who was designated for psych calls, got pleasure out of humiliating me and I had several rumors spread about me I was a criminal.

The brother who beat me committed suicide, and I finally got the pedophile cut out of my family because I had my boyfriend message everyone and tell them what happened to me and who did it. I actually had to sit with mom and force her to delete him off of social media and she said, "Because of you one of my children is dead to me." So I'm still to blame.

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  • gamerdad
    2 years ago

    it is normal I don't trust women no wait I don't trust anyone not even myself.

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  • Billy24
    2 years ago

    After the pain and trauma that was inflicted on you by sacks of shit i can definitely understand why you would have a mistrust for men. You have endured trauma which has caused you to have mistrust when it comes to men therefore, i'm not going to judge you. Btw your parents are shitty!

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    I think it would be expected that you don't trust men after the horrible things you have endured in your life.

    Your mother is in deep denial, if it were any worse I would say that your mother is in such deep denial that she ought to dress up as Cleopatra for Halloween so she can ride in her barge on de Nile.

    Have you tried getting any help to work through your trauma?

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