Is it normal i dont want to see my family since i was a worthless houseslave

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So my parents where never supportive. Even on logical things like getting a job at 16 so I could pay college at 18. They said anyone getting a job before 18 drops out of college. Fast foward at 18 my mom leftmy dad, my dad had a break down and demanded I help him commit suicide. After which I lived with my mother for a bit but she became quickly very abusive. Even after I moved away is sending angry texts saying I owe her money and need to quit my job and take care of my alchoholic little brother. So after years of ignoring everyone my religious grandmother is asking me go visit her and my dad but I just dont trust my parents anymore. To my mom I wasborn to giver her all my money and be free house labor and I dont want to be a worthless house slave anymore. I know thats what I was born to be and its my destiny but I thought if I escaped I could do better. Now I am in hiding from my insane mother and when I think of my dad I just think about how I failed to fullfill his wish of death.

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  • Grunewald
    1 year ago

    Run for the hills. Then give the money you would have given your mother, to a therapist, and cooperate. Once you have progressed in your healing and have enough money to sustain your own living on, then you can think about helping that family out. You probably won't be ready to do that very soon.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I already have all that.

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      • Grunewald
        1 year ago

        Then keep doing it. Don't turn back until you're absolutely ready, and don't try to hurry that process along.

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  • kelili
    1 year ago

    It's better not to go there. Your mental health matters.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    They sound like lunatics, I think it's perfectly sane, and healthy to want to not see your family.

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